The mother is very worried about the long distance of the child. The child went to college and left his hometown for the first time, leaving his parents for so long.
How many children can go home after a long vacation, so contact with their parents can only be online.
Children are so busy studying in college that parents can't bear to disturb them, so the topic of contact between the two sides is often when they want living expenses at the end of each month.
Even children who don't usually talk to their parents will be unusually "sensible" in those days when they become poor.
College students' fancy living expenses are popular, and their parents refuse. Netizen: Classmate, does your mother still want to adopt a child?
After going to college, children have more social circles of their own. I also feel that there are fewer topics with my parents, so I seldom chat with my parents. Parents care more about their children, from study to logistics support, and all the "care" from their children will increase at the end of each month.
This classmate is quite witty. If he wants money, he doesn't say a word, but he is very concerned and says hello to his mother. But his avatar "no money to eat" has exposed everything, just to make the emperor happy. Isn't the transfer red envelope coming soon?
There is no problem that can't be solved by expression. If there is one, send two. It's hard to ask for money. Use emoticons instead. Not losing the original intention, relaxed and humorous, not easy to be rejected by parents, such as the next classmate.
College students who have run out of living expenses are definitely poor on campus. They dare not order takeout outside the school, dare not go to the third floor of the canteen, and dare not eat supper at night. Send an expression to my mother, let her choose the way to help the poor and save her starving son.
Parents don't take the bait, one picture is not enough, and three pictures are repeated, just for success. If you don't feel sincere in matching pictures, you can also play word games with your parents with pictures. Although all parents refused cruelly, in the end, they all transferred money in red envelopes. Only parents are the ones who are always worried about your hunger and cold.
Luxury at the beginning of the month, eating soil and drinking wind at the end of the month. Without a plan, the result is that you have to pretend to be poor and sell rotten and ask your parents for living expenses. But some parents can't be fooled by you. In order to make you remember it for a long time, you play a routine and he turns it upside down. It's hard to prevent.
You say you eat dirt, but he says why! You said you had no money, so you ate dirt. He said the soil was still delicious. Dear dad, this is not a pit, son! Therefore, it is not good to express it directly, and it is necessary to be poetic occasionally to make parents accept it better.
College life without love must be incomplete. After all, the university didn't spend time in love, and after graduation, parents began to urge marriage and blind date. Falling in love is a very expensive thing, which seems to be the best reason to increase the living expenses.
The boy told his parents directly at home that he had found a wife. He thought his wishful thinking was successful, but his parents exposed him at a glance: "If you want to raise living expenses, just say what our son looks like and how many parents we have."
Not only is it extremely harmful, but it is also extremely insulting.
There were poems describing love in ancient times, but now there are poems at the cost of life. I have to say that this classmate must live in a family with a cultural background. Even if he wants living expenses, he must attach a poem. I thought it was certain that the living expenses were appropriate. As a result, my mother also wrote a poem, and mother and son began to compare poems.
They are all intellectuals and communicate with each other through poetry. In order to get the living expenses given by their parents, the children have to rack their brains for poetry. It's not for nothing to get the money.
Times are different, the economy is developing and the cost of living is rising. Parents should not compare their school days with their children's college days. There is no comparability at all! The monthly living expenses chart of college students in China can be used for parents' reference.
You know, eating is not a living expense, but a part of it. Children go to college and spend no money except for three meals. There are many places to spend money. Do you want to know how the children's living expenses are spent so quickly? The child is also depressed. How can living expenses be so useless?
1. Three meals. The canteen is cheap and delicious, which is a blessing. If it's poor and expensive, it's really hard. Let's calculate fifteen dollars for a hearty meal. Breakfast, lunch and dinner are nearly fifty dollars a day. Doing nothing for a month is 1500 yuan.
2. Midnight snacks. Who doesn't like snacks? Even if you eat a popsicle in summer, a baked sweet potato in winter, a bowl of instant noodles in the evening when you are hungry and a cup of milk tea in the afternoon when you are thirsty. More than ten dollars a day, even more if you invite a classmate.
3. daily necessities. Toothpaste, toothbrush, facial cleanser and hand cream are very troublesome to bring from home, and you have to buy them at school. They cost money to buy. A month's miscellaneous things add up to one or two hundred dollars. Girls will double their makeup.
4. Seasonal clothing. The climate between the north and the south is very different, especially the students from the south go to college in the north. It is obviously inappropriate to buy coats and cotton-padded jackets for school. I'm going to buy this locally, and I need to buy a winter coat and a down jacket 1800 yuan. Not enough money!
5. Dinner date. There are many activities in the university, whether it's joining student unions, clubs or dormitories. Where there is activity, there is dinner. Everyone is AA-style, and eating a buffet is at least tens of dollars. Once or twice a month is not much.
6. Training courses. The important task of a university is to study. If you are not satisfied with your credits and fail the exam, you can't graduate. Therefore, during college, in order to get a degree certificate, it is possible to train students to sign up for classes, ranging from several thousand yuan to tens of thousands of yuan.
In universities and small societies, although children are not yet financially independent, they can't ask their parents for it when they have no money. It is not a good thing to form a habit. Therefore, college students' living expenses are not enough, so they should learn to find their own way.
1. Plan rationally and don't overdraw.
Parents give living expenses, either monthly or on schedule. Either way, we must learn to plan rationally and not make ends meet. I suggest that you must learn to keep accounts, so that every expense can be recorded clearly and the consumption of spending money will be much less.
2. Work-study program to earn pocket money.
Under the condition of not affecting study, it is no problem to use work-study programs on weekends or in winter and summer vacations, and you can also enrich your social practice experience. In addition, we should pay attention to finding meaningful and valuable jobs to ensure our own safety.
3. Never waste, never compare.
People die more than people. Some students live on 5,000 to 6,000 yuan a month, while others live on 1000 yuan. Don't challenge others' pocket money with your own living expenses, don't compare with others, there is no comparability, establish correct values and don't waste them.
4. Learn to manage money and be willing to save money
For example, it is not good to change money, but it is good to save money. Saving money is my greatest pleasure, of course, saving money can't keep up with financial management! Learn how to manage money, do a good job of living expenses, and put your savings in several baskets, which will be a valuable asset in the university.
When I was in college, my living expenses were 800 yuan a month. Fortunately, I have kept all my lucky money since I was a child and didn't ask my parents for too much living expenses.
After falling in love, my parents also raised my living expenses by 200 yuan, and told me that I couldn't always let others be nice to me, and my college life was pretty good.
I am a little kindergarten teacher, and I am committed to helping more precious mothers!