"Even Qi Mei, who is it?"

In the fifth episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, I told Jia Baoyu that he was dreaming. I read a lot of pamphlets and heard some tunes, one of which is called "A Life's Mistake", and the last two sentences in it are "Even in the case of Mei Qi, the meaning is hard to be flat. (1) Generally speaking, the song "A lifetime's fault" is dedicated to Baochai, and it is about Baochai's ending, which is in natural contrast with the song "Wanning Beauty" written by Daiyu. It means that Daiyu has been crying for Baoyu all her life, and she only worries about this lovesickness every day, which is nothing more than a moon in the water and a flower in the mirror. Baochai finally achieved a good marriage, but it also delayed her life and did not fall into the expected happy ending.

Even Qi Mei is hard to understand. Does this sentence mean Baochai or Baoyu? I think, in fact, both of them have expressed their meaning, which is not only Baoyu's deep regret, but also Baochai's helpless sigh. The first sentence of this sentence is "sigh the world, the fly in the ointment is not true." "Then who should believe it? In fact, two people should feel this way in their marriage life, and both of them should believe it. On the surface, they are inseparable, but deep down, they can't completely connect with each other and hand over to each other. There is always a vague shadow and deep feelings between two people!

Baoyu, in particular, is afraid of hurting Baochai's heart, but she can't hide her yearning for Daiyu, so she sometimes seems shy and unnatural. Baochai must show her usual kindness and generosity.

Therefore, there is such a clip in the TV series. Baoyu pondered it and wanted to write a poem in memory of Daiyu, but he couldn't put pen to paper because he couldn't find the right words. Baochai looked at it and motioned for Baoyu. Baoyu left his seat and gave it to Baochai. After a little thinking, it becomes a poem. Two people read it together, but their hearts are closer and they put themselves in their shoes. When they reminisce about Daiyu, their minds are completely connected, but Daiyu is clearly Baochai's rival in love and Baoyu's eternal knot. So is this relationship normal?

Looking back at this sentence, from Baochai's point of view, although she married Baoyu and said that she would take Qi Mei as an example and take the other party as a guest one day, she also knew that Baoyu had been thinking about Sister Lin and even wanted to sleep outside, hoping to dream about Sister Lin. Without dreaming of him, she will feel sad for the distance between life and death year after year, but no beloved soul has visited his dream. In Baoyu's mind, Baochai can never replace Daiyu. Try to make the marriage of gold and jade a reality, but after all, wood and stone have a former alliance.

For Baoyu, although Baochai is gentle and smooth, and they can be affectionate after marriage, Baoyu will always think of Sister Lin. The pen room is sister Lin, and the thinking room is full of bits and pieces of past events between him and sister Lin, which have not been diluted by Baochai's existence. Just then, Daiyu and Baochai made up. Baoyu asked Daiyu when Meng Guang would take over Hongliang's case. ここここここここここここここここここここ. He was obsessed with the lonely forest on earth, because he couldn't let go of his sister Lin, and finally he kept his promise and became a monk.