1. They met and fell in love in college
Shen Teng and his current wife Wang Qi were both classmates majoring in drama at the People's Liberation Army Art Academy. That year Shen Teng was a senior and Wang Qi was a freshman. Although Shen Teng is much better developed than Wang Qi now, in school Wang Qi was a straight-A student who studied hard and made progress every day, while Shen Teng was a bit idle, noisy, and a "student scumbag" who played games online all day long. .
At that time, the school was closed during the SARS period, and the students had fun and held a party. Wang Qi was a versatile girl. She danced a tap dance with her partner at the party and instantly attracted Shen Teng. Fascinated, Shen Teng tried every means to get Wang Qi's number, and then he lay on the bed and sent Wang Qi his first text message: Your posture is wrong, get up and go back to sleep! This was once the most popular joke of the year. Looking back now, Shen Teng himself said: What a bad guy. The moment he received the text message, Wang Qi thought it was sent by mistake, so he responded politely. However, after going back and forth, the two began to become familiar with each other, Wang Qi was also attracted by Shen Teng's talent, and the two eventually became a couple.
Similar to many college couples, Shen Teng loved to play games during college, and Wang Qi let him go and was obedient to him. Even though he didn’t play games himself, he would play with Shen Teng in the Internet cafe when he was sleepy. Sleep on the table.
2. Wang Qi broke up twice
Wang Qi and Shen Teng also broke up before, but it was not serious. The most serious one was the breakup after graduation. At that time, Shen Teng had just graduated and lived in an apartment next to the school. He was very lazy and rarely went out for interviews. He spent most of his time at home studying scripts and playing games. After a long time, hemorrhoids formed on his buttocks. Later, although I was lucky enough to join the crew of Happy Twist, the original Happy Twist was not very popular. Many actors chose to leave because they could not see the hope for the future. Only Shen Teng happily followed the team all day long without thinking about where the future would be.
Wang Qi is cute and well-behaved. He is also an actor. He started filming before he graduated. He will develop better than Shen Teng. Because the Shen Teng Repertory Theater was not profitable, their lives were unsustainable. Wang Qi worked hard to make money by herself. She filmed five dramas in a row in one and a half years. She was so tired that she was paralyzed every day. When she dragged her very tired body back When she was home, Shen Teng neither cared nor took care of her. In addition, I have met more people after graduating from college. Compared with other boyfriends, Shen Teng is very caring, but Shen Teng is like a child who only plays games. He doesn’t want to be famous, and he doesn’t plan to make much money. He has no plans for the future. No plans and no care for myself. Such Shen Teng made Wang Qi feel very sad and could not see hope and future.
What made her most angry was that one time Shen Teng was playing "Legend" and his mouth blistered because of a fight in the game. Wang Qi couldn't help but get angry: "When I quarrel with you, no matter how angry I am, you don't get angry, you still eat and sleep as usual; I cry beside you and you don't care. You actually get angry because of a stupid game. , you might as well just live with the game!"
During the Spring Festival of 2007, Wang Qi officially broke up with Shen Teng. She sent a text message to Shen Teng: "Have you ever thought about what I want? What I want is money? Is it power? Or is it the care and concern of a man?" The moment Shen Teng received the text message, he was completely confused. Afterwards, he reflected and said, "People may not be aware of every weakness or shortcoming of their own." You have to wait until others wake up to know how to repent. ”
3. After the breakup, Shen Teng experienced what it means to be “heartbroken”
After the breakup, Shen Teng, like many people who have lost love, experienced what it means to be torn apart. In his own words, his heart is broken and his lungs are broken.
In the past, the girl was by his side and took care of everything. When he was hungry, he would have a bowl of fennel braised noodles. Now, But there was only an empty room.
He lay on the sofa for several days, not wanting to do anything.
Shen Teng began to learn from the pain. , reflecting that this boyfriend is not qualified, I can only give him 20 points.
4. Shen Teng starts the road to recovery
Although he is suffering from the pain of breakup, he still has masculinity in his heart. , so that he couldn't do anything about stalking, but the breakup also made him understand the importance of Wang Qi in his heart.
Shen Teng, who was terribly lazy before, started to become diligent after the breakup. , from an actor to an assistant director, and then to a screenwriter, director and actor all in one.
He also began to try to care about Wang Qi. When the weather got cold, he would send Wang Qi a text message and ask her. Add some clothes, but Wang Qi didn’t accept it.
At that time, Wang Qi felt that they had already broken up, so they should stop entangled.
5. The date on Valentine’s Day was ruthless. Rejection
On the first Valentine's Day after the breakup, Shen Teng was full of anxiety and asked Wang Qi to meet, but received a ruthless rejection from Wang Qi. Wang Qi replied to him, "I have a date that day."
Shen Teng was a little frustrated after being rejected, but he didn't want to give up.
On Valentine's Day, Wang Qi played with a group of friends until 12 o'clock in the evening. When she got home, she found that Shen Teng was still waiting for her. She immediately relented and agreed to meet him. Shen Teng didn't say anything, he just gave Wang Qi the bracelet he had prepared in advance. It was a small pendant strung with platinum, gold and colored gold. It was very beautiful. Wang Qi felt a little sad while holding the bracelet: If he was as good to her before, how could she break up with him?
6. The classmates finally reunited
For more than half a year after Valentine's Day, although the two people secretly cared about each other, they did not contact each other again.
Until July 2007, classmates Shen Teng and Wang Qi rehearsed a stage play. He called Wang Qi: "I'm with your classmate. Come over and let's have a meal together." Wang Qi went. When she saw Shen Teng, she cried and couldn't stop her tears. live. Although Shen Teng didn't cry, he felt very uncomfortable. After this meal, the two got back together.
7. They have changed a lot after getting back together
Shen Teng and Wang Qi have changed a lot after getting back together.
Shen Teng has become much more mature and has become more responsible. He would seek Wang Qi's opinion on everything he did. He only plays the game when Wang Qi asks him to. He stops immediately when Wang Qi asks him to stop. If he needs to socialize and have dinner with the opposite sex, if Wang Qi doesn't agree, Shen Teng will never go. Wang Qi used to be a perfectionist, but now she has learned to tolerate and compromise, and learned to appreciate Shen Teng's imperfections. After getting back together, they cherish their hard-won relationship even more.
8. After getting back together, Shen Teng’s career continued to rise, but he still refused to marry
In 2012, Shen Teng made his debut on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, performing the sketch "Today's Happiness". Played the role of "Hao Jian" in the sketch. In 2013, Shen Teng once again appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and performed the sketch "Today's Happiness 2".
After that, Shen Teng participated in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times. Shen Teng's name began to spread all over the world, and became popular all over the country.
After becoming famous, Shen Teng's situation has also undergone earth-shaking changes. Various resources are pouring in, and he is reluctant to receive them.
9. Wang Qi forced Shen Teng to marry and helped Shen Teng overcome his fear of marriage
By 2013, Wang Qi was 30 years old. After so many years of love, Wang Qi wanted stability After coming down, I wanted to have a result. Seeing that Shen Teng never talked about marriage, Wang Qi took the initiative to propose marriage and forced Shen Teng to marry, but Shen Teng still felt that it was not the best time to get married. She and Ma Li work well together, and many netizens want them to be together, even though Shen Teng has repeatedly emphasized that he has a girlfriend of 12 years.
Wang Qi felt very uncomfortable. She would follow Shen Teng in many activities. Even netizens could see her worry. As long as Ma Li was there, she would always appear. She also admitted without any secret that no matter what Li was, she would always be there.
As for Shen Teng's reluctance to get married, at first, Wang Qi also thought that Shen Teng didn't get married because he didn't love himself enough. But with deeper understanding, Wang Qi realized that Shen Teng was afraid of marriage, afraid of losing his freedom after marriage, having to take on more responsibilities, and worried that the two of them would change. In order for Shen Teng to overcome his fear of marriage, Wang Qi also spent a lot of effort. First, he made an electronic photo album that witnessed every moment of their love, and then took Shen Teng to various couples' gatherings. In addition, Wang Qi's careful comfort and Enlightenment, Shen Teng no longer rejects marriage so much, and even has expectations and yearning for marriage.
10. Shen Teng proposed to Wang Qi and finally got married
In 2015, "Charlotte Trouble" starring Shen Teng achieved good reviews and box office success, and Shen Teng felt that the time had come. , rushed to Wang Qi's hometown, and under the witness of relatives and friends, Shen Teng made a romantic and sincere proposal. Wang Qi was moved to tears on the spot.
He said that he had been planning this wedding for 12 years. Later, he explained that the reason why he did not get married after 12 years of dating was because he did not have enough confidence and ability to give the other person a family. He just wanted to become better and have enough ability to make Wang Qi happy. There is no so-called helplessness among netizens, they are just waiting for themselves to become stronger. It's just that he forgot that a girl's youth is very precious.
Many netizens also said that Shen Teng and Wang Qi have been in love for so long, not out of love, but out of responsibility. The 12-year relationship may not have a lot of passion and heartbeat, but each other has slowly integrated into each other's lives and become an indispensable part. And after considering it for such a long time and having witnessed the glitz of the entertainment industry, I believe that Shen Teng's decision to get married was a rational decision.
Mature love and marriage are not always perfect and without any problems. When problems arise, reflect on them and take the initiative to solve them. Know what you want, know what the other person wants, and at the same time be able to give the other person what they want, and enter the marriage rationally. Only such a marriage can be more stable and last longer. I hope they will never lose their original aspirations in the flashy entertainment industry.