A good father is better than 100 teachers. As the saying goes, maternal love is like water, and father loves mountains. When my mother took great pains to take care of us, my father was also trying to do his part well. For children's education, fathers are very important. A good father is better than 100 teachers.
A good father is better than a 100 teacher. 1 These good dads are somewhat unknown, but they have cultivated world-famous talents. Others are world celebrities themselves, but it's good to educate children. These stories, whether touching or inspiring, truly reproduce the father's deep care for his children and show his great influence in the process of their growth!
Da Vinci's father: fully developing children's interests
Pietro, the father of the famous painter Leonardo da Vinci, is a commendable father. His creed of cultivating children is to give them the greatest freedom and let them develop their own interests.
At the age of six, Leonardo da Vinci went to school and learned a lot at school, but his biggest interest was painting. One day, he didn't pay attention to the lecture in class and drew a sketch for the teacher. After returning home, Leonardo da Vinci showed his father his sketches. Instead of being angry, his father praised his good painting and decided to cultivate his talent in this field.
It is because his father is so enlightened that Leonardo da Vinci devoted himself wholeheartedly to his favorite paintings and even dared to paint specifically to intimidate his father. Once, he spent a month drawing a banshee's head on the shield. There was fire in his eyes and smoke in his nostrils. It looked terrible. In order to scare his father, he closed the window and let only a ray of light shine on the banshee's face. Later, my father was frightened by the painting on the shield as soon as he entered the room, but when Leonardo da Vinci explained it with a smile, he didn't even blame his son.
/kloc-at the age of 0/6, my father took Leonardo da Vinci to learn painting from the painter verrocchio. Under the guidance of verrocchio, Leonardo studied hard and mastered many painting skills, eventually becoming a great painter.
Mozart's father: Give up work and raise children.
Mozart, an Austrian composer, was praised as a "prodigy" by countless people when he was a child. Many of his works have been enduring in classical music. However, Mozart's success is closely related to his father's careful training.
When Mozart was 3 years old, his father found that he often sat quietly and watched his sister practice the piano with great interest, so he began to enlighten him. Under the guidance of his father, Mozart began to write short songs at the age of five and piano concertos at the age of six. Later, in order to train him better, his father even gave up his job as a court musician and devoted all his energy to Mozart.
It can be said that without his father's persistent spirit, strict requirements and deep concern, it is impossible to create a master of music like Mozart.
Andersen's father: a poor shoemaker makes a great writer.
Danish fairy tale writer Andersen was born in Osaiden, a small town on the island of Fuen, where there are many nobles and landlords. Andersen's father was just a poor shoemaker and his mother was a washerwoman.
The aristocratic landlords were afraid of demeaning themselves and never let their children play with Andersen. Andersen's father was very angry about it, but he didn't show it in front of the children at all. Instead, he said to Andersen very easily: "Son, others don't play with you, come and play with you!"
Father personally decorated Andersen's humble room like a small museum. There are many pictures and decorative porcelain hanging on the wall, some toys on the cupboard on the window, and books and music on the bookshelf. Even on the door glass, a landscape painting was drawn. My father often tells Andersen the Arabian Nights and other ancient Arabic stories, and sometimes he reads a play by Danish comedian Holberg or a play by English Shakespeare.
In order to enrich Andersen's spiritual world, his father also encouraged Andersen to take to the streets to see the life of craftsmen, hunched old beggars and nobles who rampaged in carriages. These experiences laid a good foundation for Andersen to write fairy tales such as The Little Match Girl and The Ugly Duckling in the future.
Leo Tolstoy: tracing children's books with quill pens.
Russian writer lev tolstoy paid great attention to cultivating children's interest in learning. He often spends time telling stories and drawing pictures to children and answering their questions.
Tolstoy never imposed knowledge on children, but served them according to their hobbies and interests. There was a time when children were interested in the writer Jules? Verne's works are very interesting, Tolstoy tells them one by one.
Later, he found that the book Around the World in 80 Days had no illustrations. In order to help the children understand the story, he even illustrated his paintings and calligraphy with a quill every night. Tolstoy's time is precious, but he thinks it is worthwhile to spend it on improving children's interest in learning and stimulating their curiosity.
John rockefeller: Exercise and travel around the world.
/kloc-in the 20th century, john D Rockefeller, the founder of Rockefeller family business, was only a wage earner with a weekly salary of $7, but he finally founded Standard Oil Company through his own struggle.
He has formulated many strict measures in educating the next generation.
John D Rockefeller often emphasized the importance of physical exercise with his children. When his son went to school, he let him skate across Central Park to Lincoln School, with the family driver driving behind him.
In addition, the Rockefeller family attaches great importance to the influence of traveling around the world on children's growth. When the child was very young, he followed his parents, took a tutor and a lot of luggage, and began to fly over the continental United States, Europe, North Africa and other places. This kind of education has enhanced children's ability to understand social diversity and accurately grasp social common sense, and has played a very good enlightening role in establishing life goals in the future.
Gates' father: Let children know how to earn money by their own ability from an early age.
Bill, the boss of the world software giant Microsoft? Gates was born into a wealthy lawyer family in Seattle, USA, and his father William paid great attention to cultivating his consciousness of "working hard by ability" from an early age.
William said: "It is very important for children to know that they can make money. No matter what they do, they should have confidence and motivation." Gates helps his family, and his father always gives him a little reward to arouse his enthusiasm and let him know that work is a step to happiness. William said that doing so can let children know the real society and the outside world, and also let them know the happiness of working together and pursuing the same goal together.
In private high school, Gates and his friends developed a software to calculate urban traffic volume, and won the competition and signed a big contract. Later, the head of the school hired them to do lesson plans, and Gates also cooperated with others to write programs for the salary system of enterprises. William praised, "Gates is paid through labor."
Thaksin: Thai Prime Minister Qian Jin goes to work at McDonald's.
Thai Prime Minister Thaksin Shinawatra is a fourth-generation Thai Chinese and a famous "telecom tycoon" in Southeast Asia. His family is very rich. However, the 55-year-old Thaksin is very strict with his son and two daughters, and even takes the initiative to ask his children to go out to "suffer hardships" and learn more.
In March 2004, Thaksin's youngest daughter, Betong Tan, was sent to work in a McDonald's restaurant in Bangkok after the college entrance examination, and Betong Tan became the focus of Thai media. Thaksin said: "I just want her to have this experience, let her know about life, let her adapt to work faster, adapt to society and cultivate a sense of responsibility."
Editor: The above story tells us that fatherly love is the key to make a genius. In the process of children's growth, the influence of fatherly love and maternal love is different.
Motherly love can make children develop physically and mentally healthily, and the role of fatherly love is to teach children how to deal with and solve all kinds of life problems they encounter. Motherly love represents human nature and social life emotion, while paternal love often symbolizes career, thought, order, adventure and struggle, and represents rationality, which is mainly manifested in the cultivation of children's sense of accomplishment. According to the investigation of relevant institutions, children's academic performance and learning ability at school are also related to their fathers. If you have a good father, your children will be better at math and reading comprehension, feel safe in interpersonal relationships, have stronger self-esteem and get along with others easily.
Therefore, in a sense, fatherly love is far better than maternal love. Therefore, the ideal personality of a child is both fatherly love and maternal love. The common problem now is that some fathers often neglect or even give up their educational responsibilities, resulting in a serious shortage of fatherly education for their children. Such children are prone to form a so-called "yin-biased character", that is, fragile, timid, sentimental, dependent and independent. Fathers should "visit" the front line of education, cultivate children's healthy personality and autonomy, and let children better adapt to the real world and the future society.
Some people say that "one father is better than 100 teachers". I want to remind all fathers: the growth of children and the cultivation of talents, fathers must never leave!
A good father is better than 100 teachers. Undeniably, father plays an important role in educating children at home, although he doesn't spend much time with them. Even in the prenatal education stage. Where is the pregnant mother after pregnancy, both physically and psychologically, the changes are relatively large, and the big changes are definitely more prone to problems. At this time, it is necessary for the prospective father to provoke the burden of care, love and comfort. To appease the wife is to appease the children.
A husband should pay more attention to his wife, let her feel the warmth of the family, avoid the stimulation of her anger, panic, fear, sadness, anxiety and other negative emotions, and ensure that his wife can spend her pregnancy in a happy and energetic mood. The mood of pregnant women directly affects the growth and development of the fetus. Dad-to-be has time to walk with his wife and listen to light music, which makes her carefree and emotionally stable.
The husband should talk to the fetus with his wife in a euphemistic tone, sing songs and tell stories to the fetus. When the fetus is 7 months old, it already has hearing and sight. In addition, touching pregnant women's abdomen often is also good for the fetus. Before the pregnant woman goes to bed, the husband makes a circular rhythmic massage on his wife's abdomen with his whole palm and all his fingers, and while touching, he talks or sings to the fetus, which is very beneficial to the blood supplement and relaxation activities of the fetus.
During pregnancy, give your wife reasonable nutrition. Lack of nutrition in the critical period of fetal formation (early and middle pregnancy) will threaten the normal development of the fetus, especially the development of the brain, which often leads to abortion, premature birth, stillbirth and deformity. Most pregnant women have pregnancy reactions. Husbands should encourage their wives to overcome nausea and vomiting, insist on eating, eat less and eat more meals, avoid greasy and digestible foods, and try to choose foods rich in protein, carbohydrates and vitamins.
The environment of pregnant women should be quiet and comfortable, and it is not appropriate to have strong noise stimulation frequently. The light should be bright and soft, do a good job in indoor and outdoor hygiene, prevent diseases, prevent smog pollution, quit smoking and drinking, control sexual intercourse, remind your wife to pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and do some housework and necessary activities appropriately. Don't be extreme. Overprotection will do more harm than good.
A husband should participate in everything his wife undertakes for his children and family, if his wife makes various efforts and changes for prenatal education. There is no reason why men should not take the initiative to participate. Even laymen, as long as they have the heart, will be able to blend in. This will also make the fetus familiar with the father as soon as possible. Generate trust and dependence. I'm afraid dad doesn't want to see the baby look at you differently after birth.