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After watching Zhang Xiaofeng for a while, I couldn't put it down. I followed her words and looked at my life, but I never thought about exploring her life. And she doesn't seem so angry. It's like I opened a treasure for myself and never mentioned it to anyone.
Last week, I came to the library with this book on a rainy day. I haven't decided to let my grandmother talk to me. She is a Christian and comes to the library every week to invite interested people to participate in free church activities.
When I learned that she was from Taiwan Province Province, I tentatively took out the book in my hand and said, "I've been reading the works of a writer in Taiwan Province Province recently and I like it very much. Her name is Zhang Xiaofeng. " I was about to open it when she paused for two seconds and said, "Zhang Xiaofeng? My friend. " I thought she was joking. I thought the name Zhang Xiaofeng was not uncommon, so I said seriously, "Grandma, it's the writer Zhang Xiaofeng. Do you know her? "
She immediately said, "I know that Zhang Xiaofeng believes in Christ, and I belong to the same church in Taiwan Province Province. She is my next junior, from Pingtung University. Her husband is Lin Zhiping and her father is a senior official of Naming Party. I haven't read her writing, but I know she likes writing very much since she was a child. She likes her love and insists on doing it well, so she is good ... "
I was surprised when I was eavesdropping. I always feel that Zhang Xiaofeng saw her grandmother in front of me in a book on Baidu Encyclopedia. After I left, I immediately googled Zhang Xiaofeng. I really found that what grandma said was true. They are old friends.
Zhang Xiaofeng is as gentle and strong as her writing, and she is also an intriguing song all her life.
And her life is just like grandma said: stick to it if you like it, and pursue it bravely if you love it. Life has never been unexpectedly lucky. Now 76-year-old Zhang Xiaofeng lives a real and beautiful life.
(2? Write the most beautiful article with the softest heart and the most dedicated pen.
When she was two and a half years old, Xiaofeng pestered her five aunts to teach her to sing as usual. When her aunt opened her mouth, she sang a Chinese cabbage.
"Chinese cabbage, yellow in the field, two or three years old, no mother ... have a younger brother, stronger than me. Brother eat noodles, I drink soup ... "
Who knows Xiaofeng cried breathlessly before she finished singing, and her mother and May Day coaxed and asked why.
I only heard her say, "What a pity! His mother-in-law only cooks soup for that Chinese cabbage tree. Why is his mouth full of soup? "
Softness and love are the basic qualities of a writer. As Mr. Lu Xun said, "countless people in infinite distance are related to me", Zhang Xiaofeng, who was two and a half years old, had this idea. Being moved by the sufferings of others is also the source of her wonderful writing in the future.
Kindness is also the basic accomplishment for a person to get happiness. Kindness is driven by kindness in human nature from the beginning, and good people are not too bad luck.
At the age of seven, Xiaofeng began to keep a diary, but it once made her feel painful.
The first thing that pains her is that her mother often goes around behind her to draw the brush she is holding. If she doesn't hold the pen tightly, her mother will be considered unqualified. What is more difficult than holding a pen is the feeling and significance of writing an article. Xiaofeng's little hand holds a brush to record every day. Even if she feels that life is lacking and the process is boring, she will carefully organize it. This seriousness has been more than half a century. ...
As she will say later, the reason why she can write so many meaningful masterpieces is thanks to her primary school Chinese teacher. In order to keep a diary, she developed the habit of recalling and rethinking, became an introspective and thoughtful woman, and enabled her to keep practicing day after day. Secondly, I want to thank her mother, who taught her that since she chose to hold a pen, she should hold it tightly and be responsible for every word.
Zhang Xiaofeng, who loves writing, is lucky. She has a gift. However, no one can succeed by love and talent alone. There is no shortcut to success, and the road to success will never be beautiful. Zhang Xiaofeng knows that only by enduring pain, loneliness and boredom and repeating boring exercises can she do what she likes best.
Zhang Xiaofeng was really emotional before writing, and took responsibility after writing. Love, do it, and do it to the extreme, not afraid of suffering.
It is not difficult for a woman to know what she loves, but it is difficult to focus on what she loves all her life. In addition to talent, eight points here depend on wisdom and endurance. No matter how hard we try, we must also have the ability to pull our hair out of the sky. Through the long night, we can go as far as possible and create our own world.
From 65438 to 0977, 36-year-old Zhang Xiaofeng, together with Qian Zhongshu and Shen Congwen, was named "Top Ten Contemporary Prose Writers in China" by Taiwan Province critics. Comments praised her "pen is like the heat of the sun, the chastity of frost and snow." Every article has the fragrance of cold plum, and every word touches the ice ",which is the highest praise of a writer and a milestone of a woman's efforts." With her grades, she worked harder. The works handed down from time to time tell us that she deserves this title.
(3) Run a happy love with the cleverest brain and the most generous heart.
In the secular sense, it is not enough for a woman to succeed in her career. Only when she can manage the family well at the same time can she be praised. Whether this evaluation is correct or not, Zhang Xiaofeng is worthy of envy.
The grandmother I met in Taiwan Province Province also talked about Qiong Yao when she told me about Zhang Xiaofeng. She and her grandmother are old friends. Grandma said, "It is true that Qiong Yao wrote outside the window when she was young. She fell in love with her teacher, but her mother forced her to break up and forced her crush teacher to teach in the countryside step by step from a good job in the city. Therefore, Qiong Yao and her mother had a big fight. The red-faced notice of Qiong Yao and her stepson is also related to the ambiguous feelings with her current husband that day. Love must be single-minded "
Grandma's view of love seems very old-fashioned. At present, when it comes to hormones and freedom of marriage and love, there are no barriers and boundaries. Many people scoff at ethics and regard love as nothing.
But Zhang Xiaofeng, as old as Qiong Yao, wrote her love story Carpet in an article. That's another view of love. Now everyone is over 70 years old, and the ending is very different.
/kloc-At the age of 0/7, Zhang Xiaofeng met Mr. Lin Zhiping, an age prone to mistakes, but Zhang Xiaofeng was more sober than anyone and made the most correct choice and decision.
She and Lin Zhiping concentrate on their studies, but support each other. Zhang Xiaofeng in the flower season knows better than anyone how to allocate and manage love.
Before the college entrance examination in Li Zhiping, she helped Lin Zhiping collect information and punctuate the copied model essays one by one. When she saw Lin Zhiping's admission notice, she applauded him with tears in her eyes. When he won the honor, she was always the first to give him a hug and praise.
Quietly persuade him when he is in trouble. Lin Zhiping can't give him good material conditions, but she feels that she is living in poetry and love. She is not stupid and paralyzed, but enjoys every inch of time with him. The house was old and she repaired it herself. Cleaning windows, mending paper doors, sweeping the floor, hanging pictures and inserting vases, she makes everything flourish. She made Lin Zhiping feel that all the hardships were worthwhile.
Before he succeeded, he said to Zhang Xiaofeng, "No matter how difficult it is, I don't care. I am happy to fight!" You speak so urgently that I dare not look you in the eye. "As long as you are willing to get on my boat, Xiaofeng, you are my fragrant lotus."
Later, Lin Zhiping's career was smooth sailing, and he became the dean of the School of Humanities of Chung Yuan Christian University, and later became the chairman of the enterprise, winning numerous praises from the government and the Ministry of Education, all of which were related to Zhang Xiaofeng's understanding and support.
However, half a century later, Li Zhiping and Zhang Xiaofeng are still as sweet as ever, and more profound and mellow. A smart woman must have a correct view of right and wrong about love. No matter how long there is human civilization in that century, we must abide by the law of human love. If you want to be happy, you must choose the right person, be worthy of yourself and not hurt others. In the long days, only women who have both ability and political integrity and know how to treat the other half gently and generously can make men be dead set on themselves. Get worldly happiness ...
(5) Face the world mercilessly with the bravest heart and open-minded feelings.
Zhang Xiaofeng's life was not smooth sailing.
At the age of 63, the doctor diagnosed him with colorectal cancer.
She was calm when the diagnosis came out. The assistant wrote her a letter to promote all the teaching activities. After the assistant wrote it, she read it to her.
"The teacher was too ill to promise to give a speech."
After listening, Zhang Xiaofeng pursed her lips and said airily, "To tell you the truth, I have colorectal cancer. There is no need to beautify it or be taboo."
When the crowd dispersed, she was at a loss, but this time out of love for life and responsibility for her family, she told herself, "I'm going to fight a demon like the Monkey King. I have this disease, I know who he is, and he will be afraid when I call his name. "
She actively cooperated with the treatment and endured the pain caused by every chemotherapy and operation. Finally, she controlled her illness and cured stage II colorectal cancer. Up to now, more than ten years have passed and she is still healthy.
She once said, "What is life? Is it a kind of regeneration from fracture and self-scar? Why are all the comforts, all the pity eyes so unrealistic? Who will understand that kind of pain? The pain that distorts my body and soul. "
This was written when she gave birth to a child, and it is also appropriate for her to fight against the undercurrent of life in the future. Only those who love life can write such profound words, and only those who are really brave can practice them.
Born to be human, we love life, and there are too many gray areas in life. We can't learn every skill of crossing the darkness, but as long as we have a fearless, difficult and independent heart, you can light up all the darkness on the road of life. No matter what the situation is, we can face it positively, and the more frustrated we are, the more brave we will be, and the lucky sail of fate will eventually be raised.
(6) One day, you will get the beauty of this world.
Zhang Xiaofeng can live the most beautiful life because she has the purest love, love herself, love her partner, love her lover, love heaven and earth and love life. Because she has the most diligent efforts to create a career, to talk about love and to live a life. It is also because she is the least afraid of hardship, annoyance, poverty and poverty. In this way, she naturally achieved the most beautiful self and became the most beautiful woman.
Women tell themselves that there is no unexpected luck in life. Love, chase, face, bear and meet, and you will live as beautiful and happy as her.