I don’t know if it’s cultural factors or the environment in which I grew up.
In the world I know, few people are particularly confident.
Every time she starts talking to me, it’s either my mother or my father who says something.
Either I heard it from friends or online. Or so and so said,
I rarely hear people say, speak directly to me without these prefixes,
Or when others have finished speaking, you tentatively say ,
Who said this?
Seventy-eight percent of people will not tell you categorically. They said it themselves.
Is this relief from not being confident or not being able to take on the habit of living?
I don’t think it is either. Someone has stolen our self-confidence.
On the one hand, we all want to express our opinions and views,
On the other hand, we want to not take any responsibility for what we have said.
I think my confidence has been secretly stolen.
And we will also secretly steal other people’s confidence.
Do you remember when you learned to make excuses?
At that time, you had already begun to not be responsible for what you had done.
At that time, I was just afraid of my parents’ education and avoiding being beaten by my parents.
Since when, deep down in their hearts, many people have always been afraid to make their own decisions regarding authoritative matters.
If you make the right decision, you will be praised by your parents.
If your decision is wrong, the fear of the unknown is always extremely scary.
Or when our lives turn around, we always listen to other people’s opinions,
Just like a child, you tell him you will eat rice and steamed buns today. Noodle. Or steamed buns?
If you eat that one, they will always shake their heads.
You know that if you eat steamed buns today, most people won’t resist.
Yes, then our life education is beginning to steal our decisions.
At that time, we didn’t understand the world very well.
Everything needed to be arranged by others.
Following arrangements is the simplest thing in life.
From a cost perspective, compliance is the most valuable investment.
You can quickly gain praise from others and recognition from others.
However, many times people lose their ability to think by obeying.
This ability is also the beginning of self-confidence.
Later we came to society,
I don’t know who told us. A person should be moderate and follow the crowd.
Don’t be unique. Don't be different from others.
I think this is the shadow left when we were still in school.
We must be like others. This way you won't annoy others.
But do you really want to be like others?
At some point in your heart, you really have no pursuit of your own?
You are like an ordinary person. Constantly cover up your inner ambition.
Do you love wealth? Do you want to be successful in life?
If you want to, why hide your inner feelings?
Pretend to be the same as the people around you,
In a certain home stadium of yours Only when the time comes can you secretly show your abilities.
What is your confidence?
When others ask for your opinion,
Do you really not care?
Do you want to protect others’ interests at the expense of your own?
Do you love yourself or not?
At the very least, you must follow your heart
Confidence does not come in a day
If you don’t have confidence, you won’t know how to say no,
Without self-confidence, you cannot listen to your heart.
Don’t be afraid of making too many mistakes in your life and others.
There are differences in life. Different people have past, present and future. Neither will be friends.
Those who steal our confidence can steal their confidence when we are confident.
Don’t be afraid. Only you can decide your future.