When everyone encounters misfortune, he always hopes that someone will appear like a god and save himself from suffering. However, not everyone can be so lucky.
Even if we were lucky enough to meet this person, there is no guarantee that this person will not drag us into deeper hell.
Not everyone comes from a happy family, and some people only have endless quarrels and beatings about childhood memories. It's like living in purgatory. You can't escape. Seriously, I even think death is a relief.
How unfortunate such a childhood is. In misfortune, instinctively, people always want to catch a lifeline. If they can meet, they will never let go easily. I have met or heard such things, but I don't have the courage to be the one to save them.
Because I know that if you want to save a person, you need to bear a heavy responsibility. If you don't have the confidence to take this responsibility, don't provoke them. Don't let a person let go of his hand because of pain when he thinks he is going to be saved, and let them fall into a deeper abyss. When you want to save others, you should do what you can and don't let others drag you into it.
The recent hot search of Ethan incident, although I don't know whether it is true or not, once again made me reflect. As we all know, Choo Ja Hyun had an unhappy childhood. She always thought Ethan was her light. If this light turns into a sword that hurts him, how painful Choo Ja Hyun will be.
It is understandable that people want to grasp at straws when they encounter insoluble pain. However, don't rely on this lifeline. When you are temporarily freed from the abyss of self-destruction, you should find a way to solve yourself. It takes too much luck to meet lifelong friends, confidants and lovers. If you meet them, you should strive for them and make yourself better. If not, I hope you can live a strong life Even if there is too much suffering, there will always be good things in life. When you don't know it, it will always bloom in your heart. And those who want to save others, please don't hold the idea of heroism, don't help others because of temporary sympathy.
I hope your outstretched hand is to pull people up, not push them down.
If you really think you can take this responsibility, I wish you all the best, stranger. No matter what hardships you go through, there will always be sunshine coming in.