Chu Jiu's friendship comes from the Book of the Later Han Dynasty. Wu has a biography. At that time, Shamu, a public servant, came to visit imperial academy. He had no money, but he became a guest servant in order to rent money. Yu Yu was frightened and decided to give it to Chu Jiu. " It means not to be too poor to make friends.
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a poor and studious scholar named Gong Shamu. After a period of hard study, I always thought that my study was limited and I wanted to enter Beijing Imperial College for further study. Gong Shamu's family is poor and doesn't have much money for him to study in imperial academy. So Gong Shamu went to a rich family in Wu You to make a husker. Wu You served as Qi Xiang, Chang Shi and other official positions. One day, when Gong Shamu was in Xi Valley, Wu You came to see him. Wu You saw that Gong Shamu was polite and not like a clown at all, so he began to strike up a conversation with him. During the conversation, You Wu found Gong Shamu knowledgeable and original. Wu You became friends with him before Chu Jiu, regardless of the disparity between the rich and the poor. In feudal society, rich and poor counties were different and hierarchical. It is rare for a rich man to condescend to make friends with a poor scholar, so it is passed down as a much-told story.
2. Make friends and quote classics.
According to the historical records. Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru: "One pawn is happy, and it's embarrassing." Metaphor can live and die together, * * * friends are in trouble.
During the Warring States Period, an official of Zhao ordered Lin Xiangru, a guest of Yingxian County, to leave Handan for Qin with rare treasures and treasures. With wisdom and courage, he returned to Zhao intact, was appreciated by Zhao Wang, and was named a doctor. Later, the king of Qin proposed to meet the king of Zhao in Mianchi, trying to force the king of Zhao to yield. General Lin Xiangru and General Lian Po urged Zhao Wang to attend, and designed a clever plan. Lian Po put pressure on the king of Qin by being brave and good at fighting, and Lin Xiangru saved the humiliation of the king of Zhao and returned to Handan safely with his words and loyalty. In recognition of Lin Xiangru, the Prince of Zhao named him Shangqing, higher than General Lian Po. Lian Po didn't want to. He thinks he is brave and good at fighting, and he works for Zhao, and he is the first hero, while Lin Xiangru is above himself just by opening his mouth. Lian Po defy spirit, determined to humiliate him. Lin Xiangru heard the news and avoided seeing Lian Po everywhere. On the day of the trial, he said he couldn't get sick. On one occasion, Lin Xiangru had something to do and met Lian Po in the back lane. Lian Po ordered his men to block Lin Xiangru's road in various ways, and finally Lin Xiangru had to order him to go back to Lin Xiangru's house. Lian Po is even more proud, spreading this story everywhere. After hearing this, Lin Xiangru's officials offered to go home. Lin Xiangru asked why, and they said, "We work for you because we admire you as a truly noble gentleman, but now you want to swallow Lian Po's arrogance, and we can't stand it." Lin Xiangru asked with a smile, "Do you think the King of Qin is better or General Lian Po is better? I'm not afraid of the king of Qin. How can I be afraid of Lian Po? Qin doesn't dare to invade now, but I'm afraid General Lian and I are protecting Zhao. As Wang Zhao's right-hand man, how can I ignore the country because of personal grievances? " Lian Po was ashamed to hear this, so he went to Lin Xiangru's house with Vitex negundo stripped to the waist to apologize to Lin Xiangru. From then on, they became good friends through thick and thin, and served the country together.
3. Friends and allusions are the best friends.
From "Master Zhuangzi": "The three men smiled at each other and did not rebel against each other, so they became friends." Refers to very close or congenial friends.
The original description: "Zi Si, Zi Xing, Gigi Lai and Zi Lai said to each other:' Who can take nothing as the head, life as the spine and death as the coffin (kāo, donkey), but who knows that life and death are one, I will be friends with them." The four of them smiled at each other and they became friends.
During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about Zi Si, Zi Xing, Gigi Lai and Zi Lai, saying, "Who can be friends with inaction, take the promise as his back, die as his ass, and know life and death as one?" The four of them smiled at each other, and they thought each other were best friends.
4. Friends and allusions, bosom friends.
Liezi Tang Wen said that Boya was good at playing drums and Zhong Ziqi was good at listening. Boya Guqin aimed at the mountain, and Zhong Ziqi said, "OK, I'm as steep as Mount Tai." Determined to manage water, Zhong Ziqi said, "Well, the ocean is like a river." Zhong Ziqi will understand what Boya said. When he died as a child, Boya said that there was no bosom friend in the world, but he broke the piano and never played drums all his life. "High mountains and flowing water" is a metaphor for intimate friends.
Boya plays the piano and Zhong Ziqi listens to him. When he played the piano for the first time, he showed his ambition to climb mountains. Zhong Ziqi said, "What a great pianist! As high as Mount Tai. " After a while, the sound of the piano showed unremitting ambition to keep pace with the running water. Zhong Ziqi said again, "What a good pianist! Like the Yangtze River and the Yellow River. " After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya broke the piano and played the string, and never played the piano again in his life, thinking that there was no one worth playing. Not only playing the piano, but also virtuous people. Even a virtuous person, how can a virtuous person be loyal if he is not treated with courtesy? Just like a good horse can't ride well, you can't run thousands of miles with him.
5. Ning Guan, who made friends with Canon, gave up his seat.
From Shi Shuo Xin Yu. Virtue ",it is a metaphor for the friendship between friends to make a clean break, stop communication, or stop making friends with people with different ambitions and Tao."
Ning Guan and Huaxin are weeding in the garden. When they saw a piece of gold on the ground, Guan Ning still waved his hoe, which was no different from seeing tiles and stones. Huaxin happily picked up the gold and threw it away. Once, they were sitting on the same mat reading a book, and a man in a skirt drove by the door with a shed. Guan Ning was still reading as before, but Huaxin put down his book and went out to read it. Guan Ning cut off the mat and sat apart from Hua Xin, saying, "You are no longer my friend. Through the different performances of Guan Ning and Hua Xin in "Chucai" and "Watching the Pavilion Go Over the Door", it shows that their virtues are superior to each other.
6. Friendship and allusions between friends.
Glue and lacquer, from biographies of the later Han Dynasty, are the two most sticky things. They have feelings in their hearts, are suitable for walking, are close to glue, and cannot do without Kundi. Therefore, like-minded and close friends are called glue friends to describe the profound friendship between friends. In ancient times, there was a saying that "glue is stronger than thunder and Chen".
Chen Zhong was born in Yichun, Zhang Yu. When I was young, I became good friends with Rey in the same county. Together, they studied classics such as Lushi and Yanshi Chunqiu, and read widely. Zhang Yun, the satrap, heard of Chen Zhong's name, praised his moral integrity and recommended him as Lian Xiao. Chen gave up his fame and applied to the satrap for more than ten times, but all of them were rejected. In the second year, Ray was also elected as Lian Xiao, and the two talents went to the county government to take office together. A colleague of mine had a family accident and borrowed hundreds of thousands at negative interest. The creditor came to beg for it every day, but the little official knelt down and begged for relief, still unable to accommodate, and had to appeal to the government. After Chen Zhong was informed, he paid his debts privately. The petty official thanked Dade and went to the door to thank him. Chen Zhong said casually, "I didn't do it. Maybe someone with the same name paid for you! " Never talk about your kindness. Once, a colleague asked for leave to go back to his hometown and hurriedly put on someone else's pants. The owner suspected that Chen Zhong took it, but Chen Zhong made no excuses and bought a New Pants to compensate him. The truth didn't come out until my colleagues who came home for the funeral came back. Chen Zhonghe worshiped merchants at the same time, but was dismissed from office because of the suffering of his generation. Chen Zhong also resigned on the grounds of physical illness and returned to China together. Later, Chen repeatedly stressed that as the county magistrate of Xiyang County, he was quite successful and eclectic; He was promoted to the order of Huiji County, and died because of his sister's death. Later, he was recruited by Stuart, and the official worshipped the suggestion and died in office.
7. Friends' allusions are friends of chicken and millet.
It's from the Book of the Later Han Dynasty, which means a friend who keeps his word.
Fan type, the word Juqing, Yangshan Jinxiang. When I was a teenager, I studied in Imperial College London and made friends with Zhang Shao, a native of Runan. Boom, boom, boom After the study, the two returned to the village together. Paradigm said to Zhang Shao, "I will come back in two years, when I will visit my relatives at your home and see your son and daughter again." At the same time, the two also agreed on the date of meeting. Time flies, the sun and the moon fly, and the appointed date is approaching unconsciously. Zhang Shao told his mother about it and asked her to prepare meals to welcome her good friend. Mother said, "after two years apart, you are thousands of miles away from him." How can you believe the appointed time? Zhang Shao said: "Juqing is a man of his word, and of course he will not break his promise." . "Mother said," if so, I will make wine for you. "On the appointed day, the paradigm really arrived as scheduled. He went to church to drink, had a good time and broke up.
8. A friend who gave his life for a friend's story
"Giving up one's life for righteousness", one of Eight Worship Friends, also known as "Jiao Ai Botao", comes from the allusion of "Zuo Yang". Selected from Selected Literary Works. Liu Jun. On the Wide Break-up: "I want to be unkind, take precautions, and want to benefit the villa, and the sheep emblem is strong." Note in the Tang Dynasty: Biography of Martyrs said, and Zuo are best friends. When they heard about the sage of Chu, they went to look for him. In the rain and snow, they couldn't find a plan and had to die in a tree. " "
According to legend, during the Warring States Period, Zuo He met each other and went to the State of Chu to seek audience. On the way, they met with heavy snow. At that time, they were wearing thin clothes and didn't have enough food. Zuo gave all his clothes and food to make friends, and hid himself in an empty tree and committed suicide. Later generations called this intimate friend with profound friendship "Zuo Yang".