The vast sea of people, who knows my heart? This day's departure, can we meet again tomorrow! Yesterday is a thing of the past. Whether it's joy or sadness, it's just a result that we can't change. We can remember lightly, but we can't sink. Everything is possible tomorrow, but what is pinned on tomorrow, do we still have a chance to realize it?
Does the most earth-shattering feeling in the world have a tragic ending? A woman with confused eyes stood in front of the studio, staring blankly at the dark room. However, no one will open the door for her again, and the handsome young angry youth will never appear in front of her again. Her boyfriend, a school broadcaster, died in a car accident the day before and left this world forever. [Organizer]
From then on, the two lovers were separated by yin and yang. Is fate playing tricks on you, or is it heartless? Can two people wait and hesitate alone in two worlds?
We don't mind feeling that life is changing quickly. What will we be like tomorrow? What will happen to everything around us tomorrow? Everything is unpredictable. If you don't do some things today, if you don't say some things today. Then, if there is no chance tomorrow, how sorry will our life be?
Say "I love you" loudly to the person you love, express your love with practical actions, cherish everyone around you and feel every feeling. Even if I die one day, I have no regrets in my life.
The fragility of life and the ruthlessness of reality We can't indulge in memories of the past, let alone pin everything on tomorrow. It is to seize today and live your own life.
Death is not far away, comfort does not mean eternity, life is not eternal, only cherish.
Less cowardice and bravado, dare to love and hate, let us have a wonderful day.
Selected readings (2): 1
Is it really up to you how long a person can live? Maybe you can decide for yourself, maybe you can't. This is life. Living in this society, we can know or come into contact with many people of all kinds, but how many are worth cherishing? Sometimes we don't know whether our thoughts and practices are correct, but we have many helpless choices. Sometimes you can go smoothly if you choose the right one, and sometimes you lose everything, even your own happiness, but you can't do anything about it.
As we get older, we will change more and more. A little older, we will go to primary school, junior high school and senior high school (vocational high school), and then we will be admitted to our ideal or unsatisfactory universities. We will leave our parents' arms and go to another city to live and study with simple luggage. In college, we sometimes study and sometimes fall in love (but many of them don't fall in love at school), and we will study our four-year (three-year) college life unconsciously. After graduation, I face employment and many choices, good and bad, but all for survival. After graduation, leaving the school environment where we grew up, we are faced with the test of employment and the pressure of work. After graduation, many lovers broke up because people became more and more realistic.
Living in this society, different people have different pressures, such as your pressure, my pressure, life pressure, work pressure, marriage pressure and so on. A lot of pressure is on us, making us gasp and pee, which some people can't bear. Some people work in many units or enterprises with the help of their families or relatives. For example, those of us who have no contact at home can only survive in this society on our own and find our own way of life.
Pressure, we graduated, and we are getting older. Marriage has become our biggest headache at the moment. If you have a girlfriend, it is better to say something at home, cherish each other, and then step into the marriage hall. Watching all the friends around us step into the marriage hall, live happily and sweetly together, and have their own small home and happy nest. However, there are also many people who can't get into the marriage hall. They broke up because of poor family conditions or other reasons, and they could no longer be together, but in the end they hurt the people they loved the most. No matter what the reason, it's not good to hurt people who love us, but not hurting you is hurting.
When we break up, it is hard to say that I still have you in my heart and care about you. If I really can't bear to part with you and really care about you, why should I break up and let the person who loves you get hurt? He also said that parents don't agree, your family's conditions are not good, and so on. Everything is just an excuse. It is not good to give these excuses as your shield, and it is not good to find any excuses for yourself. That won't do any good. It only hurts the people who love you the most. If you choose to be together, it is not easy to say goodbye. If you choose to give, it is so easy to say goodbye. Isn't that more harmful to the people who love you the most? Sometimes, maybe you don't say a word or look easily, which will hurt each other. Maybe you don't know, maybe you don't care at all, but it will leave a mark on the psychology of the person who loves you.
People always have many disappointments in this life, such as life, school, study, exams, work, family and so on. But often in these disappointments, have we ever wondered whether what we have done is in place, whether we have tried our best, or what? Maybe many people haven't thought about it, maybe it just flashed through their minds, so what's there to complain about?
Life may be like this. There are always many things that we can't predict. No matter family affairs, love affairs, breaking up, work affairs and life affairs, we can't predict what will happen in the future. We can only predict, not prepare to investigate, but we can work hard!
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Sometimes, we dream of perfect things, imagine ourselves living in such a moment and space, living the life we want, where there may be our relatives, wives and children, lovers, good friends and colleagues, and many things we want, but after all, it is our fantasy, but it is not easy to realize. It is easy for some people, but it is true for many people. We can have many choices, but what we can't choose is our origins. We can choose our future lifestyle, future working environment, future lovers and so on. But we also have many choices, just because we can't choose, but since we can't choose, then we can change, change our lives and change everything around us, including our own conditions, which may take many years. It may be realized in a short time, but we must firmly believe that we can, we can't bow our heads easily, we can't give up easily, we can't let go easily, we can't let go of things that may be nothing to others, but for me, we can't treat people lightly. Sometimes we are elusive animals, and we are the most whimsical animals. We always imagine different things or things in different environments and at different times. It's like people are in love. On this day or this moment, they are still saying that I still love you, how much I can't bear to part with you, and I'm waiting for you or something, but the next second or just a turn around, there will be a 180 degree turn, and they will say that we'd better forget it, but it will hurt the heart of the person who loves you the most. Maybe you won't understand at this moment, maybe you will never understand, but that kind of injury is so painful. Pretend to be strong, you turn around and leave, but at the moment you leave, do you care, think, really care, and really worry about the person who loves you deeply? Maybe you will say that you are reluctant, worried and distressed, but since you are reluctant, why do you choose to hurt? You can say that reality doesn't allow it, maybe it's all true, or maybe it's just your excuse. Reality, how many people are confused, how many people are successful by reality and how many people are destroyed by reality? Maybe, maybe, nobody knows these answers, right?
Seeing so many blessings, so many disappointments, however, we still have to continue our lives, so no matter what happens, it will gradually fade away in the vicissitudes of time and slowly fade out of our sight. Only the remaining memories are in our minds. Maybe lying on the lawn or sofa after lunch, we will recall such dusty memories. Maybe we'll all be old in a few years. After lunch or dinner, we sit quietly in the park or on the balcony, holding hands with our wives, thinking about their dusty memories, and then smiling rashly and telling each other previous stories. Seeing such a picture, maybe we will think of a sentence that we often hear: the person who accompanied you through this life is not necessarily the person you love most. But it is the person we cherish, care about and love most in our life!
Life is short, you should learn to cherish what you have, what you have in front of you, and what you have won hard. Only cherish will there be good results. If you really lose it, you will know that it is not that others can't afford it, but that you have been wandering.
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Different things happen every day, some are happy, some are sad, and some are the most painful. Maybe one minute we were happy, and the next minute we were miserable. It's like changeable weather.
Do what you like or dislike every day, but do it whether you like it or not, because you want to live, you want to live. This is the present society. We can't change, we can only try to create the life we want.
Every week, I have a different life. In my spare time, I sit at the window and the sun shines on me. At this moment, my heart is as warm as the sun, and my heart is so quiet. Looking at those happy people outside the window, I am so yearning and envious. Will I have this life and enjoy it one day? I don't know, maybe, maybe not. Life is like this, always full of unknowns. Only in this way can we keep moving forward and move towards the place in our hearts.
Open the curtains, the sun is so warm, shining on my body, half lying on the bed, the whole bed is full of sunshine, the sun shines on my body is so warm, so warm, my heart is so quiet at this moment, quietly enjoying the sunshine bath, my heart is so quiet at this time without any thoughts. Looking at the children playing outside the window and their accompanying parents is so enviable, so desirable and so reverie. If you are standing there with yourself, your lover and your children, what a happy picture it should be, how perfect it is!
Life is an elusive picture, which contains what we want, what we want to see, what we don't want to see, and what we don't want to see, but we can't escape, so we have to deal with it. If only life were really like a wall painted with flour. Inside the painting wall is the life that everyone wants. It is so quiet, so quiet, so beautiful, the air is fresh, and birds and flowers are everywhere. But at this moment, this society can't have these, these can only be our daydreams.
The warm sunshine warms my heart at this moment. I don't think about the past. I just want to see what my future life will be like, maybe good or bad, but I always want to imagine that beautiful picture. At this time, my heart is like sunshine. At this moment, I put all my sadness, sadness, sadness and unhappiness behind me. I don't want to close my eyes and lie in bed enjoying the sunshine and its warmth, slowly, slowly. ...
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Sometimes I really don't know how to mediate and ease the heavy thoughts in my heart. My heart is in a mess, and I don't know how to calm it down. Only I know best and understand best!
I thought a lot and read a lot. Life is not like this. There are always many things I can't bear to part with. What I can't forget doesn't belong to me. Even if I struggle hard, the result can't be changed.
Life goes on, just a person's life. Life is like a book with no end. Even if there is a lot of information to tell, I will make up my mind to write the most unwanted ending. Just because everything has a good result and ending, even if it is painful, I will do it. Just because I know, I really don't know how to write a perfect ending. It is precisely because there are too many memories and too many selves in those books.
An endless story, a wish to continue, a wish that can only be kept in my heart.
There are too many defects, only like an article. I don't want to write such a sad ending, but there must be an ending. Will this be the end of everything? I really don't know ...
Emotion is a game I can't afford to lose, but I am too serious and doomed to lose. ...
Selected readings (3): As the days go by, people are always racing against time. Me too, try my best to catch up with the times, try my best to throw away the past and let it fade away. But there are always many things that hinder our determination, courage and perseverance to move forward. Time has passed for a long time. It is said that time is the best medicine for pain, and I firmly believe it. Just because I deeply know that my memory at this moment is much lighter than before, I am sincerely gratified. At least, I won't be as pessimistic and depressed as before. I have regained my expectation and yearning for the future, but I often think of the past, which sometimes floats like clouds and sometimes lingers in my mind for a long time. As long as a little thing can stimulate thinking in an instant, every cell in the body will be active, beating at the apex of the heart and touching the feeling of a certain period of time and a certain moment. I can't tell what that feeling is. The past is a sweet memory, and the present is a bitter memory, so we can't define it and give a complete interpretation.
There will always be inappropriate memories of the past moments from time to time. Although I have put down a lot at this moment, some memories are still so clear and visible, as if it happened yesterday. They say it's hard to remember the past, maybe. I feel sour when I think about it. Life will always leave regrets. Perhaps perfection needs to be paved with regrets in order to better set off its initial and final beauty. The word "regret" often flashes in my mind, regret or regret. Since it is regret, it has become the past, everything is a foregone conclusion, and it is impossible to recover. How to write a story with a happy ending? No one can predict and know what life is really like. Why there are so many ifs at the end of the story, but everything is untenable, maybe it's just artificial hypocrisy and the illusion of self-comfort. Unfortunately, all our lives, more or less, light or heavy, deep or shallow. Sometimes we can't let go of the past, and sometimes we even doubt the authenticity of its existence, but reality tells us that we have really been and been. Although we sometimes feel heartache and doubt, we will soon be brought back to reality, which is sometimes really cruel. We will gradually dilute our previous memories with the passage of time, and gradually realize the true meaning of life in the process of progress, with gains and losses. This may be the interpretation of life itself. After all, regret has become a memory. The important thing is that when you have it, you have really cherished it and worked hard. That's enough. Think of it as your idle and boring memories in the future. Some regrets may last a lifetime, but they will fade away with time. Maybe you can appreciate something from them.
I really hope that I can know how to live well in the future, grasp every link of life, take every step of life well, and leave little regret in life.