When you get good grades in the exam:
"Baby, that's great, that's great!"
"The test is good, this is what the baby usually works hard to get, continue to cheer!"
The first kind of mother's praise often makes children feel that they have done a good job, so they will stop and just seek to maintain their existing achievements without further efforts.
The second kind of mother's praise, on the contrary, not only affirms the child's current achievements, but also allows the child to continue to work hard and strive for better results. In contrast, it is better to praise the child's mother for her hard work.
Praise the child's perseverance
When children can't face the challenge:
"Come on, you can do it."
"Good performance, persistence is victory, keep working hard and come on!"
Replace "you can definitely do it" with "behave well, persistence is victory, and continue to work hard", then children will be more patient, more persistent and have a higher success rate.
Boast about the details of children.
When children make progress:
For example, children have made progress in swimming.
"Baby, great progress, you see your posture is very feeling.
It feels standard and the ventilation frequency is well controlled. "Details determine success or failure. In daily life, we must learn to praise the details of children.
When he makes progress, praise him with a specific detail, which can not only make children feel your concern for him, but also make them pay attention to the details themselves.
Boast of children's creativity
Children's imagination is the richest. When his unconstrained style is recognized, he will be more willing to think about the world and life. Children's creativity is the accumulation of creativity and thinking. Therefore, when children share their ideas with you with joy, they must praise them!
Praise children's attitude.
For example, today, when a child finishes his homework and starts to preview tomorrow's homework, you must affirm his positive and serious learning attitude. A positive attitude often makes people work harder and have a greater chance of success.
Praise the children's spirit of cooperation.
When the child has achieved certain results with the cooperation of the group, parents should remember to praise him more. "You cooperate very well. In the future, you should unite and cooperate with your classmates and continue to cheer! " A person who knows teamwork will often be better in the future.
Praise children's leadership.
When your child is in charge of one thing, complete it smoothly with the cooperation of other students. At this time, in addition to praising their spirit of cooperation, we should also remember to praise the children's leadership. Because this can not only increase children's self-confidence, but also cultivate children's sense of responsibility.
Praise the child's courage.
When a child learns to ride a bike, remember to praise his bravery; Remember to praise a child for his bravery when he learns to swim without a swimming ring. Only through continuous accumulation can children become more confident and adventurous. Faced with setbacks and difficulties, you will have your own courage and capital.
Praise the child for being careful.
When you are ready to go out and take your child to the park to play, he took the initiative to bring an umbrella; Today, you got sick and caught a cold, and the child took the initiative to buy medicine for you. As parents, we must praise our children's carefulness. Careful children will consider the problem thoroughly, which is a very valuable quality, especially for boys.
10 praise children's credit
When a child wants to make an agreement with you, remember to tell him, "I believe you can do it because you always keep your word." "A little letter is a big letter. As parents, we must cultivate children's good personal credit. Only in this way will he become honest and reliable in the future.
1 1 praise the child's modesty.
"Pride makes people lag behind, and modesty makes people progress." One should learn to learn from others modestly. An open-minded person will be more calm in the face of failure. Only in this way can we absorb the good advantages and experiences of others and let ourselves grow.
12 Praise children's choices
It is very important to learn to choose whether it is study, life or communication.
friends. How to make a choice is a very critical thing. When children make the right choices, we remember to praise them more. Remember, the key to cultivating children's growth thinking lies in how you praise them.