20 14 the phrase "having money is willful" spread all over the streets.
Then "willful appearance", "willful talent" and so on, for a time "willful body" was online. Here, I have a question in my heart: What does "willfulness" mean? Can rich and talented people be "willful"? I think most people's understanding of the word willfulness is half-joking.
People always use the word "willfulness" to play a light joke on some actions of people around them. However, people often ignore the nature of arbitrariness. On the Internet, a rich man posted a Weibo: "I ate a big meal today and spent a little money."
Then I posted a huge financial list below, and sure enough, the following netizens scrambled to comment: "Being rich is willful." As a result, the people who show off their wealth are satisfied, and the commentators seem to feel that there is nothing wrong with them and are proud of their funny skills.
In this case, the word "willfulness" will cover up the vulgar nature of those who show off their wealth and package it into an interesting and harmonious thing. This veiled willfulness undoubtedly exposes the distortion of people's pursuit of value in society. No matter how warm and funny the coat is, the vulgar nature cannot be hidden.
Similarly, those who are willful on the grounds of "appearance", just like those who show off their wealth, just want to get their vanity satisfaction from "willfulness", which is supported by some people and echoed by others, making people feel helpless. As the saying goes, it takes two hands to clap, some people dazzle, some people hold, and all respond at once, so "willfulness" has become a fashion. Of course, not all "willfulness" hides the bad essence.
By my side, people who study well or are warm-hearted will also be called "willful" The "willfulness" here is different from the famous people on the Internet. When people turn goodwill into jokes, they are actually praising beautiful things and expressing their love for this "willfulness".
In my opinion, well-intentioned willfulness is desirable, and those who wear the coat of "willfulness" are actually vulgar willfulness and should be eliminated. Only when people see clearly the nature of "willfulness" and pursue something of real value will hypocritical willfulness disappear from life.
Therefore, when you see something online or in your life and want to blurt out "so-and-so is willful", you might as well stop and look behind willfulness before deciding whether to say it or not.