More inspirational qq log appreciation: I am not Cheng, I am Yu. Last year, a China partner let more young people in China know Yu. Many people think that Cheng in the movie is me. However, I'm not Cheng, I'm Yu. This is my story.
I am a second-rate graduate of Peking University.
After failing the college entrance examination twice, 1980 was admitted to the Department of Western Languages and Literature in Peking University, during which he dropped out of school for one year due to illness, and stayed in Peking University as an English teacher after graduation. 199 1 In September, I resigned from Peking University and entered the field of private education, and worked in some private schools in Beijing.
In "Chinese Partner", in order to catch up with Samui, the first beauty in the legal system, Cheng climbed the telephone pole to create romance, and then rowed in the nameless lake to express his love life. Unfortunately, it was a lot worse. I have never been in love in my four years of college life. During my four years in Peking University, no girl ever loved me.
Many people think my memory level is very good. I can remember 30,000 to 40,000 English words and recite an English-Chinese dictionary. So far, I should have about 20 thousand English words in my mind, but that's the result of my struggle with time. It took me four years to recite it with perseverance, and the words were plastered all over the walls.
When you are not smart enough, what you have to do is how to exchange time for your wisdom and talent. Sometimes, there are differences between people. Others can recite a book in a week, and you may need two to three weeks. There is a difference between memory ability and IQ.
I recite the text slowly, but the advantage of reciting slowly is that I forget slowly. By the time of the final exam, all the students have to recite the text, so I don't have to recite it, because I can recite every text at once. There is a principle in mnemonics that speed is directly proportional to forgetting. Recite a text a day, and you will definitely forget it in a week; But recite it in a week, and you may forget it in a year.
But in fact, I have always felt inferior at Peking University. From entering Peking University to leaving Peking University for 1 1 years, I have been living in inferiority. But inferiority is also good. I learned it in my inferiority complex? Pay attention to what you say. The ability to feel inferior depends on people's faces. Because I don't believe in myself, I always try to figure out other people's thoughts, so when I see other people's eyes and actions, I will try to figure out what their psychological state is. Later, it was found to be very effective in management. In management, we must find out what employees want and how the relationship with employees develops.
When I graduated from Peking University, my grades were not good. At that time, I was looking forward to leaving Peking University, because I was never better at Peking University, and my classmates never paid attention to me and couldn't find anyone. All the job volunteers I filled in were units outside Peking University, but I was finally left behind by Peking University. Why? Students with good grades went to such good institutions as the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and China Daily. At that time, Peking University had just started public English training, which expanded from English major to every student of Peking University. I was left behind when there was a big gap in English teachers at Peking University.
It's actually very important to make a friend who often hits you.
Although I don't have any skills, all my friends are people with higher level than me, and I can learn a lot from these friends. Among the other three founders of New Oriental, I was the monitor of my class and the communist youth league secretary, and I was the teacher of western music history at that time, who slept in my upper bunk.
Why should I make friends with them?
First of all, these three people have good personalities, which is the premise.
Secondly, all three of them are better than me in a certain field. For example, Wang Qiang is gifted in many aspects, has a strong imitation ability, and has a high level of Chinese and English. He was the stationmaster of Peking University Radio Station for four years. I can't learn any of this. But I learned about his reading energy.
When he was in Peking University, he divided his living expenses into two parts, half for food stamps and the other half for books. Even if he used up all the food stamps, he wouldn't spend the money on books. If there is really no meal ticket, he will borrow it. I think this spirit is worth learning. I was a state grant and went to 22 yuan every month. I also divided the money in half, 1 1 yuan for dinner, 1 1 yuan for books. I didn't know much about buying books, so I followed Wang Qiang at that time and bought whatever books he bought. Since then, I have developed the habit of buying books and reading.
Bao Fanyi shared a dormitory with me, and I learned the most important thing from him, which completely shaped my character. Bao is a person with a strong spirit of self-criticism. His father is a professor of China ancient literature in Zhejiang University, so his ancient prose is very good. According to him, he can recite Li Sao at the age of five and finish reading Jin Ping Mei at the age of eight. A person who finished reading Jin Ping Mei at the age of 8 must have seen through life and had the spirit of self-criticism by the age of 18. Bao is such a person that he can expose all his physical and psychological defects to you and then let you check them. It takes a lot of courage. But after all put out, he himself has no psychological burden. But the problem is that our group of talents just came of age, and he came of age at the age of eight, which is psychologically unbearable for us. We really want to protect our face and let others talk about our strengths and weaknesses, but he can find out all your weaknesses, the dark side of your heart, so you have no hiding place, so we are extremely painful and fight back when we are in pain. As a result, our dormitory spent four years criticizing each other. In fact, having friends around you who are worthy of communication can broaden your mind and make you more knowledgeable and thoughtful.
I used to be a poor poet.
/kloc-When I was 0/8 years old, I had a lot of psychological imbalance at first, because my looks and family conditions were very different from my classmates. But I later learned that during my four years in college, I slowly adjusted my mentality.
At that time, the comparison between our classmates may be different from today. At that time, we compared who read more books, who paid attention to his opinions in front of classmates and who wrote more poems. Because writing poems at that time could also attract girls. But I am in pain. Judging from the total amount of poems, I have written a lot. I have written more than 600 poems, but I have never attracted a girl or published a poem.
At that time, some students in our class were very talented, good at writing poems, and held a personal poetry reading meeting. I went to listen to it, too. What did you find after reading it? Hua? Imagine fifty or sixty girls chasing these poets. As a result, I chased 50 or 60 girls.
I am a poor poet. If I succeed in writing poetry, I may not give up literature. But in retrospect, being a poor poet also has a good side. Why? Because I finally found out that I am not that material, I have today's New Oriental!
More inspirational qq log appreciation: living in a bitter and fermented construction site, struggling to push the wheelbarrow back and forth; In the hot summer, I rode a tricycle through the community and climbed the stairs with a heavy gas tank on my back. In the freezing cold, jumping on the roadside to keep warm, guarding the ice cream sold everywhere; Or travel-stained door-to-door selling shampoo, and the cold reception never stops.
That was me twenty years ago. That experience, in retrospect, is a bit bitter, but it is hard to say. However, in my life, the experience of just two years is still precious. Like a stone gathered in the long river of years, it exudes endless homesickness.
Everyone can't be smooth sailing, and many people think they have suffered a lot. In fact, compared with others, they will feel that their experience is actually lucky. Even the real misfortune, when they pass by, there will be a detached indifference. Therefore, happiness embellishes life, and suffering enriches life.
In the city where I have lived for more than a year, there is a small clearing in front of the house I rented, with a big flower bed in the middle, which is full of fragrance in midsummer. Every afternoon, an aunt in her forties will come to the flower bed on time with her three children. Those three children are very special. They are all about ten years old. After observing for many days, I found that one boy is blind, the other boy seems to be deaf, and the little girl has bright eyes and can talk and laugh, but according to others, she is mentally retarded.
I thought to myself, it's hard enough for such three children and that aunt. Ordinary people, if a child is disabled, it will break the hearts of parents. Three children are no different from the sky falling. However, when I asked later, this aunt was far more difficult than I thought. All the three children were adopted by their aunts in the welfare home. When she was young, her family was happy and she gave birth to a boy. She lost it when she was five years old. I couldn't find it for a long time, so I lost my mind for a while. Meanwhile, her husband divorced her and left her. After her illness improved, she lived in peace and stopped trying to find her son. Then, I adopted three disabled children one after another, and my mind was all on them.
So, every day, watching her with three children at the edge of the flower bed, or talking about Hua Hudie, or doing sign language quickly, and then, they kept laughing, my heart would slowly get wet. Life blooms here, and suffering becomes fertile soil. Just because of its massiness and charm, it is an unconscious change, which not only soothes one's own soul, but also warms the mood of others.
I once knew a girl. At first, she lived happily and studied well. When she was a senior in high school, her parents suddenly divorced. She followed her mother and suddenly cut off her way to college. Mother was ill, and her spirit became a little bad because of stimulation, so she had to carry her family on her shoulders. Get up early every morning to wholesale vegetables, and then go to the market to occupy a place. No matter spring, summer, autumn and winter, in the snow, she is busy, and sometimes when she sees a student passing by, her eyes will be in a trance. Life has been far away, and everything that ran to the bottom of my heart was unexpected.
Later, she got married, but the marriage didn't last a year, so she left in a hurry. Then, in the next few years, there were two failed marriages. She was still busy when I met her one year. Speaking of past experiences, I thought she would suffer, but her face was faint. She said, I am nothing. Compared with others, I am lucky enough. A few years ago, when she was selling vegetables in the market, she was next to a girl of the same age. In her spare time, they chatted very speculatively. They had similar experiences, so they hit it off quickly. However, it didn't take long for the girl to be terminally ill in the hospital and died in less than two months.
She said to me: After the girl was diagnosed with a terminal illness, she told me in despair that she used to feel that life was very bitter, but now, I hope this life can go on forever. ?
Life may be like this. In some people's eyes, what we think of as suffering is happiness that will never come again. Suffering in life is constantly accumulating. As long as the hope in the heart is always there, it will eventually ferment into the fragrance of life. All kinds of things rooted in suffering will bloom and bloom during the journey, becoming a landscape, warming your eyes and feeling your heart.
It is a kind of beauty, yes, it is beautiful. Although the background is dark, it is the only way to set off that brightness. Just like the corner of the city where I once lived, by the flower bed, my aunt and three children were laughing happily in front of the flowers.
More inspirational qq log appreciation: Chai Jing's letter to his younger brother Lao Li;
I didn't know until I called yesterday that the question you asked me was too serious, more serious than most adults. I seem to have to write a letter to make it clear.
My favorite physicist is an American named Feynman. He told a child who was interested in physics, but was afraid that he couldn't learn math well. If you like something and have such a talent, then put the whole person into it, just like a knife going straight into the handle, don't ask why, and don't care what you meet. ?
You asked me in dismay, but have I arranged what I want to do?
It doesn't matter. The real question is? Give you freedom, what do you want to do?
You said you didn't know what your real gift was?
Yes, when I was sixteen, I listened to the radio, and then? Reading leisure books? At that time, I never thought that there were two things in this world that could be called careers. When you were nine years old, you could have won the national car model contest, and you could have dismantled all my small appliances in ten seconds. I think there is a talent in it. As for what it is, it is your own task. You should find it yourself.
You said:? But that's fun! ? Yes, the best job is to play, and when you play better and better, someone will pay you to continue playing in the future. This is called salary.
? Has sister been playing these years?
Yes, sometimes I have to put on a sad face to deceive many adults. But you are about to enter middle school. You have a lot of homework to do. You said that no matter how hard you try, you can't be an excellent student, and you will never be. You are always nervous, and you feel sorry for sleeping. Stop joking.
Yeah, I know. You can't relax for the next three years. Nothing I say is of any use. You will force yourself. If you don't push yourself, the environment will force you.
You asked me to give you a suggestion. Well, to be honest, although China and the United States have different national conditions, Feynman's suggestion is similar to what I thought? Try to do what you like best, and try to let other subjects fly low. Don't let society stop you and make you accomplish nothing. ?
It is a problem that you don't go to the middle school attached to the National People's Congress.
In my opinion, just surf the Internet and don't take this name too seriously.
Three years ago, you were only one meter six, walking down the street in a white school uniform. It's exciting that you like the way others look at you. It will encourage you to put your plate in the dustbin after eating at McDonald's. But don't be like this when you reach a certain age. I know a buddy who is over forty, and I still know him. It is also a high school attached to the National People's Congress! ? Do you think people are a particularly proud thing in life?
1967, Feynman wrote a letter to the president of the National Academy of Sciences and resigned as an academician, because he said that he was psychologically very exclusive to others? Score? .
He said? Every time I think of choosing "who is qualified to be an academician of the Academy of Sciences", I feel a sense of boasting. How can you say loudly that only the best people can join? In our hearts, don't we feel that we are the best and best people? Of course, I know I'm really fine, but this is a personal feeling, and I can't make such a big statement in public. Especially when I have to decide who is qualified to join our elite club and become an academician, I am even more nervous. ?
The really great people I know don't take any labels seriously, do they? Elite? This concept is discontent or protest. They just don't see the world from this angle.
This may not be easy for you to understand, because the world has been divided into many camps since you were young. Shanxi people? ,? Beijingers, rich people, poor people, officials, talents, first-class universities? Every time you say these words to me, I am puzzled or even angry at first, and then I will gradually accept some views inherited from the adult world.
You will ask us, but you don't pay attention to the answer. You just observe us.
So, you are confused now, because you finally find that there is really a big difference between what people want and what people want, right? And everyone may be reasonable.
I just want you to observe, who is happy and what makes him happy? Is this happiness lasting? Is it not affected by external evaluation and changes? If so, what is this happiness?
What would Feynman think? He said that wealth can't make people happy, nor can swimming pools and big villas. He also said something very important. No job is great or valuable in itself, and so is reputation. ? Yes, the name and reputation of a work are not equal to value, nor are they sacred.
The real happiness in life is when you are immersed in something and completely forget yourself.
He said,? It is a kind of inner peace, which has surpassed poverty and material enjoyment. ?
One day, you looked at me anxiously and said you were worried about me like an adult.
Hey, Lao Li.
In fact, it doesn't matter where I live, how much money I earn, or even being a reporter. I didn't come to this world to be what kind of person. Remember when I took you swimming when you first came? On the way back in summer, we were all wet and walked in the night wind. You stood still, looked at the starry sky and asked me if the universe had a shape. I held your hand and stood there for a long time.
Whether I can be a reporter one day, whether you are the car designer you want, and what others will say about us.
I will be old, you will be young, maybe one day, you will explain the shape of the universe to me, just like bubble gum outside the universe? Nothing? What does this mean? At that time, I will be glad that we are alive every day and constantly know the world. We are as simple, calm and free as that summer night.
Bless you.
elder sister
The above are three qq logs that I carefully arranged and recommended for you. I hope you like it.