An article about happiness.

Happy are those who are good at listening and happy are those who are good at talking, that is, those who are good at listening and talking are happier.

Siebel is a good listener and conversationalist. In the ear planting season, cuckoo calls are everywhere, because ear planting is the busiest season for agricultural production, and summer crops should be harvested, autumn crops should be sown, and spring crops should be managed. Siebel listened, and it became "quick cooking and quick broadcasting". The intentional Siebel spreads the imaginary sky through the wings of birds, allowing birds to sing meaningless songs and achieve the singing of life. The cuckoo's song sounds particularly rhythmic and charming in Xibei, as if the cuckoo kept singing during the wheat harvest season, urging people to harvest quickly.

In Siebel's prose collection "Years Without Regret", we often see poetic listening and poetic pouring out. Even if the rain falls on the ground, Siebel will hear a kind of natural charm, so she will play a memory heart song in her heart. Reading Siebel's article will make you feel relaxed as a woman. She made me a woman again. It's good to be a woman. I can talk endlessly. I am a cheerful person, and I can't speak very well, let alone speak, especially on the topic of women buying food and cooking. As a woman, Siebel is excellent, she can enjoy it, she can talk endlessly, a jar of peanut oil, a bowl of bridge, a short message on holidays, the crying of the neighbor's children, firecrackers on holidays ... These trivial things in daily life are rich in daily necessities, Siebel writes casually, and Siebel occasionally gets a life inadvertently. Once, Siebel, with two crispy scones in her hand, was about to go back the same way. At the moment of turning around, she saw a road sign on the high wall of the opposite street, which read: Gong Yuan Qiangen Street. Siebel suddenly had a premonition that Siebel, intoxicated and unaccounted for, was walking into the most famous "cultural street" in Jinan in the old days. Inadvertently walking that day, let Siebel visit the long-lost "champion wall". Gongyuan was a provincial examination room for "Juren" in the imperial examination era. After obtaining a jury from the Hiram's Hospital, you can enter Beijing to take an examination of Jinshi, make Hanlin, and enter the official career. Gongyuan Qianggen Street, formerly known as Yunlu Street, means "progressive"; The zhaobi outside the main entrance of Gongyuan is called the "Champion Wall". Of course, Siebel has lost sight of the guard gate of the former Hiram's Hospital. Siebel, walking in the street under the foot of the wall, looked up and stared at the high courtyard wall, imagining the endless stream of Jinshi, the extraordinary scenes, the neatness and solemnity inside the Hiram's Hospital ... She suddenly forgot her age, as if she were one of the people chasing fame and fortune, and hurried on the long and difficult road. ...

Siebel's listening and speaking is felt with heart, that is, he can integrate himself into it. Siebel has a lovely daughter. On the girl's third birthday, she got up early in the morning and stayed by the child's bed without washing. I saw such a touching description in the article: my daughter inherited her father's posture when she was sleeping, and she was as active as when she was awake, and often talked in her sleep. Sometimes, my daughter is at the south end of the bed before going to bed, and I don't know when she will sleep in the north of the bed. My daughter still sleeps soundly. I can't get tired of reading my daughter's mouth, eyebrows, ears and nose, including every inch of her skin. Every time I look at it, my heart is full of sweetness, warmth and happiness ... Siebel thinks of the birth of a child from her daughter's birthday. It was a snowy day. The premature daughter weighs only 2.5 kilograms, her hair is sparse, her head is bare, her eyes are closed, and her thick swollen eyelids are like goldfish's eyes. Siebel no matter how carefully, all think the child is too ugly, not like a child. I can feel Siebel's too much tears and hard work for the children. I want Siebel to cry more, because the child refuses breast milk. If I don't meet this question, Siebel will be very confused, because she will soon find that the children will not listen to her. My mother has been puzzled for a long time about my refusal to breast milk. Seeing that I not only don't eat breast milk, but also don't eat milk and goat milk, I can only smile helplessly. I grew up eating camel milk, I can assert that.

Siebel has a heart. She loves not only her daughter and husband, but also the human things around her. Her vision and brushwork even extend to a couple who sell breakfast. In the conversation with them, I can't see that the couple who sell breakfast have the slightest sense of inferiority or inferiority. Siebel thinks they are confident, Siebel thinks they should have reason to be confident. They have some things that city people have lost for a long time or tried to find back. A person who is good at listening and speaking must be good at observing. A pair of sparrows who have just moved into a new house have become Siebel's friendly neighbors. Siebel often goes to the balcony to look through the glass. She found that not all the sparrows that hatched their babies went out for food, but one flew out first and the other waited in the nest. No matter how long it takes, the bird guarding the baby in the nest will not fly out without authorization. It didn't fly out of the nest until its foraging partner came back. Siebel observed and informed that the scenery in summer, the home in the heart, has become autumn ... There is a folk saying: if you say it, the pain will be reduced by half, and if you say it, you will share it with others. Siebel's happiness includes her luck, because her lover is a poet and editor-in-chief of a literary publication. This gives her a chance to get more audiences. Siebel loves life, and she can feel beauty from ordinary things. On the Dragon Boat Festival, neighbors hung a bunch of wormwood on her door to make her feel warm in a cheerful atmosphere.

I like Siebel's essay "Don't Clamp, Hold" very much. It's about taking my daughter to the seaside in summer. Siebel, who catches crabs, has his right index finger caught by a swimming crab half the size of a palm. Siebel, who was in agony, was surprised to find that the other paw of the crab was still holding a small crab as big as a fingernail. Siebel didn't stop because of being pinched. She continued to be busy. Later, she harvested a crab much smaller than the swimming crab that bit her. To her delight, there is a very small crab in the other paw of this crab. Later, Siebel and her husband talked about it. She asked Ming Jie: Why does a big crab want to catch a small crab? Are you afraid of losing your baby or getting separated from your family at low tide? At this time, the daughter who has been silent suddenly said loudly and discontentedly: Mom, it's not a clip, it's a hug. It's warm to hold, and it hurts to hold! Siebel's daughter is very cute. She loves toys. A few days ago, Ming Jie took his daughter to have dinner with us. Ming Jie told us that his daughter is a star. I don't know whether Ming Jie or Siebel really dressed her daughter as beautiful as a little star. The little girl wore high boots, black jeans with a beige coat and a fashionable white hat on her head, which set off a pair of bright black eyes.

She is holding a toy duck that can lay eggs. The ducks are singing happily. The stars are waiting for the ducks to lay eggs in the duckling's song. Sometimes she is impatient. She can't pick up an egg with her little hand until the duck lays an egg. She had to wait patiently for the ducks to lay eggs. Whenever the duck lays an egg, the little star happily picks up the duckling and kisses it again. Such a lovely little girl cried in surprise when she saw a pile of cow dung. It's on the bank of the Yellow River. The little girl didn't stay away, because dust and cow dung would stain her beautiful clothes and shoes. Instead, she trudged through the dust with her feet. She is very willing to get close to the soil and all living things. I think this must have something to do with Siebel's training and education of children.

I have never seen Siebel, but I can find Siebel's shadow from the stars. The innocence of the stars reflects Siebel's frankness. Yes, Siebel is innocent. Her writing is not to illuminate anything, but to express her heart. She doesn't shy away from the world. She tells people that secularity is the most basic fact of life, from which we can enter the true essence of life. Yes, we live in the secular world. Without it, we are divorced from real happiness and spiritual happiness ... Every short article of Siebel is not very long, she said she wanted to. I think Siebel in life must be willful, which must be related to her love for her husband. Love can easily make girls willful. Writing an article can also be willful, and readers will like it and accept it. Because this girl is kind, readers would like to see this innocent girl without heart and eyes. It seems that there are also writers who are spoiled by readers, and there is no way. This is what Zhou Yu is willing to do, and there is no need to deliberately pursue perfection.

Another lovely thing about Siebel is that she is outspoken. She even wants to swear like a man, such as writing about her husband. You can see from the title that Siebel's eyes are wide open, what women can do and carry men home in the basket. "Women who have just entered marriage are full of tenderness when facing the word husband. After being married for a long time, women unconsciously turned themselves into "marriage slaves" and "cooks", but when the "general" before marriage was reduced to "soldiers", the "husband" in a woman's mouth became a "husband", showing his wife's grievances and complaints with disdain, helplessness and reproach ... "Siebel didn't realize that only people were in love. Because only in love can you feel that everything around you is full of poetry and painting, and only when you are loved can you constantly tell your feelings to those who love you.

Siebel is beautiful because of kindness. I sincerely wish her to write better works in her future creations.