1, if you don't have passion to pursue in advance, you will interpret nostalgic melancholy afterwards, and direct possession will be boring. (nostalgia and pursuit)
2. As Ji Bolun said: Although the child is borrowed from you, it does not belong to you; You can give him love, but don't give him ideas, because he has his own ideas. If you insist on bringing your child to adulthood, when you do so, you are rudely depriving him of his childhood. (the value of childhood)
We can't keep all the beautiful moments in life. Everyone lives in change, and everyone's life is changing. So whether a person's life is wonderful or not lies not in how many treasures he keeps, but in how many wonderful moments he wants to stay but can't. It is these moments that constitute a flowing feast in his life. Of course, what you can't keep is sadness, but the treasure you never want to keep is even sadder. (life)
4. People only need to hide or lie when facing others. The self-deceiver is not facing his true self, but the role he plays in front of others. (life)
5. Many things we think must be done just because we put them on the agenda. If we know that our days are numbered and we can only accomplish one thing, we will judge what we really want to do. Then, even if we can live for a long time, why not use those days to limit what we have to do so as to leave more free time to enjoy life? (Get rid of the inertia of daily life)
6. Whether a person can become an excellent person can basically make his own decisions, and whether he can succeed in society depends largely on luck. Success is a by-product of Excellence.
7. If you are a smart person, you will know that the best luck should not exclude suffering, and the most dazzling brilliance should also be dull. (happiness and luck)
8. Money is only one of the conditions for us to get happiness at most, but it is by no means a sufficient condition, and it can never directly become happiness. (Money and Quality of Life)
9. Success is a social concept, and a person who directly faces God and himself will not attach too much importance to it. (life)
10, a person who doesn't know what he really wants must be in a mental state all the time. (life)
An awakened soul is marked by its sudden acute awareness and strong rejection of false life. At this time, it will feel pain because it is awake. (Spiritual life)
1 1. All the mysteries of existence are told by metaphor. For those who can understand, the sea, stars, seasons, wild flowers and babies are all talking, while those who can't understand can't hear anything. (Spiritual life)
12, people's spiritual self has two postures. When it rises to overlook the world, it sees the inevitability of limitations and produces philosophical understanding and detached state of mind. This is wisdom. When it stands on the earth and looks up at the sky, it yearns for perfection because of eternal defects and seeks transcendence because of the limitations of the flesh. This is faith. (Faith and Morality)
13. Writing poems will encourage people to observe the scenery in front of them more carefully and find the most exact words to express their feelings. (literature and art)
14. How can some people cherish their lives if they only regard themselves as machines for making money or earning other benefits all their lives? Some people only estimate the value of everyone else from the perspective of interests, so they have never experienced the deep concern of life for all other lives. (Life is the most basic value)
15. Women are closer to the way of nature than men, and her existence is more harmonious and inclusive. Men should be modest. (Women are the symbol of eternity)
16, sexual shame not only means taboo and cover-up, but also comes from sensitivity, excitement and curiosity about differences. (Story of Original Sin)
17, the passion of love leaves you, but you don't feel pain at all, because your dead heart has no ability to feel pain. (world and human feelings)
18, reading, writing, everything you really want to do, when you do it, you enjoy it. However, if time is limited and you do it in a hurry, enjoyment becomes a coolie. (thinking)
19, a person's childhood is best spent in the countryside. Children in the city have no childhood.
20. In the eyes of the viewer, the most beautiful flower is just a flower. Only when watching stops and communication and listening begin will the flowers show their spirit to talk to you. (talking to everything)
2 1, there is always a danger in a busy life, that is, being occupied by excitement, and gradually mistakenly thinking that excitement is life, and there is no life except excitement. In the end, there is really only excitement and no life. (eternal core of human life)
22. People should really live. Truth is not somewhere in this world, but an attitude towards the world, a life belief and criterion that we finally find for ourselves. (guidelines)
23. Love is not the freezing point in life, but a flowing river. (love)
24. Buddhism says that all dharmas are born of reason, and teaches us to see through impermanence and not to be persistent. However, a good marriage comes once in a thousand years, and it is hard to see whether it is coincidence or repair. (marriage)
25. A person who does nothing but force his children to do something is actually incompetent and frustrated; A person who works hard but lets his children grow freely, his despair is somewhat out of helplessness. Both kinds of people want to realize their unsuccessful wishes in children. (Children and Education)
26. Taking risks is like suffering. Onlookers are often more terrible than witnesses think. (happiness and suffering)