Introduction: Remember those you have loved. The love you have given must be acknowledged. Say thank you to those who once liked you and confessed to you, and remember their sincerity and dedication. In ten, twenty, and thirty years of life, they have provided warmth and love, accompanied when they were lonely, encouraged when they were lost, hugged when they cried, and followed when they smiled.
1. Falling in love with someone is sometimes related to food. For example, a bowl of porridge or a cup of soup that she cooks for you. Many times, what is worth cherishing are memories related to delicious food. , the candlelight of the first dinner party, the green vegetables he brought over for the first time, the aroma of food is all in the memory, so love is also the taste of love.
2. Infatuated and wrongly paid, it is actually because you don’t know yourself clearly, you don’t know what kind of person you should love, and you don’t know what kind of person you are suitable for. If you continue to follow your stubbornness, It’s strange that love can go smoothly. Many times, you have to recognize your love clearly.
3. I didn’t know that when I think of you again after so many years, I will still cry with red eyes. I thought I had forgotten you long ago and wiped you out of my heart. But no matter how much time passes, you will always remain in a certain place in your heart, and others cannot replace it.
4. I really want to pat him on the shoulder in the future and ask: "If there is someone living in your heart, I will never be able to get in. What should I do?" My expression at the moment must be a smile. But I feel so sad in my heart: What I’m afraid of is not that you don’t love me now. What I’m afraid of is that you will never forget it, and I will never forget it.
5. If you were not too cowardly, how could you have the heart to cheat on someone, and how could you have the heart to give up so easily? You will understand later that if that person ever appears in the world, everyone else will become a makeshift person. And I don't want to give in. Because I have returned to my true nature, I am not willing to give in.
6. Life is so long. As long as you don’t reach the end, you won’t know which person will accompany you to the end. Sometimes when you meet someone, you think it's her, but when you look back later, it's just this part of the journey that gave you what you wanted.
7. Everyone has a history. Before we met each other, we all had our own experiences. There is no way to change the past, and it is because of the past that we become who we are now. We meet and fall in love, and the only thing we can change is the future. Every moment now determines our future.
8. How many times do you have to meet to understand a person? It takes a lot of turmoil to see clearly a person's heart. But for the sake of winning or losing, we are always unwilling to endure a turmoil, so we never have the opportunity to truly understand a person. Emotions that are smooth along the way have no intersection, only parallels.
9. You never need to find, chase, or win love, because love won’t hide, run away, or demand any price from you. As long as you leave a space for it in your heart, the love will naturally flow into your heart and fly into your arms.
10. Some people say: Love can be so humble that it blooms in the dust, or it can be so proud that it will never be seen again. What about us? You will never know that when I saw the happy photos of you and her, I burst into tears in front of the computer, but I didn’t know why I was crying.
11. Time is always young. As we grow older, you will find that the childlike innocence is still something to be proud of. I miss who I was back then, because everything was so hopeful. In this life, a person must be able to withstand lies, perfunctory treatment, deception, and forgotten promises.
12. Forgetting a person does not mean that you no longer think of it, but that you think of it occasionally, but there is no more waves in your heart. In everyone's phone book, there is a number that you will never call or delete; in everyone's heart, there is a person that you will never mention or forget.
13. What a love that is not accepted requires is not sadness, but a period of time that can be used to forget. A deeply wounded heart needs not sympathy, but understanding. In this world, there are places that cannot be reached, feelings that cannot be possessed, and shortcomings that cannot be repaired.
14. Love is due to the love that "if two people are in love for a long time, how can they last day and night". Or maybe it’s because of the feeling that “no matter where you are and whatever happens, you can feel that somewhere in this world, there are still people who will pay attention to you and listen to you.”
15. There are many stupid people in this world. I used to laugh at them, but it turns out that I always laughed at myself. One person reads a book, one person surfs the Internet, and one person eats fruit. I'm a little used to living alone, but I hope you can change it. It turns out that, inadvertently, I wanted to live with you.
16. If you really love someone, then don’t rush to be too nice to him. If you do everything to the extreme now, what will you do in the future? It will only gradually get worse, which will make him more and more dissatisfied with you. If he can tolerate your shortcomings and you gradually show your strengths, this kind of love will have good results.
17. If you are not willing to be just friends, many of your feelings are due to wishful thinking. In the end, you cannot even be friends.
Some originally good friendships ended up being because the other person liked you. If you don't respond, it seems difficult to maintain this friendship.
18. Life is a process, not a result. Most of us have a secret love, which can only be submerged in time and cannot blossom and bear fruit. It can only become an eternity in your memory. A trace of melancholy that will be forgotten. Our eyes determine that no matter how we turn, we can only see 180 degrees, and life is 360 degrees.
19. When you are happy, there are four lines of footprints on the beach. When you are sad, there are two lines of footprints on the beach. Because I accompany you when you are happy, and I carry you when you are sad, so you have to be happy, otherwise I will be very tired. What I am waiting for is time, waiting for time to let you change.
20. In the past, I only showed my best side to others. Now I don't mind if you see my shortcomings, because I want you to accept me as a complete person. I always feel that the world has treated me extremely well. I never thought so before, until I met you, the only one among all living beings.
21. When I miss you, I will write your name in the palm of my hand. Opening it up means missing you, holding it tightly means happiness. Some people will always be engraved in my memory. Even if I forget his voice, his smile, and his face, every time I think of him, I know that it is what I miss.
22. After two people have been together for a long time, they will choose to stay together even if they no longer love each other. Maybe someone you love will appear in your life, but they are just passers-by after all, and you will still hold your left hand or right hand and keep walking. Sometimes happiness really has nothing to do with love, as long as you can go on together.
23. I choose to forget, I just want to live better. You don't understand that kind of pain, and you don't care. It's like we are people from two worlds, just passers-by. I can see through your indifference and indifference. I can only bear the pain you gave me and cry alone.
24. When you have not found true love, loneliness is a gesture of self-improvement; when you have not found light, darkness is the color of survival; when you have not found ideals, confusion is unwillingness to be mediocre. thinking. In love, frankly speaking is the shortest way to reach each other's hearts.
25. In this life, in that place, when we turned around, you said that I appeared at the wrong time, but you can never forget that sincere love. It's only when a relationship can no longer continue, and a voice can no longer ring in my ears, that I miss those past moments.
26. There is nothing wrong with the road, only the choice. There is nothing wrong with love, only fate. Therefore, no matter where you go, the scenery along the way is always infinite, and there will be beautiful moments after all. No matter when and where, our love will be forever, our love will breathe each other and always be with you.
27. In the beginning, I was persistent for you because I loved you; in the end, I cried for you because I lost you; leaving only the middle, we are happy together , were happy together, leaving only some unforgettable remnants of memories.
28. We will cry in the wind, run in the rain, and want to recall the lost beauty along the way. In the end, we are the ones who stop with a smile. Because, what cannot be stopped is time. Only I can stop chasing. I know that after many things are broken, they will never be able to return to their original appearance.
29. Maybe you will be sad when she leaves, but it is better than losing your soul. No one will stay with you forever... If you really love someone, that person will appear in your heart when you want to forget it the most, and will appear in your heart when you are the saddest and most lost.
30. The development of many things is destined to have an end. I can only say that life is impermanent, and none of us knows who is waiting for whom at the corner. However, there is always such a person or such people who take over the ups and downs of my life and give me joy throughout my life.
Postscript: Life is like this. If I could turn back time, I would still choose to get to know you. Although the waiting is very sad, the warm memories in my heart can’t be given by anyone. Regardless of whether I am lucky enough to have it in this life, I am willing to sincerely hope for it. Humble into the dust, and then bloom into flowers
1. Love is not the initial sweetness, but the persistence that persists even after the prosperity retreats.
2. Don’t pay attention to those who make irresponsible remarks behind your back. It just means that you are ahead of them.
3. I don’t lack love. Your leaving just makes me lose one habit.
4. I don’t want to be a moment of brilliant fireworks, I just want to be your ordinary forever.
5. Sometimes you can look at it very indifferently, but sometimes you can be a little too persistent.
6. Having an ideal but not willing to work hard for it is just a fantasy.
7. Please forgive me for not loving you enough, because I still need to leave some love for myself.
8. A smile is fleeting, but sometimes, the memory behind the smile can last forever.
9. If you don’t take detours, you will miss the scenery. In any case, thank you for the experience.
10. Sometimes if you pretend to be strong for a long time, you will become really strong inside.
11. I know you will come, so I choose to wait.
12. The person who loves you most is not the person who holds an umbrella for you when it rains, but the person who gets wet with you in the rain.
13. Only with a peaceful mind can you discover unexpected beauty.
14. Thinking foolishly, laughing foolishly, and waiting blankly. There is always that one person who makes you lose your mind.
15. No matter how strong a person is, there is always a soft place in his heart that cannot be touched.
16. No one can belittle us except ourselves. If we are strong, no bad influence can defeat us.
17. Don’t waste a minute feeling sad. If a window is closed, find another one, or simply open a door.
18. Every reserved and calm present has a silly and naive past.
19. The most terrifying thing is not failure but the fear of failure.
20. People who are easy to hurt others and themselves are always vague about the edge of distance.
21. When you are sad, do you also like to hide yourself silently?
22. Life is very busy, who is willing to stop in the scenery and sing a song to yourself.
23. Only when you are at your lowest will you know who is the fool who is worried about you and who is the bastard who is a stranger to you.
24. The past is experience, the present is attempt, and the future is expectation. Once you have experienced it and tried it, you will have expectations.
25. If you are unhappy, it is not that there is something wrong with your life, but that there is something wrong with your lifestyle.
26. Humble yourself into the dust, and then bloom.
27. Old times are like yellowed photos, treasured on the title page of memory. Zhang Ailing: Flowers Blooming in the Dust
1. Meeting the person you want to meet among millions of people, in the endless wilderness of time in millions of years, there is no way to be a step earlier. I was not a step late, I just happened to catch up, I had nothing else to say, I could only ask softly: "Oh, are you here too?"
Zhang Ailing has so many novels, but I feel that "Love" 》The most meaningful. There are no gorgeous words, no deliberate embellishments, and no twists and turns in the plot, but the gentle sentence "Oh, are you here too?" represents everything - all beginnings, all endings, and all life. ...
Love is between movement and stillness, and fate is between gathering and separation.
2. When I meet you, I become very low, even to the dust, but my heart is happy. And a flower bloomed there.
Jie Chen said: All love has humility in it, and the weight is just different! Because when you fall in love with someone or care about someone, you have to compromise. Compromise naturally has a feeling of humility. In a reciprocal emotional relationship, this humility is mutual, and it is the effort and dedication of both men and women to an emotion.
3. Because you have loved, you are compassionate; because you understand, you are tolerant.
Maybe Ai Ling is like this. She only treats Hu Lancheng with a compassionate heart, so she has so much tolerance. However, I don’t know because of her compassion. , does she really have the love she wants? Love is not tolerance, let alone tolerance. Love is absolutely selfish, absolutely unreasonable, and absolutely does not tolerate a grain of sand.
It’s just that women are naturally weak. Please note that their love contains too much indulgence and being indulged. Looking back, all the women who could not learn compassion left one by one. Only a compassionate woman will still have dreams of self-deception in the palace of love.
4. We can never go back!
The fate remains, but the love is no longer. This is the most touching, simple and sad sentence spoken by Gu Manzhen and Shen Shijun, lovers who have been separated for more than ten years, when they reunited after separation! The desolation of the human world is all included in it. This is also the ultimate characteristic of Zhang Ailing's novels: one sentence, a few words, is enough to bring out the countless bitterness in the world, the heart-breaking but still unspeakable sorrow.
Yes, I can’t go back, I can’t go back! Because there are endless waves of time between them. A relationship has lasted for fifteen years, and a wait has also lasted for fifteen years. Fifteen years is enough for a vigorous love to finally settle down. Ask the world, how much love can come back? Please cherish the people in front of you.
Because, you think that since the days pass by like this day by day, of course they should also pass by like this day by day. Yesterday, today, and tomorrow should be no different. But there will come a time when you let go and turn around, and something will completely change. The sun sets, but before it rises again, some people will be separated from you forever.
5. Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two.
Marry a red rose, and over time, the red becomes a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white remains the moonlight in front of the window; marry a white rose, and the white becomes a grain of rice sticky on your clothes, but the red becomes the heart. A cinnabar mole on the face.
This is the most realistic and insightful description of a man in Zhang Ailing’s book. I have to admire her ability to describe a man’s psychology so thoroughly!
At first, most men like the elegance and beauty of white roses. Their bright fragrance is like the cold mountain snow. It is worth paying the price of a lifetime to sink in this cold water.
However, after spending so much time intoxicated and ecstatic, the man gradually became dissatisfied. He began to want a happy and gorgeous dream, enchanting and rich, swaying in the moonlight dusk. Red roses are fragrant, spicy and charming.
In fact, a woman’s beauty always has thousands of faces, and not everyone can see it. In front of a smart enough man, it will reveal the most subtle colors in the world to you. At that moment, pure white and bright red presented a different and sweet look. Such graceful flowers need deep love and intelligent warmth to irrigate.
There are both red roses and white roses in every woman’s soul, but only a man who knows how to love can make the woman he loves more and more beautiful. Even white flowers as cold as starlight can At the same time, it can be charming and elegant.
Unfortunately, there are too few men in the world who know how to love! The truly perfect woman in a man's heart always changes with time and experience! Something you can never achieve. Therefore, whether it is a red rose or a white rose, there will always be regrets and shortcomings that cannot be satisfied, so men are always longing for the arrival of other roses.
6. Memories are always melancholy! The pleasant ones make people feel that it is a pity that it is over; the unpleasant ones still make people sad when thinking about them.
There are many things in this world that you think you can continue to do tomorrow; there are many people you think you can definitely see again, so when you temporarily put down your hands, or temporarily turn around Sometimes, all you have in your heart is the hope of meeting again tomorrow, and sometimes you won’t even feel this hope!
7. When you are born in this world, there is no emotion that is not riddled with holes. of.
The so-called beauty only exists in the plot. Because it is not aesthetic, we will pursue it hard; because it is not aesthetic, it lets us know that there is something called hope. However, in fact, feelings cannot be greedy. "If anyone thinks that there is perfect love, he is either a poet or an idiot." Therefore, we do not require perfection in love, but only seek a real, down-to-earth love to cleanse our mood. It is the correct emotional attitude.
Even when it is really riddled with holes, don’t deliberately keep it, because every relationship has a reason for its existence at the beginning, and it is inevitable that it will end at the end. When I wrote this sentence, I thought of Huang Yaoshi's classic line in "Ashes of Time": When you can no longer have it, the only thing you can do is to make yourself not forget it.
I didn’t know where it came from before, but I always felt that these words were so insightful that only a woman with a beautiful heart like her could say them. Although she has only a few relationships made public to the world, she seems to be a sophisticated person. She speaks such a sentence so smoothly that it makes people sigh.
8. Life goes by so fast, especially for people after middle age, ten or eight years seems to be a matter of time. But for young people, three to five years can last a lifetime.
The former has gained insight through the vicissitudes of time. The latter is naive due to the prosperity of the years.
Husband and wife originally loved each other very much, so they had the courage to decide to spend their lives together. But after three years, five years, ten years or eight years, they will always get tired of it. If they don't break up, they will just live like relatives. together. But if they are relatives, why do they need to be husband and wife again? You don’t have the answer, and neither do I. Likewise Zhang Ailing did not.
When I was a child, I loved listening to fairy tales and thought that the prince and Cinderella would walk on the red carpet and everything would be perfect. The beauty of the story lies in the artificial pause in time, consciously ignoring the decades of life that follow. When I grew up, I realized I had been fooled. Fairy tales are beautiful, but reality is cruel. Eileen Chang tells us, with the awe-inspiring attitude of a bystander, that life is filled with endless trivial matters, like a gorgeous robe covered with countless louse of hatred.
9. Whether loving you is worth it or not, in fact, you should know that love does not ask whether it is worth it.
When Zhang Ailing was 23 years old, she fell in love with a 38-year-old man - Hu Lancheng. He is a married man, and he is an out-and-out traitor.
I believe that Zhang Ailing is very clear about Hu Lancheng's character, conduct, and political stance, but she has no way to prevent herself from falling into the abyss of love with Hu, which is also the abyss of pain in her life. . A woman in love cannot control herself, just like a smoker who smokes smoke even though he knows it is harmful.
So, love is blind, there is no question of whether it is worth it or not.
When you fall in love with someone, do you still think rationally? If so, it only means that this is not love! < /p>
And if a man falls in love with a woman, it is as if he has discovered the aura he has been looking for! The beauty of the aura makes him intoxicated, and he gives her a lot of tenderness. The woman is touched by the gentleness of the man and will never look back. I dedicated myself to the man, and finally the halo tightly wrapped around my body...
Time passed by, the halo slowly became gray, and the man's face gradually looked older. , accompanied by the halo, the man has gradually matured and understood many things in the world! But at the same time, he also feels that the woman has grown old and has lost her former brilliance!
A good man: He understands the brilliance of a woman and how to Tightly integrated into one's life! It is a woman's luck!
Bad man: He will get tired of it, easily peel off the aura from himself, and then abandon it! It is a woman's misfortune! If you like someone, you will humble yourself into the dust and then bloom into flowers
1. The first thing you do when you wake up every day is to sleep.
2. Life is like: endless vomiting, endless cheating...
3. So many signatures explain someone's mood.
4. If you love me, come back and come into my arms.
5. When you leave my world, I can also find peace.
6. I don’t understand music, so I am sometimes unreliable and out of tune.
7. Just because we have a holiday, you can’t treat me as a holiday.
8. You said that I am your life, will you die if I leave you? Why aren't you dead yet?
9. The highest state of eating at a buffet is actually: carry it in and carry it out.
10. Teacher: We want to swim in the ocean of books. Xiao Ming: OK! Boating or swimming?
11. God, I won’t call you “grandfather” anymore. You don’t love me as my granddaughter at all.
12. What is true unforgettable love? It’s just that the old relationship has been replaced. That’s all.
13. I found that my biggest shortcoming is lack of money. Do you feel the same way?
14. Don’t call me arrogant, I just refuse to deal with animals.
15. How dare you say that you are pure? Look at the cloudiness in your eyes.
16. The words hidden in my heart are not meant to be hidden, but not all pain can be shouted out.
17. I will give everything I have for your words!
18. When you die, my story ends, but when I die, your story is still long.
19. Maybe I can’t forget you, but I believe that time will make me gradually get used to life without you.
20. Since I got mental illness, I have become more energetic.
21. What’s the use of being handsome? It’s not like you smile at the cash machine and he will spit out money for you.
22. People who live in hope can still dance without music.
23. Everyone lives like an uncle and pretends to be a grandson.
24. Only when a woman is unattractive will she think a man is philandering, and only when a man does not have the strength will he think a woman is realistic.
25. If you like someone, you will humble yourself into the dust and then bloom into flowers.
26. Sunflowers tell me that as long as we work hard to grow facing the sun, our days will become simple and beautiful.