(1) Be independent in love.
First of all, talk about independence in love. In To the Oak Tree, Shu Ting expressed her desire for independence. The image of a tree? Being around you is actually talking about independence. Shu Ting thinks? If you are kapok, then you should stand beside your lover as a tree? It's like this in love. Two people who love each other should naturally snuggle up to each other, but they should also have the ability to be independent of each other, rather than being unable to survive without each other, otherwise such love will not last long.
(2) Be brave in sharing weal and woe.
The second point is the courage to share weal and woe. Is this concept of love used by Shu Ting? We share cold waves, storms and lightning; We like mist, flowing mist and rainbow? The narrative came out. In To the Oak, Shu Ting compares herself to kapok and her lover to an oak tree. She hopes that kapok and oak can experience the cold wave, storm and lightning of the four seasons together, and also hope that kapok and oak can enjoy the natural mist, flowing haze and neon together. This is actually talking about emotions.
(3) Tolerance in love
The last thing to say is? Tolerance in love? This is reflected in the last four sentences of To the Oak. Shu Ting's last four sentences in To the Oak Tree express that her love is diverse, tolerant and brave. When we love a person, we should not only love the advantages of ta, but also tolerate and help ta to correct its shortcomings, so that two people can spend more time together and find a better self in love.