Mother is an extremely diligent and kind person, and she speaks very straight. When I came home a few days ago, my second sister's little granddaughter, who is less than three years old, learned from somewhere that long legs and big eyes look good. We teased her not to eat vegetables, and she naively stretched her legs and said, "Look how long my legs are!" " "Then he tried to open a pair of wonderful little eyes and said with a smile," I still have a pair of big eyes. "My mother followed:" Is there anything smaller than your eyes? "Little granddaughter don't understand, may not understand grandma, also won't be angry with her. Our aunt doesn't care. We laughed and attacked our mother: "mom, can you pick a nice sentence?" How can you speak so directly? "
Coincidentally, I chatted with my husband at night, and she asked me to call his sister-in-law to thank them for cooking for us at home for the bricklayer who cleaned the old house and asking about the situation at home. I remember that my sister-in-law had a lot of trivial matters in the countryside and it was not convenient to answer the phone. Besides, we have not wronged my sister-in-law. We gave her everything and were reluctant to make this call. I made some phone calls and finally got through. I asked about my family first, and my sister-in-law was busy eating. I said casually, "My family asked me to call you to ask about the situation at home and express my gratitude." Sister-in-law smiled and said, "can't he call every day?" Why let you fight? " I said casually, "Yes, it's not necessary." I chatted with my husband at night, and when I talked about it, I was ridiculed by him: "You said that your mother speaks straight, and you are only a little better than your mother." I can't help laughing, but it's true. I don't beat around the bush, but it rarely hurts people. It seems to be better than my mother.
My mother gave birth to five daughters, all married and married, and all lived happily. My mother still remembers that she has no son, and often blurts out "crazy words": "We have a silly son to accompany us in the New Year." We will go back and say, "You can live such a good life with a stupid son?" My parents worked hard all their lives, exhausted their life savings and didn't save much money, but my mother often said unconvinced, "I have a son who must go out and rebuild five big houses." We teased her: "Mom, you haven't saved enough money to build a house, let alone marry a wife." Mother said confidently, "Can my son not make money?" We can only smile bitterly. Mom doesn't know the pain of raising children without raising them! How many old people in the village still live in dilapidated old houses after building houses for their children! At first, my mother lived in five big houses she built. After several repairs, the house is neither new nor old. As a rural old man, the house is already very good. Later, Xiaomei spent hundreds of thousands to build a two-story building in the village, which was richly decorated. They have a house in the city, so my parents live in it. My mother is still not satisfied: "if we live in our son's house, we feel very imposing, but we just don't live in our daughter's house!" " We smiled bitterly: "Mom, you can't live in your son's house at ordinary times."
Speaking frankly is sometimes an advantage, and sometimes it hurts. Last year, my father was often dizzy. We took him to see many doctors. Once my little sister and I took him to see a doctor and brought back a lot of Chinese medicine. My brother-in-law paid for it. After returning home, my mother asked, "Is it a lot of money to take so many medicines?" I said, "My brother-in-law took it, two or three hundred dollars?" Mom opened her mouth and said, "You can't let him take the money. He is decorating the house. " I also casually retorted: "Mom, what do you mean? It's my turn to get the money! " Mom immediately said, "You're sorry." I know my mother is worried about money and can't bear to spend her daughters' money. Our sisters never care who pays how much, and we don't take mom's straightforward words to heart, but we are often scared. If my mother has a daughter-in-law, will people tolerate her "hurtful" language and beat her all day? It's a good thing mom won't suffer for it in her life.
"Good words are bitter, but good advice is hard to hear." "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June." In my life, I inherited my mother's honest and frank personality, and I like to speak straight. But after receiving higher education, especially after studying psychology, I will use my head a little when I speak. Besides, I am kind by nature and never say anything hurtful. My friends and colleagues like to communicate with me. They feel sincere, kind and warm from my language, but I may have accidentally said something straightforward and offended others. My mother's language is a magician's.