Qi Fanqi’s micro-lesson
"You will be a hero in life, but you will be a hero in death." As a weak woman in a feudal society, it is really admirable to be able to write such heroic words. Incessantly.
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"Jade has spirituality and shines with its beauty." She is Li Qingzhao, the most talented woman throughout the ages.
Her life can be roughly divided into three stages:
01 The dazzling and glorious girlhood:
We are all familiar with Su Shi, the great writer of the Song Dynasty. ? Three of the Eight Great Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties were Su Xun, Su Che and Su Shi.
Li Qingzhao’s father, Li Gefei, was the direct disciple of Su Shi.
Li Qingzhao’s mother is the granddaughter of the number one scholar Wang Gongchen.
Therefore, Li Qingzhao lived in a family with a very strong cultural atmosphere since she was a child. Her father, Li Gefei, was proficient in classics and history, and her mother was even officially recorded in the history books of the Song Dynasty as "her granddaughter is also famous for her talents."
Li Qingzhao has been influenced by her ears and eyes since she was a child:
In her early poems, she explored nature, sorrow and drunkenness, and the thoughts of a girl, and her descriptions were penetrating.
As time goes by, Li Qingzhao has a poetic name that rivals everyone:
He was also highly praised by Chao Buzhi, a famous literary figure at the time and Su Shi's eldest disciple.
How could such a talented and beautiful girl from a prominent family not be lovable?
However, after all the hardships, it will not be the case. In this life, I only wait for the destined person. Even though the matchmaker had crossed the threshold, he couldn't move her. Her destined man's surname was Zhao.
It is said that a talented man will eventually marry a beautiful woman. Just like Sima Xiangru must be included in Zhuo Wenjun’s story. How could Li Qingzhao’s life be without Zhao Mingcheng, who knew her and understood her?
I have been waiting for many years, just for one person. His name is Zhao Mingcheng, and he is the son of the Minister of Civil Affairs. The marriage between the two is considered a perfect match.
02 The married life of Qin Se and Ming:
Li Qingzhao is a rare and beautiful woman in the world, and she finally married the man who understands her best, Zhao Mingcheng.
However, the political situation has changed and the world has been turned upside down. In the second year after their marriage, the happy and sweet couple was involved in a complex political struggle.
After fighting in the officialdom, Li Qingzhao and his wife returned to their private land in Qingzhou and began to live in the countryside. It's just that I lost my pampered life. I'm lucky that I didn't lose my life.
A legendary life can not only control wealth and prominence, but also be content with rural life. Even if he returns to his hometown, "this is a humble house, but I am virtuous and kind"; an elegant person "has poetry and calligraphy in his belly."
Zhao Mingcheng likes to collect, and Li Qingzhao fully supports it. He would rather "eat the heavy stuff" The meat and clothes are all stripped of color, the head is not decorated with pearls and jade, and the room is not decorated with gold and embroidery."
The most famous thing between Li Qingzhao and his wife is that "the fragrance of tea is lost in gambling". .
The two of them, affectionate as a man and a concubine, stayed in their hometown of Qingzhou for more than ten years until Zhao Mingcheng was rehabilitated.
Later, Zhao Mingcheng was appointed by the imperial court, but the good times were short-lived. As the prefect of Jiangning, Zhao Mingcheng was supposed to protect his family and the country, but he ended up being a cowardly deserter.
Being ridiculed by Li Qingzhao, Zhao Mingcheng became increasingly depressed and died of illness soon.
You are going to let me go now, leaving me to drag my feet. For a long time after Zhao Mingcheng's death, Li Qingzhao was in a daze and was heartbroken.
When the country was ruined and the family was destroyed, the deceased was already dead. Li Qingzhao moved around with the things that her husband Zhao Mingcheng had collected throughout his life.
In fact, after Zhao Mingcheng died of illness, the cultural relics they collected were scattered and lost, and there was not much left.
03 The miserable and desolate scene in his later years:
Zhang Ailing once said: "People in troubled times just muddle along and have no real home."
After Zhao Mingcheng died, Li Qingzhao He had a bad fate and was "miserable and miserable". But she is strong and resolute, and never compromises, gives in, or makes do.
Even when he met the scumbag Zhang Ruzhou during his second marriage, Li Qingzhao was brave and decisive in taking him to the Yamen.
Not long after Zhang Ruzhou married Li Qingzhao, his true colors were revealed.
He asked Li Qingzhao for gold and stone cultural relics, but Li Qingzhao was naturally unwilling to give them. Zhang Ruzhou became angry and subjected her to domestic violence.
Li Qingzhao, who dared to think and act, filed a complaint and sent the domestic violence scumbag to jail. Not only did he save his property, but he also became single again.
Divorce was a big joke at that time. If a woman sued her husband, she would have to go to jail for two years regardless of winning or losing. Li Qingzhao would rather go to jail himself than send the scumbag to class jail, which shows his strong determination.
Fortunately, Li Qingzhao was rescued by a group of friends, and she only served nine days in jail.
After tearing apart the scumbag, Li Qingzhao was over fifty years old.
She enjoyed great blessings in the first half of her life, but in her later years she lived a lonely life, wandering alone in the flames of war.
But if you think that after this ordeal, Li Qingzhao will spend her old age depressed and pitiful, then you are totally wrong.
At this time, she came to our Jinhua (Jinhua, Zhejiang, the Jinhua of Jinhua Ham.) During this period, she wrote a magnificent song "Inscribed on the Eight-Yong Tower", which is still recited in our city.
People who have this feeling will definitely not be in a bad mood.
04 Right and wrong will be determined by merits and demerits
It is said that heaven will send great responsibilities to people here. Without such a bumpy life and a bad fate, perhaps there would be less in this world. A talented woman is missing a "graceful sect".
Li Qingzhao, a wonderful woman through the ages, "This flower is not the same as other flowers."
She has written the most refreshing and refined poems, drank intoxicating and fragrant wine, and played the music of the piano and the harp. In terms of relationships, I have also encountered the scumbag and worst men, and finally achieved a true and brilliant self.
If life gives you pain and suffering, stand up and defeat it!
Qi Fanqi Issue 2, 28 Days (4), 1788 words