Kindergarten is dominated by play, with few class hours and loose discipline; Primary school began to learn culture formally, and there was almost no time to play at school. Standard class hours are very strict. Children need an adaptation process in this ever-changing environment, which is also the main reason why I choose preschool!
So, how to go to preschool?
Since preschool is regarded as the transition of children, how can we achieve our goal? As a parent, I must first define my goals:
1. Let children understand why they want to go to school and know that going to school is serious;
2. What can he get from going to school-the cultivation of a sense of accomplishment, so that children can learn actively;
3. How to make learning easier-the cultivation of learning methods is the lifelong ability of children and the decisive factor of parents' efforts during children's 12 primary and secondary schools;
4. How to make learning more enjoyable-although this is also a learning method, I must make a list to remind myself: Since the bear is learning while playing, why should people be an exception? Let's replace reprimand with laughter and confrontation with joy. Work hard!
With the goal, the next step is how to achieve it:
1. Parents should take the lead in observing school discipline and not be late, leave early or take time off easily;
2. Parents should absolutely cooperate with the school, communicate with the teacher alone if there is any problem, and never question the teacher that the school is wrong in front of the child, otherwise the little head will be chaotic, and the consequence will be that the child will gradually lose control (including parental discipline);
Stop complaining about letting parents check their homework. Are you tired of this and expect your children to do their homework? I told the baby clearly: this is your homework, not mine, because you were not skilled at first, so I was checking it for you. You should thank me for helping you. If you are sure of your homework, you don't need my help. Now he basically doesn't want me to check his homework. Actually, I'm still looking into it, but I didn't let him know, and I didn't remind him if I found anything wrong. After the homework is corrected, I will analyze the reasons for the mistakes with him.
No matter how busy you are, spend some time with your children every day. When the child grows up, you want to accompany him, but he doesn't want to. My baby likes to play class games now: he is a teacher and I am a student (everything can be reviewed). Or a shopping game: he is the boss and I am the customer (practicing calculation). I also like playing monsters (calculating damage) ...
At this point, everyone should have their own answer, and my answer is:
Learning attitude, learning methods, parents' counseling methods, and home-school cooperation, cultural learning is only the carrier of the above.