Seek poems or sayings that describe people's indifference and idioms! For example, "sweep your own snow, don't worry about others frosting" and so on.

Chugi

Tang-Bai Juyi

Gold and fire don't treat each other,

Changes in cold and rain.

There are cicadas in the forest,

The nest is cold and the swallows are gone.

fan in autumn―woman whose feminine charms have faded

Song-Su Zhe

After autumn, the round fan seems to have been defeated.

Dan Qing is like an old pine nut.

It's none of my business to use it temporarily,

The world is cold, Nelho.

Who ordered Ji An in the Han Dynasty?

Zhao people still want to use Lian Po.

Knowing that the sleeves are unsafe,

Look at the autumn wind and regret it more.