Experience the beauty of classical love Content summary: The word "love" cannot be avoided in today's Chinese teaching. If students can be guided to correctly interpret, comprehend, and discover this rose-colored most beautiful movement, It is beneficial for students to form a healthy view of love and develop a sound personality. Keywords: Ancient poetry about love explores emotional experience. Recently, I listened to an exploratory class with rich content and novel teaching methods given by Teacher Wei Qin from the Popular Industrial School. During the teaching process, Teacher Wei boldly challenged the sensitive topic of love. By allowing students to freely explore related love poems, he guided them to face different emotions and love, and how to understand true love. This is also a very meaningful exploration in learning about love chapters in ancient poetry. Does this also mean that we should invest in different elements for the second phase of Chinese language curriculum reform? Therefore, I will start from this article "Altair". "Altair is far away, and a Chinese woman is on a bright river. She holds her slender hands and plays with tricks. She is in a state of confusion all day long, and her tears are as cold as rain. The river is clear and shallow, how far apart are they? The water is filled with water, and the pulse is speechless." This is A classic love poem from "Nineteen Ancient Poems". It's very emotional to read. Although it is a fairy tale, isn't it the various forms of life in the world? The shallow Tianhe is certainly not very wide. But the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl across the river could not ride back and forth on the cows. We were so close together, but we couldn't express our feelings, we could only stare in silence. The only thing that can be done is to wait for one day of reunion for a year. If we can't meet each other because we are separated by thousands of rivers and mountains, then there is always a reason to relieve this sadness. But when we are so close yet we feel so far away, this helplessness is even more unforgettable. The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl could only bury their love deep in their hearts and tell the sorrow of the sky with endless tears. Tagore said: "The farthest distance in the world/is not that I stand in front of you/and that you don't know that I love you/but that/that we know/love each other/but can't be together." In the eyes of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, it took them two lives to cross the shallow Milky Way. Is there such desolation in the world? We have always been moved by the love tragedy of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, but if we think about it from another perspective, the two people have never left each other despite going through many hardships. It is this kind of steadfastness that moved the Queen Mother and broke the conclusion that gods and mortals cannot love each other. Try to get together once a year. Who can say that this kind of love does not have positive meaning? In the Han Yuefu "The Peacock Flies Southeast", Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing both died in love in pursuit of a free marriage. Their deaths were a struggle against secular etiquette and a defense of loyal love. Love is a multi-faceted reflection of life. A different understanding of a poem is also a way for students to not stick to love itself, but to see society through it, understand their own psychological quality more comprehensively, and understand the value of love more deeply. A very useful discussion. Opening the Book of Songs, which pioneered realism in my country, the first chapter is a love aria. "A fair lady, a gentleman likes to be brave", "What you want is not what you want, sleep hard and think about it", "Friends with harp and harp", "Music of bells and drums", these poems very delicately show the psychology of young men pursuing love and their simple and lovely behavior in order to get love. Behavior. In "Shangxie" by Yuefu in the Han Dynasty, "Shangxie, I want to know you, and my life will never fade. The mountains have no edges, the rivers are exhausted, the winter thunder shakes, the summer rains and snows, the heaven and the earth are harmonious, so I dare to break up with you!" The young woman said to you! The vows of love are moved by heaven and earth. In the Tang Dynasty, Li Shangyin's "I don't have the wings of a colorful phoenix, but my heart is connected." expresses the supreme love realm between young lovers, who can communicate freely without using words. In the Song Dynasty, Liu Yong's "My clothes are getting wider and I don't regret it anymore, and I feel haggard because of Yi", and Li Qingzhao's "There is no way to eliminate this feeling, so I only frown, but it is in my heart" all express the pain of longing for love. . Of course, through Qin Guan's "Magpie Bridge Immortal", we can see this scholar-official's new concept of love. "If love lasts for a long time, how can we stay together day and night?" He had the mentality that ordinary people longed for: to be together forever. Su Shi's "Shui Tiao Ge Tou" also interprets different views of love, "People have joys and sorrows, separation and reunion, and the moon waxes and wanes. This is difficult to do in ancient times. I hope people will live long and live thousands of miles away." It tells a positive life. Pursue. It can be seen that poets use their special ways to express different views on love and different understandings of emotions. Love is really a mystery that is difficult to crack in the world: some people say, "Asking what love is in the world can tell us whether life and death are mutually beneficial." Some people say, "There was a time when the sea was filled with water, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud." Some people said, "A human face is not a cloud." I don’t know where to go, but the peach blossoms still smile in the spring breeze.” Read the love scriptures and taste the various flavors of love. Even the layman Su Dongpo, who is famous for his boldness and magnanimity, has a poem "Jiang Chengzi", which describes the true love between husband and wife in life and death. "Ten years of life and death are boundless, without thinking, and unforgettable. A lonely soul thousands of miles away, with no place to express desolation. Even if we meet, we should not know each other, our face is covered with dust, and our temples are like frost. At night, I suddenly return to my hometown, and I am dressing up at the small xuan window. Looking at each other. Speechless, only a thousand lines of tears. It is expected that the heart will break every year, and the moonlit night will be short of the pines. "Every time I read Dongpo's poem in memory of his deceased wife, I always burst into tears. One night ten years later, I suddenly dreamed that my wife was dressing up in front of the small window. This scene was vivid in my mind, but we could only see each other in the dim light. "Looking at each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears" seemed to express the infinite sorrow after life and death. The last three sentences imagine the loneliness and sadness of the deceased wife sleeping underground. In fact, the two hearts are connected, and the living misses the deceased even more.
Li Qingzhao was a female poet in the Southern Song Dynasty. Many of her poems are beautiful but slightly sad, with tears filling the beginning and end of the poem. "Wulingchun" is a representative work of this style. "The wind abides in the dust and the fragrance of the flowers has faded. I am tired of combing my hair in the day and night. Things are different and people are resting on everything. I want to shed tears first. I heard that the spring in Shuangxi is still good. I plan to go out in a light boat at night. I am afraid that Shuangxi will cheat and the boat will not be able to carry it. "A lot of sorrow." Li Qingzhao's husband Zhao Mingcheng died because he was fleeing chaos in Jiangnan. Now, time has passed and the scenery remains the same, but his relatives are no longer there. Looking back on the love between husband and wife in the past, I think of the loneliness and desolation in the future. I want to cry without tears, but I want to speak without words. The mood, why don't you express the feeling that things are right and people are not the same, everything is over, and tears will flow before you want to speak? Although the author wants to express his love for the spring water of Shuangxi River to relieve his melancholy, how can he hold all the sorrow in a small boat? Li Qingzhao's tears of sadness are different from the tears of lovesickness of a passionate girl. The tears of a passionate girl become a lover, and when they meet, they can turn sadness into joy and end the pain of lovesickness. And Li Qingzhao shed tears for her deceased husband. Even if he waits until the end of time, he will never see her husband again. How can these tears be compared with the tears of lovesickness in this world? It can be seen that guiding students to read love chapters in poetry allows students to wander in the emotional process, leaving an unforgettable love experience, and gaining the influence of humanism, which also lays the foundation for interpreting more complex life. Love is the most beautiful and eternal topic in the world, and it is also the ever-lasting theme of literary creation. Without love, many literary works will be eclipsed. Pay attention to guiding students to read poems on love themes, leading them to understand the true meaning of love revealed in works from different eras. Therefore, when interpreting love-themed works, through emotional analysis, we can guide students to receive a more profound humanistic education and ultimately form a healthy personality. As engineers of the human soul, teachers shoulder the sacred mission of shaping people. We must respect students' personal dignity, create a democratic teaching atmosphere, and guide students to explore life and social issues including love. Improve students' moral cultivation, aesthetic taste and cultural taste, and enable them to eventually develop healthy personality, have a healthy psychology, and form a healthy personality.