My child is 1 1 year old this year, and his self-control ability is poor. What if the child has no self-control?

Self-control is also the embodiment of a sense of responsibility, that is, the ability to control and control one's behavior is the quality of human will. Every child will transition from heteronomy to self-discipline, so we need the help of adults. So, what should children who have no self-control do?

First, cultivate children's self-discipline ability. Let children learn self-discipline. Parents can set some rules according to their children's age and acceptance, such as "don't play with mobile phones when doing homework" to cultivate their children's ability to abide by the rules. Teach your children self-discipline. Sometimes adults "manage more, the harder it is to manage", but it is easy to arouse children's rebellious psychology. It is best to give children autonomy. Learn to let go and let parents help. Provide a good self-control environment. Many children lack self-control, which is one of the reasons why parents can't lead by example. In daily life, parents should set an example to help their children develop a regular and self-disciplined lifestyle.

Secondly, guide children to make plans. Many children have poor self-control, which will lead to aimless and aimless work. In order to improve children's self-control, parents can guide their children to make plans and let them gradually self-discipline in the process of completing their goals. Teach your child to respond positively and correct. Most children don't like being corrected, and their reactions are either aggressive or negative. There is a fact in life that people often have to follow the direction they don't like. Teach your child to respond with a good attitude and correct behavior. This requires self-control to help children learn to control their impulses. A good response to correction is sometimes difficult to learn, but it will always benefit them.

Finally, encourage children to participate in activities that can cultivate self-control. These activities may include sports, music lessons, pet care, etc. They can also include reciting poems, cleaning rooms or many other activities. Let the children bear the consequences. Letting the child bear the logical consequences can be a "long memory" for him. For example, a child always wants to eat while watching TV. At this time, parents should tell him that there is only one choice between eating and watching TV. If children choose to watch TV, parents must put away their meals. When a child is hungry and finds that he needs to bear the consequences of not eating, he naturally knows that this is wrong.