According to the law of decreasing children's potential, a person has an optimal period of intellectual development in the process of growing up. This optimal period is crucial and plays a decisive role in a person's intellectual development throughout his life. Don't miss it. The key to developing children's early intelligence is to seize the best period.
First, children's favorite food is the best food.
If the baby has already felt your care and caress, it means that you have been educating him.
Parents should relieve their children's unhappiness anytime and anywhere, perceive their children's needs with the keenest senses, and successfully perceive their children's needs, which is the beginning of their success. This is the first successful bond between parents and children, which will provide a good emotional foundation for future education and training.
German proverb: a person's character depends on food.
The food you like is the best food, so give him only the food you like, but don't let him eat meat until he is two years old.
In the first half of a child's life, keep regular feeding and drinking, and form a regular biological clock. Only drink water between meals and eat nothing else, lest his stomach always get no rest, and his blood always works in his stomach instead of concentrating in his brain. If the child's energy is only used for digestion, then the brain will not develop well.
Eating too much not only hinders brain development, but also harms children's health and is prone to gastrointestinal diseases.
Eating too much will also make children's brains full of the concept that "eating can solve everything" from an early age. It will make him feel that eating and filling his stomach is the only way to eliminate the uncomfortable feeling. When he grows up, this idea of eating will turn into an idea of relying too much on material things.
Remind parents who love their children that there must be a limit to everything, including eating.
To love a child is not to care for him blindly, but to obey him blindly. We should be cautious about training and education. To cultivate excellent children, we must start from these small details in life.
Someone once said: different stomachs will make different people, which can determine this person to become a genius and a misanthrope. The meaning of this sentence not only shows the influence of eating on the human body, but also has many influences on people.
Second, let the son keep a healthy mood.
Proverbs: A sound spirit resides in a healthy body.
After careful nutrition and physical training, babies can grow into healthy and lively children. Carl trained his son's body when he was young.
1. Happiness is the key to health. First, decorate the surrounding environment. The surrounding atmosphere is gloomy, and the child will inevitably have indigestion and good health. Therefore, the room where children live should be pleasant from the beginning.
When a baby sleeps, it must not be wrapped tightly like a rag doll. Let his body move freely so as not to interfere with her hands and feet. Because this activity is a baby's exercise.
A healthy person needs freedom, not bondage, even if it looks comfortable.
3. Train children to grasp the fingers of adults: Babies are born with the ability to grasp the reflex, just like hanging the horizontal bar to pull up the upper body. Two months later, when the big reflex disappeared, his arm had been practiced quite forcefully, which created conditions for crawling training in advance.
4. Cultivate children's bathing nature. Pay attention to adjust the water temperature. Bathing children and massaging their hands and feet every day can not only develop their sense of touch, but also promote blood circulation and flexibility of limbs.
Third, let my son realize from an early age that begging can't be fun.
Adults have a desire to be valued by others, and children are no exception. Newborn babies will also have this instinctive desire that is almost natural to adults.
Some people gain the attention of others through their own talents, while others gain the respect of others through their own efforts. Such people really deserve respect. However, there are also many people who are eager to get the attention of others and take the attitude of begging for charity. This kind of practice not only won't be respected by others, but will arouse others' antipathy, which can be said to be a very stupid attitude.
Calvert said: The fundamental reason why children cry when they are not hungry or sick is to remind us not to ignore them. I stopped my wife from holding the baby when she was crying, just to make little Carl feel that it is impossible to win others' attention by crying and pleading. More importantly, you should also find happiness for yourself when you can't get the attention of others.
Fourth, start with training his five senses.
All the abilities of children in infancy can never be developed unless they are used and developed. From training children's five senses, not the skin of eyes, ears, nose and mouth. Stimulate brain development, and development begins. Because hearing, sight, taste, smell and touch are the physiological basis of human perception of the outside world, fully stimulating children's sensory organs can promote and make all parts of the brain active. If all functional areas of the brain can exert their maximum efficiency, they will become a smart person.
(The brain science basis of the concept of baby reading: the construction of brain neural network is developed through information stimulation, and the channels connecting the inside and outside of the brain are visual hearing, smell, taste and touch. If we give a child a lot of rich information to stimulate, his brain neural network will be more developed and the child will be smarter. )
Among the five senses, ear hearing develops earliest, because the baby's hearing develops earlier than his vision. Mother's voice is extremely important when training listening.
Six weeks after the baby's son was born, Carl gently read poems to her. Mother often sings for him. My son can recite many poems when he is one year old. This kind of recitation is by no means mandatory, but naturally learned.
Effective eye training is also an important step to develop children's intelligence. You can move the toy at any time to stimulate her vision. (In the concept of early childhood education after children read classics, children's eyes are trained and their intelligence is developed by flashing cards and pictures. )
In terms of taste, in addition to stimulating his son's taste, considering that eating too much polysaccharide and salt is not good for his health, he has always insisted on eating light food for his children, which can not only maintain their taste sensitivity, but also avoid developing the bad habit of eating too much polysaccharide and salt.
After the full moon, the child can raise his head, so he pushes her feet with his hands and trains him to crawl.
Parents must let their children learn to crawl as soon as possible, because prone is the most suitable posture for their babies. When the baby is crawling, the neck muscles develop rapidly, the head is held high, and he can look around freely. The chances of being stimulated by various kinds of stimuli increase, which will greatly promote the development of the brain and make the child smart.
After children's vision is developed, they can cultivate their observation ability through colorful colors, such as copying various famous paintings and imitating this sculpture.
Cultivate children's sense of color. If you don't cultivate your child's color vision from an early age, then her color vision will be very dull. The crayon color contest is a good training method. )
Let children pay attention to something and develop the habit of observing things keenly. You can use carefully watched games, which is also very effective in developing children's memory.
It is of great significance to cultivate children's observation ability to let children's hands play multiple functions as much as possible. It takes a long time for a baby to know his own hands. In order for children to find their hands as soon as possible, they can only do something.
Children are living things, so it is natural to constantly exert their energy. In order not to let his potential be wasted, we should try our best to carry out various effective guidance. It is the motivation of children. They have something to do, and they will never eat their fingers, get bored or even cry because they have nothing to do.
Fifth, instill vocabulary into 15-day-old son.
The best period of intellectual development is crucial and plays a decisive role in a person's intellectual development throughout his life. Don't miss it.
Children are at the best stage of language development before the age of three, so it is very important to teach children language as soon as possible. Because language is not only a tool for thinking, but also a tool for accepting knowledge. Without this tool, we can't get any knowledge.
If a child can master the accurate prediction before the age of six, then the child will develop very fast, which is beyond the reach of other children anyway.
Babies are very sensitive to human voice and noise from an early age, which shows that it is feasible to teach children language from an early age. When will it be early? I advocate instilling vocabulary into children from 15 days and teaching them to speak when they just know how to recognize things. (Babies who read classics start a lot of language stimulation and vocabulary infusion during pregnancy. )
Parents should provide their children with an environment to listen and opportunities to talk, and talk to their children as soon as possible, because the six-week-old baby will respond to the voice of conversation. Parents should seize this critical period, communicate with him as much as possible, and let him listen to the next level.
When children begin to learn to speak, their pronunciation will not be completely accurate, so teaching children pure pronunciation is the most important thing at this stage, otherwise it will be difficult for children to correct inaccurate or vague pronunciation after they get used to it.
In the process of teaching children language, very useful methods are:
1. Make a pure sound.
It is best to practice the pronunciation game after the child has finished learning for an hour, because at this time, the mood is the best and the effect is the best, so pay attention to the timing. When communicating with children, let them look at our faces, of course, it is best to see the mouth movements.
2. Start with the things around you.
Teach you what you see in life, pay attention to step by step, make it easy first and then difficult, and keep practicing every day.
3. Tell stories to enhance affinity with the world.
The best way to cultivate children's affinity to the world is to tell stories, which can also exercise children's memory and inspire their imagination. Let the child not only listen, but also repeat.
Telling stories is the most effective way to educate children.
Choosing good books, such as masterpieces, and reading them to children clearly and slowly, and reading them clearly by parents, is the best way to teach children to learn a language well.
4. Try to enrich vocabulary.
Easy-to-understand nursery rhymes are pleasant in tone and easy to remember, which is conducive to enriching children's vocabulary.
5. Oppose teaching children incomplete words and dialects.
Incomplete words and dialects are harmful to children's language development. If a child is about two years old, if he can be taught to speak a formal language slowly and clearly, generally speaking, children can make sounds.
If you don't teach children what they could have learned, then their potential abilities will not be developed. There is nothing more stupid in the world.
A complete and standardized language is a language that children will learn sooner or later, but those semi-languages will soon be abandoned. Letting children learn two sets of languages is bound to create a double burden for children. Parents should never teach their children some incomplete words to avoid wasting time.
Teachers spend more time correcting students' problems than teaching them new knowledge.
There are such parents in society who take pleasure in their children saying the wrong thing. Instead of helping them correct it, they will make mistakes and go along with it. This is a big mistake.
6. Arm a clear mind with clear language.
If you want to have a clear mind, you must first have a clear vocabulary. Grammar is not the most important thing when teaching children a language. He doesn't need to study grammar specially, but learns by listening and speaking.