How should high school students fall in love with teachers?

For a class teacher, it is a pleasure to let students concentrate on their studies. However, today's class teachers often encounter some phenomena that they have to face, that is, students' puppy love. Puppy love is a complex problem, not a simple one. It needs the cooperation between family and school. Puppy love is a problem that puzzles middle school students' feelings and is difficult for parents and schools to solve. You can refer to the following treatment methods.

First of all, know the situation

If the class teacher finds that there are students in puppy love, he should keep abreast of the students' situation and psychological problems. We are all students, and we all had a period of youth when we were curious about the opposite sex because of hormonal changes and wanted to attract others' attention. After understanding the situation, make a judgment on handling.

Second, keep calm.

The class managed by the head teacher should keep a cool head when some students fall in love. When you face each other, don't treat the face-to-face appearance as strict discipline or a lot of rhetoric. Don't criticize or stop people who don't understand the situation, which will be counterproductive for students who are in adolescence and still have rebellious psychology.

Third, private communication.

When the class teacher finds puppy love, he can communicate privately to solve the problem. When communicating privately, we should pay attention to our attitude and tone, understand students' psychological state, protect students and their privacy, and treat students as independent individuals, not children. Middle school students have their own thoughts.

Fourth, skillfully cooperate with family education.

The tendency of children's puppy love is a sensitive topic for parents. In order to achieve the ideal educational effect, parents must cooperate. How to achieve a good educational effect without expanding the problem, the class teacher should adopt correct and ingenious strategies, such as letting parents often communicate with their children the meaning and methods of making friends, paying attention to their children's changes at ordinary times, teaching their children to do some housework at weekends, letting them know the meaning of family life and enhancing their sense of family responsibility; Parents are also required to tell their children about the relationship between love, marriage and family with their own personal experiences, so that children can realize the influence of puppy love on life and help them establish correct values.