A letter to the parents of left-behind children
Dear parents of left-behind children:
Hello!
Out of a sense of responsibility for your family, you, like thousands of young parents in Qian Qian, chose to go out to work, hoping to change the fate of yourself and your family through your own labor. However, when you go to a foreign land with a simple dream, your children also have a name: left-behind children!
We know: why do you go out to work to earn money? You want to buy or build a better house, enjoy advanced high-end home appliances and let your children enjoy a happy life in the future. Through investigation, we found that what your children lack is not only money, but also family affection, fatherly love and maternal love, and the healthy development of character and character under the care of fatherly love and maternal love. You should also understand that when you go out to work and leave your children in the care of your grandparents, grandmothers and grandfathers, the elderly can only give them food and clothing. Moreover, some of them are old and weak, some can't take care of themselves, some are sick, and they often need someone to take care of them in their lives. They are incapable of taking full responsibility for your children. Some grandparents are afraid that they will abuse their children while you are away, and they are too fond of their grandchildren to be strict. Lead children to play too much and indulge in internet cafes; Some smoke and drink and get into bad habits; Some have weird personalities and are not good at making friends; Some drop out of school and wander in society; More seriously, some have embarked on the road of illegal crimes.
Parents, do you know? Not long ago, on June 9, four left-behind children in Cizhu Village, Tiankan Township, Qixingguan District, Bijie City, Guizhou Province committed suicide by taking poison because they could not accept the social reality of staying behind for a long time. Perhaps, when you know this from the media and newspapers, you think of the children you left at home, and your heart is bleeding. While condemning yourself, you may also condemn society. But we should rationally realize that apart from social responsibility, as biological parents, should we think about how much we have done right?
During this period, our Party committee and government are fully carrying out the care for left-behind children. The first step is to conduct a thorough interview and investigation of all left-behind children. The results of interviews and surveys show that the living conditions of all left-behind children are worrying: First, some left-behind children live with grandparents. Although you are not at home every month, most of them are 70 years old, and their lives are 70 years old. They all need someone to take care of them, but they still have to bear the burden of caring for their grandchildren. Second, some parents who go out to work turn a blind eye to the elderly and children at home from the day they pack their bags and leave home. They haven't called home for months, and some people even left their phone numbers at home for years or even longer. We are thinking: Where are your filial piety, sense of responsibility and conscience? Third, some children from single-parent families, because of their parents' emotional disharmony or divorce for various reasons, gambled on their own anger, and both sides left their children behind, leaving the young children to fend for themselves. We don't know what your independent living ability was when you were as young as them. Some children don't even have guardians. How old are the brothers and sisters who live alone at home and earn their own living? Seeing this situation, our hearts are bleeding. I wonder how you feel.
Dear parents, with such a good environment and such a good development prospect, why can't you give up the excellent environment of working outside and start a business nearby? This not only takes care of the elderly, but also takes care of the children, and also contributes to the development of our hometown. Why don't we do one more thing?
Dear parents, for the sake of your children, for the happiness of the rest of your life, for the sake of respecting the old and loving the young, you still have to think about what to do. In short, you have the greatest responsibility for raising children. If anything happens to your child, the Party committee and government will hold you accountable for your support according to relevant laws and regulations!
I am here to convey
Wish: Parents are happy in the face of your left-behind children!
Zhong * * * Hexing Town Committee
Hexing Town People's Government
June 23(rd)
A letter to the parents of left-behind children Part II
Dear parents of left-behind children,
Hello! First of all, I want to say to you: Thank you!
In order to improve the family's economic conditions, make the children live better, have a secure study and have a bright future, you should leave your relatives and friends, work or do business, and work hard in a foreign land, so that parents and children can't let go.
Yes, you know, due to the long-term lack of parental care, left-behind children are prone to psychological problems, especially moral, mental health, behavioral habits and other issues, which have seriously affected their healthy growth. Children can't get the love and care of their parents, loneliness and danger will wander around, and indifference and hatred will occupy their hearts. Casualties of left-behind children are common all over the country: 20 12, 1 1, and five left-behind children in Bijie City, Guizhou Province suffocated in the trash can; June 20 13, all three siblings of left-behind children in Nanchang City, Jiangxi Province drowned; 2065438+June 2005, four left-behind brothers and sisters died of collective pesticide poisoning in Qixingguan District, Bijie City, Guizhou Province? Some left-behind children have embarked on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes because of being induced by social undesirable elements. The sad life of left-behind children in many places is worrying.
What is a father? A good teacher. Prevent left-behind children from being disguised? Abandoned? The primary responsibility lies with the parents and families of left-behind children. As the first responsible person for the care of left-behind children, your parenting responsibility is not only to provide basic material survival guarantee for children, but more importantly, to give emotional care and care. From the legal point of view, China's Law on the Protection of Minors clearly stipulates that parents or other guardians should perform their guardianship duties and support obligations to minors according to law, and should respect their right to education; Parents or other guardians who fail to perform their guardianship duties shall bear the responsibilities according to law.
Dear parents and friends, left-behind children are your flesh and blood and the flowers of the motherland. They need your constant care and nourishment to grow up healthily. For the sake of children, we hope you can go back to your hometown to start a business, or find a job nearby, so that you can take care of your family and children more; Even if you want to go out to work, please take your children with you as much as possible, or leave one of your parents to guard your children; If you really can't take care of your children, no matter how busy and tired you are working outside, we hope you can always talk to your children on the phone and talk about their lives. Contact your child's teacher regularly to listen to your child's performance at school; On the occasion of festivals and children's birthdays, send simple blessings to children and let them feel the care of their parents. The love of parents is priceless to children. Only with your care can children grow up healthily. Isn't that why you went out to work?
We hope that the lesson of blood can sound a powerful alarm, make peers move, weave a more perfect emotional care network for left-behind children, and let their flower of life bloom brilliantly!
Finally, I wish all parents good health, smooth work and family reunion!
Wudi county caring next generation Committee Wudi county women's Federation
* * * Wudi County Justice Bureau of Wudi County Committee of Communist Youth League
Wudi county civil affairs bureau Wudi county education bureau
June 16
A Letter to the Parents of Left-behind Children (3)
Dear parents:
Hello! It's another year of hard work. You are reunited with your family for a short time, and the children are in your warm arms! How many days and nights did your child spend in expectation, waiting and disappointment? How I miss my parents! ? 、? How I wish my parents wouldn't go to work! ? This is the voice of children.
Every parent will give their child a nice name, because he or she is your baby and your hope. But since you are far away from your hometown and children, the baby has such a name:? Left-behind children Because parents are not around, grandparents may spoil their children more, because children can't make the right choice between right and wrong without parental discipline, and because of the lack of parental care and sunshine, they are replaced by loneliness, inferiority and indifference. How many teenagers are lost in this growing period without their parents! Some children lack safety awareness, causing accidental casualties, some children don't like studying, playing truant, surfing the Internet, develop bad behavior habits, and some even embark on the road of illegal crimes! Left-behind children are often injured, drowned, traffic accidents, beaten and trafficked, and among left-behind girls, they are often molested and seduced. When you read these reports, did you ever worry that this kind of thing might happen to your family and children?
Maybe you will say that going out to work is to give children a better growth environment, but you are wrong! Material wealth can't replace the lack of emotion. Without your love, your company and your correct guidance, your children can't grow up happily and healthily, and they won't be the dependence and pride of your family and family tomorrow! Maybe you finally have a place in the city through hard work, but suddenly you find that your children have no ability and skills to survive and develop in this city. Parents should train their children to succeed on their own, instead of feeding them with the fruits of their success!
I hope you can find a job nearby for your children not to stay! At present, the development zone enterprises in our county are booming and the urbanization process is advancing rapidly. Welcome you to work in the development zone, become a part of the economic construction of Taihu Lake and become a new citizen of this city. Only in this way can we create a material life and give children a sound, harmonious and warm growth environment. Please believe: love+companionship+education = children's bright future!
Wish: Good health! You did a good job. Happy family! All the best!
Taihu county women's Federation
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