20 books about love, writers' views on love, which one do you agree with most?

Love has been famous for its beauty since ancient times, and some people call it bitter medicine. Love is warm, light, sweet and bitter. Shakespeare said that "less passionate love will last", and herrick also said that "the joy of love is mixed with tears".

Love is bitter or sweet. Writers write their own versions in books, and each age group has a different understanding of love. Here are some books about love:

1, The Art of Love Erich Fromm

The writer explains the profound topic of love through concise language, and thinks that love is not an emotion that has nothing to do with people's maturity, but only needs to be put into it.

2. "First love, last ceremony"? Ian McEwan

The book consists of eight short stories, which are close to everyone's heart from the perspective of eight men in different stages such as childhood, adolescence and youth.

3. The love pedigree of modern China. Li Haiyan.

This book focuses on the history of "love" as a word and an idea in modern China, and outlines the history of love in China's literary narrative.

4, "Love Aesthetics" Zhao

This book uses modern aesthetic theory to analyze classic love cases and show the basic laws of love between men and women. It is suitable for young men and women, especially college students, and also enlightens men and women who are entering marriage.

5, "Just Right Love" Zhao Yongjiu

This book helps friends who are confused in the process of marriage and love, or friends who have been searching hard but always find nothing.

6. "I don't know why, I suddenly like you" Shen Congwen/Zhang Zhaohe

This book is a letter from the great literary master Shen Congwen and his wife Zhang Zhaohe. It records the vicissitudes of life that they walked hand in hand for nearly half a century, and makes readers realize the pure and meaningful affection between Shen Congwen and his wife.

7, "Golden Rose" Kang Bao Si Tosky

This book contains Postovski's emotional pursuit and aesthetic ideal.

8. "Three of us" Jiang Yang

The book tells a simple and warm family, which has been unknown for decades, helped each other, got together and lost each other. The love between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang is very similar to Shakespeare's love, insipid and lasting, warm and nostalgic, sad but not hurt.

9. Loving you is like loving life. Wang Xiaobo/Li Yinhe

This book contains "two books" by Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe, which embodies their love and life, frank emotional confession, and their views on books, poetry and even society. Sparking with ideals and love, it is a love swan song that touched the Chinese people.

10, Settle Your Heart Week

The center of the author's thinking is the problem of values, which explains what a complete life is: the most precious thing for a person is life and mind. If you take good care of your life and settle your heart, your life is complete.

1 1, love duo, Allah Badio.

This book criticizes the popular concept of "love" in the west and insists on some idealism, which reflects his philosophy and his vision of a better ideal society.

12, Love is a Choice, Hammerfield

This book will help you understand the causes, operation mode and harm of procrastination, and finally help you recover from procrastination.

13, unfinished love letter

There is a love letter in everyone's heart that can't be sent, which touched all Japan 186 love letters. This book contains hundreds of true stories collected by people.

14, To Lovers, Yang Jingyuan

This book is a collection of Ms. Yang Jingyuan's letters, which records her love history in the 1940s. A 25-year-old female student's true feelings for her lover, family and country are also her rational observation and analysis of her career, love, herself and the future of the motherland.

The Five Languages of Love by gary Chapman

This book is worth reading for men and women who are in love before marriage, especially for married couples. This book will help you deal with friends, neighbors, spouses, children, colleagues, and even all interpersonal relationships.

Yukio Mishima Chun Xue 16

With the theme of "love", this book depicts the love tragedy of a pair of noble lovers-the eldest son of the Marquis, Kiyoshi Matsuzaka, and the daughter of the Earl, Becco.

17, "Thank you for leaving me" Zhang Xiaoxian

The theme of this book is leaving, which is actually about the growth of women through leaving. This is Zhang Xiaoxian's most beautiful prose. Beauty lies in every word of spirit, and beauty lies in the words of detail.

18, Experience of Xiao Shan, Ba Jin

Mr. Ba Jin also recalled the hardships and warmth along the way when they met and fell in love, and then expressed Mr. Ba Jin's sadness at the departure of his beloved wife from a deeper level.

19, Xiao Shan's first love, Turgenev

The author misses his timid and passionate first love. The love shown in his works has nothing to do with the times, race and class. It is always open to the past, present and future, and it is the "* * *" state of human gender.

20. "How to make the person you love fall in love with you" Lill Luntz

This is a book that teaches men and women how to fall in love with people who fell in love at first sight and two of a kind, so that you can reap love.

As Tagore said, some love is another name for understanding. The love between Ba Jin and Xiao Shan, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang, Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhao is precious in today's high divorce rate. In Zhang Zhaohe's words, even if you don't understand each other, you should understand each other. Understanding should be in the process of getting along, don't leave regrets.

True love is not flat, and true love makes people upward. The love of ordinary people is dull and warm, and the love of writers is written on paper, which makes us feel that they "only have you in their hearts". Although they are both talented and beautiful, they are also husband and wife. The writer's love is far more romantic than we thought.