Why use it? It's a long story As early as a few years ago, when I was decorating, I had no place to go at noon because of a surprise inspection. In the afternoon, I have to supervise the work, so I sit on the bench downstairs and read a book ... I just got up at the door to buy lunch when I heard an amiable voice: son, I heard you speak with a Shanxi accent. Are you from Shanxi? I come from Fenyang, but we are fellow villagers? Yes, yes, and you are? I'm upstairs, with your neighbor on the same floor. Seeing that you work so hard every day, you can't eat well. It's just that our family just made you a bowl of ribs stew. Eat while it's hot. Decorating the house is very tiring, so you must pay attention to your health ... What can you say in the face of this sudden hospitality? This is my first neighbor. On that day, I ate a bowl of ordinary lunch, full of warmth and gratitude. ......
But soon after I moved here, I lived a long life of depression and embarrassment ... why do you say that?
First, I was in a bad mood because I couldn't go to work before my job was transferred. Second, I didn't expect so many people upstairs to have dogs, which may be a characteristic of Beijingers. But dogs are my nemesis, because I was injured by dogs when I was a child, which is the so-called fear of being bitten by snakes for ten years. Seeing dogs everywhere in corridors, elevators and communities, I couldn't escape, and I didn't even have the courage to go downstairs to buy food and take a walk. Depression and timidity filled my whole body. I had to stay at home and wait for my husband to get off work before taking me out for a walk. Alas, when will this day end? ! What is even more exasperating is that a Beijinger keeps three dogs on the stairs, and every day when he passes by the elevator, he hears them barking. What's more, sometimes when they meet by chance at the entrance of the stairs, they will jump on me ... I am scared out of my wits and complain bitterly. This life is really hard, and the neighborhood is also famous for being afraid of dogs. I often hear neighbors whispering, what I can't see is too delicate, and some even say that I am a wonderful flower ... so I can imagine my relationship with the dog-raising elder sister's family. ......
After a year or so, not long after, a family of four moved in next door, two elderly people in their 60 s, an eldest son and a puppy named Soybean. It's over. Unfortunately, there are three dogs on the first floor. Now I have a dog companion who is still next door. Is this still called people? What have I done?
Loneliness from my hometown in the north of Beijing, helplessness of not going to work, loneliness with a bleak future, and confusion and confusion of being afraid of dogs not going out. I'm going to be depressed. One day, I left my key at home and couldn't get in ... what should I do? You have to find a neighbor if you bite the bullet. Everything is difficult at the beginning, so I have no choice but to bite the bullet and knock on the door next door. ......
Unexpectedly polite, the neighbor elder sister tried to find a way while giving advice. After some efforts, she finally hooked the key out of the house through the window.
Out of gratitude, my husband timidly walked into the door of the neighbor's house next door for the first time. Naturally, we were greeted by soybeans ... first, we jumped up and down, and then we heard the barking. Of course, for him, he is defensive, repulsive and perhaps excited, because people say that dogs will take care of their owners. When he sees their friendliness and concern for us, it is not necessarily disgusting. Under the protection and persuasion of my elder sister and her husband, I am also approaching and feeling every move of soybean step by step, one happy and one angry. ......
Things in the world are so subtle that with the first close contact, they gradually feel less terrible.
In this way, three people in our family gradually became the best neighbors with the soybean family. They come to help with everything at home, and we often buy meat for small soybeans. Because I went to work later, the express delivery at home was handed over to the soybean family to pick it up. In this way, I am the most afraid of dogs, and dogs have become long-term friends, and soybeans have become long-term guests of our family. The dog owners in the Dragon House gradually stopped pointing at me. ......
Later, there was a new family of three, a closer fellow villager, a Shanxi native in his thirties. He is a lovely boy, smart, beautiful and smart. Everyone in the corridor wants to come to Doby. ......
Things in the world are sometimes coincidental. One day, the company will have to make reports and count a lot of data, which requires a lot of knowledge about spreadsheets, and my computer level is only to cope with daily work. It's hard for me. What should I do? Tomorrow the leaders will draw up the first draft, and I have no idea. After thinking hard, I went to my fellow villager with a try attitude and asked him to give me an idea. When my idea first came out, I didn't expect him to say, Sister Liu, I study computers and make financial statements. Suddenly I felt that my eyes were shining and I couldn't find a place to take it. Without much effort, I felt infinitely moved-how desirable and worthwhile the harmony between neighbors is.
..... The word "harmony" put forward in the article on the switch must be meaningful, that is, in addition to the above family, there are several authentic Beijingers in our community. The family is an old couple. The woman heard that she was almost 90 years old, and the man heard that she was over 90, but the old couple were still in good health. Several children take turns to take care of her. Every time they meet, they are very polite. Sometimes they talk about their lives. In short, it counts. However, the elder sister who has three dogs mentioned above has lived in the same corridor for several years because of dogs or because she despises each other, but she has never said a word. In fact, to be honest, it's always a little embarrassing every time I pass by her house. But it is difficult for anyone to take the first step of friendship.
One day after work, I suddenly saw my husband teasing a little boy about two years old. I went to chat up, only to know that this is the grandson of my eldest sister with three dogs. It's so cute. We are all immersed in the joy of playing with our children. In this unrestrained and relaxed atmosphere, we have long forgotten the unhappiness and embarrassment. ..... When we meet again, my sister always comes over with her child in her arms and greets us happily. Suddenly, she understood that it is never too late to be friendly between neighbors, but it is not out of date. A friendly smile and a friendly greeting will be a warm and peaceful atmosphere and a very relaxed and happy mood.
This is the story of my neighbor and me. Those feelings that can be met everywhere, those warm moments are always around us, and more often they are created by our hearts and actions. Sometimes, with more communication, less suspicion, more communication, less negligence, more warmth, less indifference, more attention and less indifference, life will smile at you and happiness will quietly approach you.
Pray that my neighbor and I will live in peace forever. Happy and healthy every day.