Case 1
The story of Zilu's filial piety with rice
There is an old saying in China: "Filial piety comes first in all the virtues". It means that filial piety is the first of all virtues. If a person doesn't know how to honor his parents, it's hard to imagine that he will love his motherland and people.
the ancients said: "I am old when I am old, and people are old; Young and young, and young people. " We should not only honor our parents, but also respect other old people and care for young children, and create a honest folk custom of respecting the old and loving the young in the whole society. This is the responsibility of our students in the new era.
Zilu was born in Lu at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period. He is famous for his political affairs among Confucius' disciples. Especially famous for being brave. However, when Zilu was small, the family was very poor and lived by eating coarse grains and wild vegetables for many years.
once, my elderly parents wanted to eat rice, but there was no rice at home. What should I do? Zilu thought that if he crossed several mountains and borrowed some rice from his relatives, wouldn't he be able to meet his parents' requirements?
So, Xiao Zilu walked more than ten miles over the mountains, and brought a small bag of rice back from his relatives' home. When he saw his parents eating delicious rice, Zi Lu forgot his fatigue. Neighbors all praised Zilu as a brave and filial boy.
Case 2
Bao Gong was Bao Zheng (999-162 AD), whose name was Xiren, who was born in Hefei, Luzhou (now Hefei, Anhui). His father, Bao Yi, used to be a doctor in Chaosan, and was posthumously awarded as an assistant minister of punishments after his death. Bao Gong was famous for his filial piety when he was a teenager, and he was straightforward and honest. In Song Renzong Tiansheng five years, that is, in 127 AD, he entered the Jinshi, when he was 28 years old. He first served as a judge of Dali Temple, and later as a magistrate of Jianchang (now Yongxiu, Jiangxi). Because his parents were too old to go abroad with him, Bao Gong immediately resigned from his office and went home to take care of his parents. His filial piety was praised by officials.
A few years later, his parents died one after another, and Bao Gong stepped into his official career again. This is also under the hard persuasion of the villagers. In feudal society, if parents only have one son, then this son can't leave his parents alone and go to other places to be an official. This is against the feudal law. Under normal circumstances, parents will follow for their son's future. Or the son and the rest of the family to persuade. Parents don't want to follow their son to an official place to support the elderly, which is rare in feudal times, because it means that the son has to abide by the constraints of feudal ethics-resign from his official position to take care of himself. The history books did not explain the specific reasons. It may be that his parents were sick and could not bear the bumps on the road. Bao Gong resigned from his office.
No matter what the situation is, Bao Gong can voluntarily resign from his official position, which still shows that he is not the kind of person who is obsessed with officialdom. Filial piety to parents can also be regarded as an example for people with some qualities today. In the previous stories, the most important thing was Bao Gong's unselfishness, ignoring Bao Gong's filial piety to his parents.
Case 3
Huangxiang in the Eastern Han Dynasty was a model of filial piety recognized in history. When Huang Xiang was a child, his family was difficult. At the age of 1, he lost his mother and his father was ill. In the sultry summer, he used a fan to catch mosquitoes before going to bed and cool his father's bed and pillow so that he could fall asleep earlier. On a cold winter night, he first got into the cold bed and warmed it with his body before letting his father sleep. In winter, he can't afford to wear a cotton-padded jacket. In order not to make his father sad, he never cries cold, showing the appearance of cheering and jumping for joy, and trying to create a happy atmosphere at home, so that his father can relax and recover soon.
Case 4
Zhu De, a revolutionary of the older generation, wrote "Remembering My Mother", praising her incomparable love and noble quality with infinite affection. Mao Zedong received a letter from his mother's critically ill family, and went on a journey day and night. He stroked his mother's coffin and wailed aloud. In grief, he wrote "A Tribute to Mother": "My mother has a high wind and is the first to promote fraternity". Soong Ching Ling's filial piety was sincere, and she "sobbed" before her mother's spirit. Chen Yi visited her mother and insisted on washing clothes for her mother who was paralyzed in bed. Li Peng is a filial mother. On holidays, Mr. and Mrs. Li Peng always bring their mother's favorite food and pay their respects to her.
Case 5
A 13-year-old boy's speech entitled "Mom, I am your eye" in Jianping Middle School in Shanghai, which is famous for implementing the "cross-century education project" in China, made 26 members of the national women mayors' delegation cry. When this classmate was 9 years old, his mother was blind, and his young shoulders bore more responsibilities and obligations of the family prematurely. In order to buy a tape of Shanghai opera that his mother liked, he used his rest day to run in the streets of Shanghai for six hours!
Case 6
Chen Yi showed filial piety to his parents
I have read many stories about celebrities showing filial piety to their parents, such as: saving their mothers by fire, saving their mothers by sucking phlegm ... What moved me most was the story of "visiting their mothers in Chen Yi".
In p>1962, Marshal Chen Yi came back from a visit abroad and passed through his hometown, taking time to visit his seriously ill mother.
Chen Yi's mother is paralyzed in bed and can't take care of herself. When Chen Yi entered the house, the mother was very happy. She was just about to say hello to her son. Suddenly, she remembered that the changed diaper was still beside the bed, and she motioned the people around her to hide it under the bed.
Chen Yi was very excited when he met his long-lost mother. He stepped forward to hold her hand and asked this and that with concern. After a while, he said to his mother, "Mom, what did you hide under the bed when I came in?" Mother can't hide it, so she has to tell the truth. Hearing this, Chen Yi said quickly, "Mom, you have been ill in bed for a long time, and I am very sad that I can't wait on you. I should wash these pants, so why hide them?" Mother was very embarrassed, and the people next to her quickly took out their diapers and rushed to wash them. Chen Yi quickly stopped and said emotionally, "Mom, when I was a child, you didn't know how many times you washed my diaper. Today, even if I washed 1 diapers, I can't repay your kindness!" Say that finish, Chen Yi take diapers and other dirty clothes to wash clean, mother smiled with relief.
Marshal Chen Yi is a big shot with busy official duties, but he never forgets his old mother at home. I took time out of my busy schedule to go home to visit my mother who was paralyzed in bed, wash her diaper, and comfort her sick mother with caring words. Although what Marshal Chen Yi did for his mother was just some trivial things that couldn't be more ordinary, from these trivial things, he saw his deep love for his mother. He never forgets what his mother has done for himself, understands his mother's hardships and difficulties, and knows how to repay her for her upbringing.
Twenty-four filial piety includes the following twenty-four stories. Different sayings are usually just arranged in different order:
1. filial piety moves the sky; 2. Playing colorful games to entertain parents; 4. Deer milk serves parents; 5. A hundred miles is negative for meters; 6. Biting fingers hurts; 7. Reed clothes are suitable for mothers; 8. Taste soup and medicine; 9. Bury children and serve mothers; 11. Sell your body to bury your father; 12. Carve wood for relatives; 13. Leave a legacy of Huai orange. Sleeping on the ice for carp nineteen, catching the tiger to save the father twenty, eating mosquitoes full of blood twenty-one, worrying about eating feces twenty-two, nursing aunts not slacking twenty-three, washing pro-drowning devices twenty-four, abandoning officials to find mothers
1 Xiaogan moving to heaven
Shun, the legendary ancient emperor, one of the five emperors, surnamed Yao, named Zhong Hua, whose name was Yu, was called Yu Shun in history. According to legend, his father, Gu Sou, his stepmother and half-brother tried to kill him many times: Shun set fire to the barn when he repaired the barn roof, and Shun jumped off with two hats to escape; When Shun dug a well, Gu Sou and Xiang Ke went down to fill the well, and Shun dug a tunnel to escape. After the event, Shun was not jealous, but still submissive to his father and loving to his younger brother. His filial piety touched the Emperor of Heaven. Shun cultivates in Lishan, with elephants plowing for him and birds weeding for him. Emperor Yao heard that Shun was very filial and had the ability to handle political affairs, and married his two daughters, E Huang and Nv Ying. After years of observation and test, Shun was chosen as his successor. After Shun ascended the throne, he went to see his father, still respectfully, and made him a vassal.
later generations have a poem praising: teams plowed like elephants in spring, and herded grass and birds in succession. Inheriting Yao Deng's position, Xiaogan moves his heart.
2 personally taste the decoction
Liu Heng, the fourth son of Emperor Gaozu, was born to the Queen Mother Bo. Eight years after high school (the first 18) is the throne. In the name of benevolence and filial piety, he is well-known in the world and never slackens in serving his mother. His mother was ill for three years, and he was often out of sight and undressed; He didn't feel relieved to let his mother take the soup until he tasted it himself. He reigned for 24 years, emphasizing the rule of virtue, promoting etiquette, and paying attention to the development of agriculture, which made the society of the Western Han Dynasty stable, the population prosperous, and the economy restored and developed. His reign with Emperor Han Jingdi was known as "the rule of culture and scenery".
3 Bite refers to heartache
Zeng Shen, Zi Yu, a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, was a proud disciple of Confucius. He was known as "Ceng Zi" in the world and was famous for his filial piety. When I was a teenager, my family was poor and I often went to the mountains to get firewood. One day, when a guest came to the house, my mother was at a loss and bit her finger with her teeth. Zeng Shen suddenly felt distressed. Knowing that his mother was calling him, he quickly returned home with firewood on his back and knelt down to ask why. Mother said, "A guest suddenly arrived, so I bit my finger and hoped you would come back." Zeng Shen then received the guests and treated them with courtesy. Zeng Shen, who is knowledgeable, once put forward the cultivation method of "I save my body three times a day" (The Analects of Confucius Learn). According to legend, he wrote Confucian classics such as Da Xue and Xiao Jing, and later Confucianism respected him as a "sage".
4 Baili Minmi
Zhong You, Zi Zi Lu and Ji Lu, a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, was a proud disciple of Confucius. He was straightforward, brave and very filial. In my early years, my family was poor, and I often picked wild vegetables to cook food, but I went home from a hundred miles away to serve my parents. After the death of his parents, he became a high official and was ordered to go to Chu, with hundreds of chariots and horses, and accumulated as much food as ten thousand minutes. Sitting on the piled brocade mattress and eating a sumptuous banquet, he often misses his parents and laments, "Even if I want to eat wild vegetables, where can I get them again?" Confucius praised: "You serve your parents, which can be said to be your best when you are alive, but you miss them after you die!" (
5
Lu Yishun's mother
Min Min, Zi Qian, a disciple of Confucius in the Spring and Autumn Period, was called Yan Yuan by virtue. Confucius once praised him and said, "filial piety, Min Ziqian!" (Advanced Analects of Confucius). His biological mother died young, and his father married a second wife and gave birth to two sons. His stepmother often abused him. In winter, the two younger brothers wore winter clothes made of cotton, but they gave him a "cotton coat" made of reed flowers. One day, when my father went out, Min Min shivered because of the cold when he was pulling the car. He dropped the rope to the ground and was reprimanded and whipped by his father. The reed flower flew out with the broken seam, and his father knew that Min Min Min was abused. When father comes home, he wants to divorce his stepmother. Min Shen knelt down and begged his father to forgive his stepmother, saying, "I'm the only one who left my mother cold, and all three children will get cold after divorcing my mother." Father was very moved and obeyed him. When the stepmother heard about it, she regretted her mistake and treated him like a parent.
6 Deer milk is a close relative
Danzi, who was born in the Spring and Autumn Period. Parents are old and suffer from eye diseases, so they need to drink deer milk for treatment. He went into the mountains in deerskin, got into the deer herd, squeezed deer milk and offered it to his parents. When I was taking milk, I saw the hunter was about to shoot a muntjac deer. The scorpion quickly lifted the deerskin and walked out, telling the hunter the fact that the deer milk was squeezed as a medical treatment for his parents. The hunter respected his filial piety and gave him deer milk as a gift to escort him out of the mountain.
7 Play Color Entertains Parents
Lao Laizi, a hermit of Chu in the Spring and Autumn Period, cultivated himself at the southern foot of Mengshan Mountain in order to avoid the world chaos. He is filial to his parents, and chooses delicious food to offer to them. He is not old at the age of 7. He often wears colorful clothes and plays like a child with a rattle to make his parents laugh. Once he brought water to his parents, he fell down when he entered the room. He was afraid that his parents would be sad, so he simply lay on the ground and went to school. The children cried and the parents laughed.
8 Yong Dong sold himself to bury his father.
According to legend, he was a native of Qiancheng (now north of gaoqing county, Shandong Province) in the Eastern Han Dynasty. He lost his mother and moved to Anlu (now Hubei Province) because of desertion. Later, when his father died, Yong Dong sold himself to a rich family as a slave in exchange for funeral expenses. On the way to work, I met a woman in the shade of a tree, claiming that she was homeless, and they got married. The woman wove 3 pieces of brocade in January to redeem Yong Dong's debts. On her way home, she went to Huaiyin. The woman told Yong Dong that she was the daughter of the Emperor of Heaven and was ordered to help Yong Dong pay her debts. Say that finish volley. Therefore, Huaiyin was renamed Xiaogan.
9 Carving wood is a pro
Ding Lan, according to legend, was born in Hanoi in the Eastern Han Dynasty (now in the north of Yellow River in Henan Province), and his parents died when he was young. The source of his 24-year-old filial piety picture-the brick carving in Tang language often misses his parents' upbringing, so he carved a statue of his parents out of wood, and discussed everything with the wooden statue. He only ate three meals a day after honoring his parents, and he must tell them before going out and meet them when he got home. For a long time, his wife was not very respectful to the wooden statue, but curiously used the finger of the wooden statue to acupuncture, and the finger of the wooden statue actually had blood flowing out. Ding Lan came home to see the tears in the eyes of the wooden statue and asked for the truth, so she abandoned her wife.
1 maids serve their mothers
Jiang Ge, a native of Linzi, Qi in the Eastern Han Dynasty, lost his father as a teenager and served his mother with great filial piety. During the war, Jiang Ge fled behind his mother's back, and met bandits several times. The thief wanted to kill him. Jiang Ge cried: My mother is old, and there is no one to support her. The thief can't bear to kill him when he sees his filial piety. Later, he moved to Xiapi, Jiangsu, and worked as an employee to support his mother. He was poor and barefoot, and his mother needed a lot. When Ming Di was elected as Xiao Lian, Zhang Di was elected as a virtuous founder and served as a corps commander of the five senses.
11 Huaiju's legacy
Lu Ji, a scientist, was born in Huating (now Songjiang, Shanghai), Wu and Wu County in the Three Kingdoms period. At the age of six, he went to Jiujiang with his father Lu Kang to see Yuan Shu, and Yuan Shu took out oranges to entertain him. Lu Ji hid two oranges in his arms. When he left, the oranges fell to the ground. Yuan Shu sneered, "When Lu Lang comes to my house, do you still have to hide the oranges of his master when you leave?" Lu Ji replied, "My mother likes oranges, and I want to take them back for her to taste." Yuan Shu was surprised to see that he knew how to be filial to his mother at an early age. After Lu Ji became an adult, he was knowledgeable and familiar with astronomy and calendar calculation. He once wrote "Huntian Map", annotated "Yijing" and wrote "Taixuan Jing Annotation".
12 Guo Ju, a native of Longxi (now Linxian County, Henan Province) in the Jin Dynasty, said that he was from wen county, Hanoi (now southwest of wen county, Henan Province), and his family was well-off. After his father's death, he divided the property into two parts and gave it to his two younger brothers. He took care of his mother alone and was extremely filial to her. Later, the family was gradually poor, and his wife gave birth to a boy. Guo Ju was worried that raising this child would inevitably affect the support for his mother, so he discussed with his wife: "The son can have another son. The picture source of the mother's twenty-four filial piety-the brick carving in Tang language can't be resurrected. It is better to bury his son and save some food to support his mother." When they were digging a hole, they suddenly saw an altar of gold two feet underground, and wrote, "Guo Ju is a godsend, and the officials shall not take it, and the people shall not take it." Husband and wife get gold, go home to honor their mother, and have children at the same time.
13 Fan Pillow Wen Yi
Huang Xiang, a native of Anlu, Jiangxia, Eastern Han Dynasty, lost his mother at the age of nine, and his father was extremely filial. Fan a cool pillow mat for my father in cool summer; Warm your father's bedding with your body in the cold winter. When I was a teenager, I learned the classics, and my literary talent was flying. The capital widely spread "chinese odyssey, Jiangxia Huangxiang". An Di (17-125) was then the satrap of Wei Jun (now Hebei), which suffered from floods, and Huang Xiang did her best to help the victims. He is the author of Jiugong Fu and Ode to the Crown of the Son of Heaven.
14 picking up different tools
Cai Shun, a native of Runan (now Henan) in the Han Dynasty, lost his father and his mother was very filial. At that time, it was the chaos of Wang Mang, and there was a famine, and the rice was expensive, so we had to pick up mulberries and mothers to satisfy our hunger. One day, I happened to meet the Red Eyebrow Army, and the rebel soldiers asked sharply, "Why do you put red mulberries and black mulberries?"