Speak softly, half water, half fire; Half of life is to cut through thorns, and half is to retreat bravely. Fire and water are incompatible, and the word maker skillfully combines them, revealing the true taste of "light": combining rigidity with softness. The lightness of life needs to be picked up through thorns and thorns, and it needs to be put down quickly. The moon is round when it is lost, and so is the full moon. The ultimate goal of life is not to "advance" blindly, nor to "retreat" blindly.
The old man said: 1 Don't climb, don't be angry with yourself; 2. Do more things and talk less, and the masses will have weight in their hearts; 3. Eat less salt, be jealous, play less mahjong and take more walks; 4. Go to bed on time, get up on time, run, swim and keep fit; 5. It is more important for couples to love their children and be filial to their families than anything else; 6. No matter how much money the official has, King Yan will still drags his feet; 7. Do something good and accumulate points. I often miss Maitreya in my heart; 8. It's a blessing to be a little bitter and stupid.
There is no hard work in the world, and no place where people are not complicated. Even if you reject the present unhappiness, time will not pass slowly. Women, long snacks! Don't lose your temper at will. Nobody owes you anything. Learn to keep a low profile, there must be gains and losses between choices, and don't care too much. We should also learn to be practical and pragmatic. The simpler the happier. When a woman has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence.
While we are still young, we should walk a few more steps and enjoy the scenery along the way. Don't rush to our destination and miss the warm people and things in the fleeting time. While we are still young, we should talk more romantic words and do more childish things. Don't think that people are joking and miss the best fragments and occasions in life. Shorten the distance and lengthen the time while we are still young. Do more things we want to do while we are still young.
See through it and overcome it, pick it up and put it down, and stand upright. Three blessings in life: peace is a blessing, health is a blessing, and loss is a blessing. There are three things in life: no competition with superiors, no competition with peers and no competition with subordinates. Three major events in life: wine, girlfriends and pillow books. Three regrets in life: I didn't make friends, I didn't grasp the opportunity, and I didn't study when I met the teacher. There are three things in life: harmony is the most important, goodness is the foundation, and honesty is the first.
Some people are destined to be passers-by in life; Some things often make us very helpless. In fact, it is better to face it frankly than to cry; Then don't wait for the wrong person, and don't be heartbroken. Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy; Get, not necessarily for a long time; Lose, not necessarily no longer have. When you love, set him free; When you don't love, let love be free. Maybe if you look down, the damage will be less!
Youth is a book that can't be closed when it is opened, life is a road that can't be turned back when you set foot on it, and love is a bet that you can't get back if you throw it out. Be good to yourself, life is not long; Be kind to people around you, and you may not meet them in the next life.
Friends are two-sided things, some can give you warmth, and some will only make you feel cold. Even if you have been hurt by friends, you should be glad that we can come together in this era of no money, no power, no benefit and no power. It doesn't really matter. If you feel right, you will stick to it. If you are tired of traveling, you can't blame anyone. Everyone lives for himself, don't keep those who leave. Take good care of the people around you, let them really understand your goodness, and be inseparable from each other. That's a true friend.
Love when you are young is that you happily think that you will spend your life with the person in front of you, so you have expectations for everything in the future and insist that it will come true. It wasn't until many years later that we experienced the pains of growing up and the changes of love, and we walked through thousands of waters in Qian Shan before we suddenly realized. All these years are just a beautiful dream given to you by God. In order to support you, we will spend this long life.
Girl, don't think about who changed yourself for, what made you thin and white, what made you a lady, and what made you short-tempered and narrow-minded. To put it bluntly is useless. Although you are the truest self, there will always be people who love you.
How many people love each other under the banner of friendship; How many people are telling the truth or expressing it in a joke.
The biggest failure of a man is not that no girl likes him, but that the girl who likes him feels that she was blind at the beginning. Remember the sentence "When no one loves you, you should live like a man".
The so-called loneliness of leftover women is actually imagined by boring people. In their view, single women must have a lonely pillow and can't sleep in Lacrimosa. In fact, how difficult it can be to talk about a love, the difficult thing is to find the fate of a lifetime, and the temporary single is because of the persistence of love. Being single is a wholehearted person who has enough strength to wait for fate. The single heart is not lonely, because it is full of expectations for love.
Young you have every reason to believe that you will get the happiest love in the world. Therefore, I also have enough reasons to advise you to wait patiently. Don't believe any sweet talk too early, whether it's good or bad, it won't do you any good. Fruit will not become sweet until it is ripe, and so will happiness.
Some people have it but don't cherish it. If you miss it, it will be a lifetime. No one will always stand in the same place waiting for someone. Love is actually that simple. It is good for two people to like each other, asking too much, but losing the exact feeling before.
The most frustrating thing in a relationship is not quarreling, not the cold war, but pretending not to care when you clearly like it. Love is always associated with self-esteem. But self-esteem is not a condescending gesture, but being honest with yourself. People all over the world are used to playing a disdainful Leng Yan. The better the acting, the farther away from happiness. Don't hide too deep, happiness won't find you.
There are prosperity and adversity in life, and it is impossible to have adversity everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. It is a shallow life to be cocky because of prosperity or peak, and depressed because of adversity or trough. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, then you are doomed to be a weak person forever.
Life is like taking a train. The scenery in the past is so beautiful that you can't live without it, but you have to move on. You tell yourself that I will definitely come back later, but in fact, you often never come back. After all, the retreating scenery and the people you meet are drifting away.