Men want to have a good wife, but they often forget that a good wife comes before a good husband! I often hear male colleagues discuss their wives: after having children, I often complain and lose my temper easily! In their eyes, the wife is a dissatisfied housewife with a big temper! However, I have to say that a gentle wife often has a husband who takes good care of her.
And those wives with big temper, who are not angry themselves, have given everything and are always blamed! You complain and blame her for not dressing up and buying new clothes after marriage, like a middle-aged woman. Did you take the initiative to buy her a set of cosmetics and a new dress?
■ You complain that she talks too much and loses her temper. Did you listen carefully when she advised you to smoke less and drink less?
■ You complain that she is often angry when tutoring children. Did you take the initiative to share the pressure of raising children with her?
■ You always complain that your wife is not gentle enough. Have you ever thought about what you did for her after marriage?
In the meantime, a wife said angrily on the Internet:
"I have the highest status at home. I don't wash dishes, and no one dares to wash them. I don't cook. Nobody dares to cook. I don't mop the floor. Nobody dares to mop the floor ... "
Although it is a few words of ridicule, men all know that the lofty position of his wife here contains a lot of bitterness and helplessness. So instead of complaining about his wife all day, a husband should reflect on what he has done to his wife. In marriage, women are not afraid of the hardships of life, but of the "bitterness" given by their husbands. Marriage is not a matter for one person. Husband and wife should take care of each other. A husband is kind to his wife, and her wife will naturally be gentle and considerate!
A good husband makes a good wife. If a man is indifferent to his wife, she will naturally find fault with him; If a man is stingy with his wife, her face will naturally be depressed; If a man doesn't give his wife a sense of security, she naturally can't take care of family affairs calmly. Therefore, how good a man is to his wife determines how beautiful and gentle his wife is!
There is a saying that a good marriage depends on the wife's appearance. No matter which famous and successful man doesn't love his wife. And their wives, which one has traces of half a year on her face? Which one is not quiet and elegant, quiet and beautiful? Therefore, instead of accusing his wife of having a bad marriage, it is better to reflect on what he has not done well as a husband.
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Don't always say that men are not easy. Men only need to be a good husband in marriage, but women should not only be good wives, but also be good mothers and daughters-in-law. ...
Have a good husband first, then a good wife; Only a good husband is qualified to be a good wife. So what is a good husband?
1. A husband who reassures his wife is a good husband.
He knows your knife mouth and tofu heart, understands your duplicity, and knows that every time you quarrel, your malicious words are angry words; Therefore, he never cares, nor will he hold on to these angry words. He always tolerates you, tolerates you and loves you deeply. He understands your worry, so he never comes home late for no reason. Even for entertainment, he will go home early. He can't bear to wait for him at home alone. He knows that your thoughts are all because of love, so he tells you all the passwords, and he will tell you what he will do every time he goes out.
At any time, he gives you a full sense of security and makes you feel at ease!
A good husband is a well-prepared bowl full of water.
Many men will say to their wives, "My mother is not easy, you have to let her go! But this will often make the wife feel wronged in marriage, which will not only improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also deeply affect the relationship between husband and wife. Really smart men know that in a family, a bowl of water should be served well and full.
All virtues are filial first, and filial piety to the elderly is understandable. However, we should be reasonable in everything, and we should not be partial to our mother and wronged our wife. It is not easy for a mother to support herself, nor is it easy for a wife to manage the family and the outside. She respects the elderly and listens to their opinions in everything, but the decision is up to her. Such a man respects his wife and loves her dearly, and her wife will naturally be gentle and considerate, filial and sensible. Therefore, a good husband will have a good wife.
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A doting husband is a good husband.
It is not a duty for a husband to spoil his wife, but an obligation. If a husband wants to support his family, he must love his wife.
Sunshine, the wife favored by her husband, will pass this warmth on to the whole family.
The wife who is considerate by her husband is radiant and amazing.
The wife who is taken care of by her husband is full of love, and will use this love to educate children, honor the elderly and give her husband a happy future.
Therefore, a good husband first, then a good wife! I hope all men can understand how good you are, how good your wife is, how good your wife is and how happy your family is!