There is no reason, just because these men live a chic life.
Throughout the ages, sages are heavy, and a flute scatters Chu soldiers. This is Sean, who won the battle thousands of miles away in the process of strategizing. Moreover, the only person who can know that he has resigned, will not be killed by Liu Bang, and will retire and enjoy his old age. This is great wisdom, and seeking holiness is no joke.
Guiguzi belongs to the image of the best player in the world. Guiguzi is the originator of all the games you can think of, the skill of emperors, the skill of playing chess, calligraphy and painting, the marketing ability, self-cultivation and the skill of being a guest. But he can not only get ahead in troubled times, but also live happily, which is not something that ordinary people can do.
As for Cao Cao and Wang Yangming, I owe them to their natural and unrestrained hearts. If you kill people, you kill people. Sleep with women (Wang Yangming is better). If you are dissatisfied with the court, you will not be dragged down by morality. You just need to focus on what you want to do. If you can't do it, you won't care, and you won't lose too much.
Cao Cao and Battle of Red Cliffs, defeated, laughed and roared off. As long as he wants cities, talents, women, fame and status in this world, he will reach for it, and he will feel nothing if he can't get it. This is really chic.
It is more natural to play Wang Yangming. He fought more than 20 wars and never lost. Everything is spontaneous, but he can do things to the extreme. He also realized the way of saints, taught many disciples and invented the theory of the unity of knowledge and action. Failure is an experience for him and the only way to become a saint. If he succeeds, he will not be proud, calm and kidnapped by fame and fortune.
Everything he did was out of what he called "conscience".
These four men are all powerful people in essence. They can be self-disciplined, know what they really want and what they don't want, and naturally pursue what they want. This is the real chic.
And most successful people, or some celebrities. They are often kidnapped by success or fame. They have lost themselves for vanity, power and money, kidnapped by others' eyes and kidnapped by social morality.
In fact, among the entrepreneurs or celebrities in China today, I admire Ma Yun, Liu Chuanzhi and Ren. But I don't envy them, because I think they are too hard. Really, they are not handsome enough to bear too much social responsibility.
Instead, I envy people like Shi Yuzhu and Ghost Feet.
Once I had dinner with some friends in Beijing, and one of my friends was developed by Ali search engine. Then I chatted with him about the originator of Taobao search, Ghost Foot Seven. Later, after leaving office, he became a media. At present, it is about 1 10,000 powder. Then play around the world, write articles, sell things, do training, and then have a lot of money to find him. It shows that he earns money just for fun. At present, he has a short time to become a monk and directly pursues spiritual enjoyment. 、
PS: (I don't want it, as long as there is 200,000 powder, I will go through this day. Come on, cat food ~)
Then my friend, he admired and admired, and then I really saw the flashing light when talking about ghost feet in his eyes. He said that ghost feet are the real winners in life, and I agree with him. First of all, men have a certain material foundation, can achieve financial freedom and have a little fame, but they are not kidnapped by fame. He still has a high self-cultivation in his heart and will not be controlled by greed and greed. It is very rare to return to your original heart, be yourself and do what you want to pursue in your soul.
Ghost feet did it. Of course, he often writes about Ma Yun. They met several times before, chatted for several days, and said how much they admired Ma Yun. But I believe that maybe Ma Yun also envies his carefree life.
Another is Shi Yuzhu. Shi Yuzhu's experience can be said to be a legend in China, and there may be nothing more legendary than him. I have the ability to do my own real estate business, but I am still in debt of several hundred million yuan. But I earned my money back by melatonin and these projects, and I became the richest man in China. Should this life be so wonderful from the first loss to the richest man? And in fact, at that time, money, uncompleted residential flats, giant building, did not need him at all, and he was also moral. Of course, I admit that Shi Yuzhu's ways and means of making money are too shady, and he uses human weakness to make money everywhere.
But in any case, the times made him. He is over 50 years old, but he still retired like Sean. I also tease Ma Yun's father from time to time. For example, his wineries abroad are very happy and chic, and Ma Yun's father is very helpless.
Men should be so careless and do whatever they want, but only if you have the strength.
As I said before, if you want to be free, you must do two things: financial freedom and spiritual freedom.
Both are indispensable, lack of financial freedom, can only be kidnapped by capital, lack of spiritual freedom, will only be kidnapped by desire.
But if you are smart, it is even harder, even harder than freedom. Because if you are free, you will not be bound by others and yourself. If you are chic, you are not arrogant, but you are completely in control. It can be said that you live in the middle of the road, and everything you do is happy and an experience. It will not affect your mood and emotions at all, and you can laugh at yourself humorously in the face of major setbacks.
So the foundation of chic is to have an extremely strong heart. Without a strong heart, you can't support a man's chic.
Of course, without a strong heart, we can learn from the spiritual pursuit of some artists.
For example, Su Shi, one of the eight masters in Tang and Song Dynasties, wrote poems, lyrics and paintings, all of which were of genius level. The song "Mink Head" is so unique that I want to go home with the wind. Dance to find out what shadows look like on the earth. Wait for these poems to express themselves. Although unrealistic, at least people can imagine chic, haha.
Finally, he was sent to the frontier and left a message for an old woman.
People are like Qiu Hong, and things are like spring dreams.
Yes, life is like a dream, so why take it so seriously.
Recently, I always listen to Li Bai from Ronghao Li, and Li Bai is also good. Occasionally writing poems, Doby girls are also the realm that most men want.
In a word, as long as you get what you want, you can enjoy it. This is chic.