If there is a mother, she often says to her two children, "You are all ordinary people, nothing special. Just because your father is famous, people outside want to know your father, so they shoot you. "
What do you associate with it? A good wife of a star? Or some low-key royal wife?
Then if she is not beautiful, she will be a noble lady with both talent and learning.
But the person who said this sentence, among her former "rivals", included some peerless beauties like Michelle monique Rice and Rosamund Kwan, as well as celebrities like lawyer Wang Yingcong and Dr. Lv Lijun studying in Britain.
She is Chen Kaiyun, the second wife of a generation of romantic real estate tycoon Liu Luanxiong, nicknamed Gamby. Fu Xiao was a little boy more than ten years ago, and now he has become a famous businessman. Thanks to tens of billions of property donated by her husband Liu Luanxiong, she became the richest woman in Hong Kong.
Gamby's story cannot be copied. Many people like to attribute her superior position to her forbearance. I'm afraid it's too small to stand on the threshold of the giants.
Her decisiveness and firmness are not comparable to those of ordinary people.
With a stroke of a pen, Liu Luanxiong put tens of billions of assets under Gambi's name and became the richest woman in Hong Kong overnight. Gambi, who is less than forty years old, will have to eat and wear for the rest of his life.
When attending various occasions, she is no longer the little follower, but is sought after and praised by the spotlight. Vanity Fair is such a reality.
Gambi was born in poverty. Compared with Lv Lijun, it is not too miserable. Her father kicked her and her mother out of the house when she was a child, and her childhood was a vagrant. The damage to her mother and herself can't be healed. Gamby doesn't hate it?
The media fanned the flames, and her biological father thought that with the help of public opinion, she could be persecuted and squeezed, thinking that she could be beaten to tears and sold badly like Fan. Cann't gamby see it?
Lv Lijun often uses the language of "big-character posters" to unite the media to run and attack her, but can't she hear you?
Born in the entertainment circle, she knows more about the world and is pleasant to listen to. But has she ever held a press conference and argued?
She just kept silent, just like a silent lion, sitting tight.
Her goal is not to please any outside voice, but her inner goal.
This biological father is also very funny. He didn't do any parenting duties. He wanted to go back to suck blood and was kicked out by himself.
What about Lv Lijun? If I try to establish an "independent woman", I'm afraid I'm destined to be Gambi's "Reservoir Dogs" in my life.
Gambi, one bag is enough for father to eat for several years now.
The problem is, she won't give it.
This is her rule and principle, and she will not be trapped by any outside voice, even her father, even if she is accused.
And Gamby's calm, steady, firm style, distinctive power and courage, smooth communication means, and kindness to family and children are all in Liu's eyes. That's why I chose her as the heir to my wealth. In the face of big winds and waves, so are people who are not easily happy.
Obviously, Liu is satisfied with his choice.
It is too one-sided to use "a good wife and a good mother" to locate Gambi.
Gambi and Liu lived together for more than ten years and eventually became their wives.
Many people think, superior, with what?
Please note, however, that Gamby is not the most outstanding in the pursuit of "Liu" in terms of appearance or education. Many women are willing to have children for wealthy businessmen, even if they don't have the birthright (see Wu Peici).
Especially in the battle with her "competitor" Lv Lijun, she has been silent and sit tight, which is quite similar to the shadow of "Sima Yi replacing Cao Zhi's father and son and dragging Zhuge Liang to death" in the allusion of The Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
1. Role assignment in male-dominated color
To put it bluntly, it is good to be the lover or girlfriend of a rich man like Liu. In fact, the relationship between subject and object has been decided.
Zuowei Liu is the provider of material wealth, while women are the providers of normal men and women's needs and emotional values. There is a potential "contractual" relationship.
Although Liu is a playboy, he is a bit male chauvinist. But Liu is generous to women and is willing to cultivate smart women. He is indeed more ambitious than those rich people who only know romance.
For example, Michele Monique Reis learned a lot about home ownership in her conversation with Liu, and Liu specially invited a teacher to learn a foreign language for her. With Liu's support, she went to Britain to study for a doctorate, and set up a foundation to help her become a director and CPPCC member of Peking University and the University of International Business.
Liu's efforts to cultivate women around him will help narrow the gap between each other's patterns and visions and better match each other.
For Liu, investing in women is a commercial activity (referring to the hype of his commercial building, and those who simply think that they are too young and too simple to express Michele Monique Reis), and there is also a kind of "mutual success" in their career, which is mutually beneficial.
What does Liu need?
In addition to the superficial pride, worship, loyalty, leaves fall to the roots.
As a businessman, Liu needs loyal and stable partners to maximize interests and develop his career together.
Let's take a look at Gamby's predecessors. Female stars are generally not single-minded about beauty and are unwilling to get pregnant and have children easily.
Although Wang Yingcong is a barrister, he spends a lot of money, asking for a breakup fee of 200 million yuan (this is still around 2,000 yuan), millions of handbags, countless bird's nest mansions, and even a black card to buy jewelry after the breakup.
Lv Lijun is more eager for quick success. During his PhD in England, he had an affair with a man in the Middle East. Later, in the war with Gambi to steal her husband, he cleverly "preemptively" wrote an open letter to the media, pretending to be Mrs. Liu to run Gambi.
This is tantamount to challenging Liu's authority on gender relations. Besides, Liu always dislikes "Don't wash your dirty linen in public". When his ex-wife Teresa Bao published Qin Xin Ji and disclosed family affairs, she provoked a letter from Liu Fa.
By contrast, who will Liu choose?
2. "Love money like life" VS "She can't smell money"
Assuming that both Liu and his business empire are ideal cities, Liu is undoubtedly the most powerful person. His likes and dislikes directly determine the status and rights of these women in the competition. Young Liu enjoys the way female stars are jealous of him. Otherwise, where did the recording of Mi Xueer monique Rice calling to scold come from?
The strongest competitors are Michelle monique Rice and Rosamund Kwan. After that, Lv Lijun is the most targeted, but they all have the same characteristics.
Pride and vanity.
Big Liu and his public affair was at 200 1, which happened to be the time when Gambi ended the entertainment circle and entered the big Liu Huaren real estate company.
There are only two players left in the arena, Gamby and Lv Lijun. At that time, Liu often took in and out of major upper-class occasions, and Lu was also very powerful. His erudite speech made Liu very respected. Gamby was really just a small role at that time.
Liu respects his mother and ex-wife very much (see the last article for details). When Mrs. Liu died, Gamby's figure just shuttled between the residence and the hospital. It was not until Liu called that she was willing to take her children to see her, and she stayed for dozens of minutes and left. There is no good gesture to the "future mother-in-law".
Gamby's children often learn baking with their mothers and cook for their fathers and grandmothers. Moreover, in terms of educating children, Gambi, at least to outsiders, has a stronger flavor of family and less flavor of money.
On the other hand, he took his son to Liu's office to pose and said, "My son likes to go to his father's office to play". However, he was directly beaten by Liu. "We only communicated through lawyers."
What makes Liu Hanxin most is that during his illness, he went to the hospital to wash his kidney three or four times a week, and Gambi accompanied him every time. Lv Lijun has only been there once in the past six months. A friend in need is a friend indeed, and everyone's heart is made of meat.
Lu wants to take money unconditionally, but he is unwilling to pay his feelings to accompany him.
Guess who Liu tends to?
Liu commented on this lover who once spent a lot of money for her.
"She (Lv Lijun) thought I was dying and called my lawyer every day to ask if I was dead. As soon as I was alive, I started to claim money. "
"Lv Lijun is really addicted to money. Even if she is given ten million yuan, she will betray me for a dollar. Give the waiter 3000 yuan to borrow from her and ask me for it later; I tried to pretend to be poor and asked her to lend me 50 million. As a result, she asked me for a loan. "
Compared with, Liu's evaluation of Gamby is:
"She is very simple and very kind to me. She has never coveted my good luck."
Is it like the words of Guo Taiming, a wealthy businessman in Taiwan Province: "I can't smell money on her"?
Step 3 show up in time
Liu is experiencing juvenile entrepreneurship and making a fortune; Successful career, spiritually; In his later years, when he closed his heart and returned to his family, he experienced his mother's death and illness. Compared with the colorful world, what Liu wants is a stable and pragmatic life.
Liu's ex-wife wrote in the last article. Teresa Bao, who accompanied Liu Luanxiong to get rich, was charitable and unwilling to be lonely all his life. After a cursory tour, I saw all the scenery of Hong Kong female stars. Liu Ye is old.
Money scattered and people gathered, and they all entered the show.
After experiencing the days of youth and "full of love and water", I also spent the time singing every night after I became rich.
On emotion and punishment, Gambi is undoubtedly the best choice.
In today's society, people tend to be independent women and strive for self-improvement. Such "success" as Gamby is not worth advocating.
But Gamby's story has her uniqueness and background.
Liu Luanxiong and Li Ka-shing in his early years, including Stanley Ho, the gambling king who died recently, are the epitome of the development of an era.
Gambi's temperament is different from the humble entertainment circle at the beginning to the social butterfly of the upper class.
Money can't solve all problems, but anything that can be solved by money is not a problem, such as appearance and conversation.
What can make people open the gap is precisely the part that money can't solve, such as a strong mind and core.
Thanks for reading. See you next time.