And the decisive movie name "Forever". The sky is long and the ground is long. But eventually there will be a day of disillusionment, although at that time I have been classified as dust.
I still think the English name "So long, my son" is simple and moving, so long, my child. When I was watching a movie, I was not tempted by the name "forever". When I saw the English subtitles, I couldn't help but burst into tears: for so long, my son floated over.
Yes, I can't lose you, my child. Only at the moment when I saw the English name, I was moved. Then there was a long 173 minutes, sitting in a spacious and dark theater, watching the German Double Emperor's film "Forever".
The film tells the joys and sorrows of several families in the early 1980 s and the next 30 years. The Li Yun family in Yao Jun is close to their colleague Yingming and Xinjian. Yao Jun's son Liu Xing and the wise son Shen Hao are both only children in the family. They were born on the same day of the same year, and their parents agreed to be "brothers for life." However, the wise wife Haiyan forced Li Yun to abort her second child because of the position of family planning policy, which led to massive bleeding and lifelong infertility.
A few years later, because of an accident in Shen Hao, Yao Jun lost his only son, Liu Xing. Since then, the shadow of children's eternal death has invaded Yao Jun and Liu Yun's body and mind. They turn south and run a car repair shop called "Star Car Repair Shop".
Many years later, Haiyan suffered from cancer, missed Yao Jun and Liu Yun, and invited them back. A group of people got together again to celebrate the birth of Shen Hao's baby. As if nothing had happened.
I remember seeing some comments saying "forbearance" before watching the movie. After watching the movie, I just want to ask, "forbearance" and "forbearance" are not all such struggles in the fate of all sentient beings, thinking that this is an essential quality for adults to mix with society.
In the vast era, the sorrow of several people. In the wider world, there is no difference between generations. Every era has its own brand. In other words, people in every era have "karma" to bear and endure, while Buddhists say "karma is rewarded". In fact, there is no need to exaggerate praise and deliberately render it, even in the era of relatively free expression.
..... only child. Empty nesters. Left-behind children are laid off. Go to sea for business. Go abroad. Unemployed second child. Medical treatment. Housing. Education. Marriage. Love. ……
It is a tragedy for white-haired people to send black-haired people. Everything is born, and whoever God wants to take away will not consult with the people around him. A generation has its own problems and puzzles, which are changing, seemingly unbalanced and unfair, but in fact everything has its own law of conservation.
The Story of Yan Xi Palace, a cool drama against resentment, is not a sample that most people can copy and imitate in real life.
As for the performance of that man and that woman, it doesn't look like winning prizes abroad. Personally, I think it is different from the return of Chen and Gong Li, or even far less than the performance in the TV series Fortune (adapted from Yu Hua's novel Alive).
It can't even be compared with the movie "Fanghua" in touching the heartstrings and poking people's tears. He Xiaoping danced solo and poked tears on the grass in his hospital gown. Dissolving the night, there is no stage, no lights, no music, but everything is so beautiful that it makes people cry. At the end of the film, Xiaoping leans on Liu Feng's shoulder, and two lonely people snuggle together warmly, which makes the audience sigh.
In the movie "Dear", there is a "looking for children" organization. Orphan parents sign up for a support group, some find it, and more are still waiting endlessly. It is the most tearing thing to live without seeing people and die without seeing bodies. Reality is colder than movies. Parents have been searching for their children in their hearts all their lives, suffering from hopeless hopes, but their bodies have to be displaced in a normal life track.
Life-long search, or unbearable sight, are extreme cases in reality.
There are mountains and rivers everywhere, but you are missing. Generally speaking, it is extremely sad in the world. Especially in this beautiful spring season, watching fallen flowers fly everywhere, thinking about eternity, rabbits fly everywhere.
After reading Forever, I only feel that the creator thinks that he is the person who knows "restraint and forbearance" best. He expressed it in his own way, but he didn't go near the hearts of many audiences.
I'm not the creator. As a paying audience, if it can't touch my heart, it's not a good film on my list and it's not worth watching again.
If Auld Lang Syne wants to convey something, the theme song Auld Lang Syne seems to be a good hint.
It was a famous poem at first, and the original text was a long-lost day. Later, it was set to music, sung by many countries, and often chosen as the theme song at graduation ceremonies or funerals in Asia, symbolizing a feeling of farewell or ending.
Most people know the melody of Auld Lang Syne for the first time, which should come from the black-and-white movie Broken Blue Bridge, which swept the world for nearly half a century. It is a tearful love swan song during the war.
It is clearly a sad death story, and the soul is broken and the dream is broken. It is determined to use a piece of music to tell the story of bon voyage and may it last forever.
In Auld Lang Syne, Wang Yuan, a young man from Fenghua, sang a gentle and moving song, but he had a restrained sadness. When watching a movie, every time this melody rings, there will be a short period of mixed feelings.
"How can you forget your old friend? How can you forget your old friends? How can you forget that friendship is eternal?
We used to wander all day, and on the green hills in our hometown, we also experienced hardships and wandered around. ……
We used to feel the same way. Let's hold hands, cheers. Our friendship will last forever. "
In the torrent of the times, the evil of human nature is stimulated, and the good of human nature is also shining. In the long years, in fact, the two families have always missed their friendship, and finally chose to forgive and reconcile, and put aside the past and smile forward in their lifetime.
If we understand it this way, we may be able to understand the eternal theme and cherish friendship forever. As for the expression in the wave of the times, it is somewhat far-fetched.
One day, after watching this movie, I saw a poster of Forever in the elevator with the words "Spring warms people's hearts" at the bottom, but after watching it, I felt a sense of sadness, only that "the mountains and rivers are far away, and the falling flowers are even more harmful to spring".
When I think of two very literary words in the movie, they sound inappropriate in the play, and I feel puzzled when the audience is laughing.
Yao Jun said: "In her words, time has stopped, and all that remains is getting old."
Li Yun said, "In this case, what else can't we face?"
Adult Shen Hao has a very nonverbal line: "I have a big tree in my heart." I'm growing up, and so are the trees. I think I'm about to explode ... (to this effect) "
As a child, Shen Hao knew that he pushed Liu Xing in the river, which led to Liu Xing's death. Many years have passed, and no one talks about this topic anymore. Shen Hao confessed to ask for forgiveness, and Li Yun chose to forgive: "Son, just say it."
In the whole process of watching the movie, these three paragraphs sound a bit strange, but the fact is that they don't match the identity of the characters in the play. If these three dialogues are edited, it will not affect the theme presentation of this film. In retrospect, I think of these plots again and feel extremely absurd and sad. Maybe this is the real world.
Movies are always movies, which beautify guilt and seem to let go of the peace and freedom of the past. In front of a overgrown tombstone, you can miss your underage only son at will. Such a long life, my child, but you are long gone. Maybe this is the voice of white-haired people.
I'm not sure, but every time I leave life and death, I always think of a short poem "Tomb Bed" written by Gu Cheng:
"I know that eternal death is not sad,
There is my wish in the pine forest,
There is a sea below, which looks like a pool from a distance.
What is with me is the afternoon sunshine.
Time is up, the world is still long,
I should rest in the middle,
Passers-by said the branches were low,
People passing by say that the branches are growing. "
There is a simple image, a profound artistic conception, dignified and detached. When I first read this poem, my heart was fragile, then strong, then compassionate, lost, unique, unspeakable past, unpredictable future and disillusionment of every moment.
Once, when my daughter came back from school, she sighed and said, Mom, today the teacher showed us "Human Life", and all the students in our class expressed their gratitude. It's not easy not to get hurt at such a big age.
At that time, I was Zheng, and I simply responded, yes.
This time, after watching Forever, I asked my mother, was abortion really that eye-catching? Mom said, yes, I remember a sister I know, more than six months old, was forced to induce labor. It's a boy. It's really sinful.
Then why didn't they run away? I always ask this question. Where can I escape? It's in the movie, mom said.
I'm a little scared. It's not easy for my daughter to live unscathed. A person is a drop in the ocean, and I am a speck.
However, I have always known that in the eyes of parents, I am their life, and in the eyes of children, I am her day.
I like peach blossoms in spring, waves in summer, ginkgo leaves in autumn, snowflakes in winter, and you every day. But without you, the past scenery will be eclipsed, not worth nostalgia, my baby.
I am the only one for them. I have a vast world, so do they. In the past, there was always rhetoric, and there was no order in all kinds of relationships. I still have lofty sentiments in my heart, but I will seriously put them beside me first.
Whether the sky is long or not, whether the ground is long or not, and how far it is forever, has nothing to do with me. Forever is too far away, the farthest distance in the world, I don't want it. The long road of life, I just want to be with you, with my children, with my relatives and friends, and hope to see you often.