Tisdale is a famous American romantic poetess. Most of her poems are about the true meaning of love. The language is concise and philosophical, and full of postmodernism at the same time. This poem is no exception. In the poem, "love" refers to love and affection, and "individual" refers to "times". "I gave my first love to a smile" is actually "I gave my first love to a smile". Although two people didn't come together in the end, the first love is one of the most cherished feelings of a woman, and the memories are the happiest and warmest. What you can't get often makes people feel extremely beautiful, so teasdale said that "the first love gave me a song" and "I gave tears to the second love" meant that the poet's married life was not satisfactory. Although Tisdale's husband loves her very much, their personalities and hobbies are quite different. In addition, teasdale suffers from serious nervous system diseases, and their life is not very happy, which makes teasdale very upset (the sigh behind is to deepen this feeling), so she said this, but the pain will make people think more deeply, and teasdale will explore the true meaning of love and even life more deeply. This is the meaning of "understanding the eye". "I gave my third love silence for so many years" means "I finally chose silence", because Tisdale's husband doesn't love her, but he is not happy to see someone together.
Who is to blame for this? However, silence will be more thought-provoking and thinking will be more substantial, so the poet said, "the third love gave me my soul." Appreciation can be supplemented according to your own understanding.