Hank, 1, five years old, went to work in the forest with his parents and brothers. Suddenly it began to rain, but they only brought a poncho. Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank. Hank asked, "Why did my father give it to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?" Dad replied, "Because dad is better than mom, mom is better than brother, and brother is better than you." We all protect the weak. Hank looked around and ran to spread the poncho on a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.
The real strong man is not necessarily how powerful or rich he is, but how much he helps others. Responsibility allows us to accomplish things, and love allows us to do things well.
2. 1920 One day, a boy of 12 years old in America was playing football with his friends. Accidentally, the boy kicked the football to the neighbor's window and the glass broke.
An old man ran out of the house at once, flew into a rage and loudly questioned who did it. His friends ran away one by one, but the little boy walked up to the old man, bowed his head, apologized to the old man and asked his forgiveness. But the old man was stubborn, and the little boy was wronged and cried. Finally, the old man agreed to let the little boy go home and get money for compensation.
When he got home, the troubled little boy timidly told his father what had happened. Because my father was still young, he didn't show mercy. He just kept a straight face and said nothing. The mother sitting next to her always intercedes for her son and enlightens her father. I don't know how long it took, but my father said coldly, "Although the family has money, he is responsible for his mistakes." After a pause, the father took out the money and said to the little boy seriously, "I will lend you this 15 dollar for the time being, but you must try to pay it back to me." The little boy took money from his father and ran quickly to compensate the old man.
Since then, while studying hard, the little boy has used his spare time to work to earn money and pay his father back. Being small and unable to do heavy work, they went to restaurants to help others wash dishes, and some even picked up junk. After several months of hard work, he finally earned $65,438+05 and proudly gave it to his father. Father patted him on the shoulder happily and said, "A person who can be responsible for his own negligence will surely succeed in the future."
Many years later, the boy became the president of the United States. He's Reagan. Later, when Reagan recalled the past, he said with deep feelings: After that trouble, I learned the responsibility of being a man.
strengthen
1 Behind the Champion
Zhang Dan/Zhang Hao, a young group from China, won the silver medal in figure skating double skating competition in Turin Winter Olympics with strong willpower. Although he failed to win the championship, Zhang Dan's tenacious willpower and brave spirit touched the world. When they were interviewed, they still remembered the scene of injury at that time and were full of confidence in the future. Their goal of the Olympic Games in four years is to win the gold medal.
When asked about the specific situation at that time, Zhang Hao said, "I looked at her and forgot all the movements. I just want to help her up. I asked her if she could continue, but she didn't answer. After about a minute, she said, back to the game, we went back to the ice and finished the game. "
When asked about Zhang Dan's injury at that time, she firmly said that she always felt that she could persist, so she persisted and finished the last race: "I felt that I could persist after being injured, so I returned to the race. In fact, I don't feel pain when I re-compete, just give full play to my level on the court. "
The story of 2 Zhang Haidi was born in an intellectual family in Wendeng County, Shandong Peninsula on 1955. At the age of 5, she was completely unconscious from the chest down and could not take care of herself. Doctors think that paraplegic patients like this can hardly live beyond 27 years old. Under the threat of death, Zhang Haidi realized that his life might not last long. She is sad because she has no more time to work. She cherishes every minute more and prolongs her life with diligent study and work. She wrote in her diary: "I can't live in mediocrity." If you are alive, you have to study and do more for the masses. " Since it is a meteor, we should leave the light to the world and give everything to the people. "1970, she followed her parents who led the educated youth to the countryside and settled in Shanglou Brigade in Shenxian County. Seeing the pain caused by the lack of medical care and medicine for the local people, she came up with the idea of learning medical skills to relieve the suffering of the people. She used her pocket money to buy medical books, thermometers, stethoscopes, mannequins and medicines, and studied books on acupuncture, human anatomy, internal medicine and practical pediatrics. In order to identify the internal organs, she cut open the hearts, lungs, livers and kidneys of small animals for observation. In order to be familiar with acupoints, she drew red and blue dots on herself, practiced needles on her body and felt the acupuncture sensation. Many things happen. She finally mastered certain medical skills and was able to treat some common and frequently-occurring diseases. For more than ten years, she has treated 10000 people.
Later, she moved to the county town with her parents and didn't arrange a job once. Inspired by the deeds of pavel korchagin and Wu Yunduo, and inspired by Gao Yubao's experience in writing books, she decided to take the road of literary creation and use her own pen to create beautiful images and inspire people's hearts. She has read many famous Chinese and foreign books, kept diaries, read novels, recited poems and copied zhanghua's epigrams. Besides reading and writing, she also practiced sketching, learned to sketch, copied famous paintings, learned to recognize simple music and staff, and played songs with accordion, pipa and guitar. Now he is a professional creator of Shandong Federation of Literary and Art Circles, and his work Dream in a Wheelchair came out, which once again aroused strong repercussions in the society.
Look for the goal, no matter how many difficulties and obstacles there are, we must cross the past and reach the other side of success. This is Zhang Haidi's character. Once, an old comrade brought a bottle of imported medicine and asked her to help translate the explanatory text. Seeing this comrade leaving in disappointment, Zhang Haidi decided to learn English and gain more knowledge. From then on, she wrote English words on the wall, on the desk, on the desk lamp, on the mirror, and even on her hands and arms. She also stipulated to herself that she would not sleep unless she remembered the word 10 every night. There are guests at home, as long as they know some English, they all become her teachers. After seven or eight years of hard work, she was not only able to read English newspapers and literary works, but also translated the English novel The Beach Clinic. When she handed the translated version of this book to the editor-in-chief of a publishing house, the old comrade who was over 500 years old was moved to tears and enthusiastically wrote the preface: Road, extending at the foot of a paralyzed girl.
Later, Zhang Haidi made continuous progress and learned Japanese, German and Esperanto. Haidi also tries his best to help young people around him, encouraging them to love life, cherish youth, study hard the skills of serving the people, and contribute their own light and heat to the prosperity of the motherland. Under her guidance, many teenagers have been admitted to middle schools, technical secondary schools and universities, and many lost people have been inspired and educated in her contact and become full and noble. Zhang Haidi sang a high-pitched and passionate song of life in a wheelchair. The theme of this song is: the value of human life lies in bravely pioneering and selfless dedication for the prosperity of the motherland and the happiness of the people!
friendship
Boya and Zhong Ziqi Boya are famous pianists. His piano skills are good, while Zhong Ziqi is good at listening to music. When Boya plays the piano, he thinks of climbing mountains. Zhong Ziqi said happily, "What a wonderful play! I seem to see a towering mountain! " Boya thought of flowing water again, and Zhong Ziqi said, "What a wonderful play! I seem to see the rivers and seas of Wang Yang! " Every time Boya thinks of something, Zhong Ziqi can understand what Boya is thinking from the sound of the piano. Once, the two of them went to the north of Mount Tai to play together. When they were in high spirits, it suddenly rained heavily, and they came to a big stone to take shelter from the rain. Boya suddenly felt very sad, so he took out his piano and played it. I started to play the sound of rain in Mao Mao, and then played the sound of mountain cracking. Every time he plays, Zhong Ziqi can hear the meaning expressed by the sound of the piano. Boya then put down the piano and sighed, "Good, good. You can imagine my artistic conception when I play the piano. My piano can't escape your hearing anyway! " 2. During the Spring and Autumn Period and Zuo Shi, Wang Chongru recruited talents. I don't know how many people went home after hearing the news. There is a wise man named Zuo in Jishishan, Xiqiang. His parents died when he was a child. He studied hard and cultivated a talent to help the world and people. At that time, Zuo was almost 50 years old, because there were few benevolent rulers in China at that time, and he had to rely on bullies. But he took a bag of books, bid farewell to his neighbors in the country and came to Chu. He came to Yongdi in the severe winter, when it was raining, raining, and then a gust of wind, like a knife. After walking left for a whole day, my clothes were soaked, and I barely resisted the cold and walked forward. Look, it's getting dark. In the distance, he saw a hut in the bamboo forest, by the window. Zuo walked into the room and looked up and down. I saw that the furniture in the room was simple and shabby, and a bed was full of books. Zuo asked the man's name, but he knew that his parents had died since childhood. He only loves reading all his life and wants to save the country and the people. In a few words, it was very speculative, meaning "meet each other late", so he became sworn brothers. Zuo saw that he was handsome and knowledgeable, so he advised him to go to Chu to apply for a job, which was the same idea. One sunny day, the two men took some dry food to Chu. Go out for a walk and spend the night. Seeing that the dry food is running out and it is snowing again, this is not a day. Zuo thought, if this dry food is provided to one person, it can still reach Chu, otherwise both of them will starve to death. He knew that his knowledge was not as profound as Yang Jiaoai's, and he was willing to sacrifice himself to realize Yang Jiaoai's reputation. Ye wants to deliberately lie on the ground and ask Yang Jiaoai to move a big stone and sit down and rest. By the time the big stone was moved, Zuo had already taken off his clothes and was lying naked in the snow, with only one breath left. Yang Jiaoai is a great country. Zuo told him to put on his clothes, take away the dry food and become famous quickly. Say it and die. When Yang Jiaoai arrived in Chu, he was recommended to Wang Yuan by doctor Pei Zhong. When Guan Jiao was summoned to pay his respects, he went to Daxichen and worshipped as a Chinese medicine practitioner. He was given two pieces of gold 120 and silks and satins 100. Gave up his official position to look for Zuo's body. After finding Zuo's body, Yang Jiaoai bathed in Zuo's fragrant soup and chose an auspicious place for burial. Yang Jiaoai kept the tomb here. The tomb and Jing Ke's tomb are not far apart. According to legend, after Jing Ke stabbed the king of Qin, the elves stayed after his death. When Zuo was buried next to him, ghosts and ghosts had an argument. One night, I dreamed that my left side was black and blue. Telling the story of Jing Ke's violence, Yang Jiaoai woke up and said, "Jing Ke is hateful. My brother can't beat him alone. Let my brother help you. " Say, commit suicide. It was night: storms, thunder and lightning, and faint shouts and killings. Dawn: Jing Ke's grave has burst open. When King Chu Yuan learned the news, he built a loyalty and righteousness temple for them, which was recorded on the tablet and has been burning incense ever since.
Emotional bond
Lying on the ice looking for carp;
Wang Xiang of the Jin Dynasty lost his mother in his early years, and his stepmother Zhu was unkind. She often tells her father about Wang Xiang, thus losing his love. One winter, her stepmother Zhu was ill and wanted to eat carp. But because it was cold and the river was frozen, Wang Xiang lay naked on the ice and prayed. Suddenly, the ice cracked and two carp jumped out of the crack. Wang Xiangxi went back to worship his stepmother.
Fight for death:
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, James Zhang was wanted for offending the eunuch Hou Lan. Kong Rong's brother Kong Bao is a good friend of James Zhang, so James Zhang went to see him. Unfortunately, Kong Bao is not at home, and Kong Rong is only sixteen years old. James Zhang didn't tell Kong Rong the truth because he was too young. Kong Rong saw that James Zhang panicked, so he left James Zhang behind. Later, the story came to light, James Zhang escaped, and Kong Rong and Kong Bao were arrested and imprisoned. Kong Rong said that he left people behind and he was responsible; Kong Bao said, "It's not his fault that my brother came to beg me." Insist that he should be responsible; Confucius said that she was a parent and should be responsible, which led to "a deadly battle." The county magistrate couldn't make up his mind, so he had to report it to the court truthfully. Finally, the emperor found Kong Bao guilty and ordered him to be executed.
confidence
You must have confidence.
There is a female singer in 1, and she was very nervous the first time she performed on stage. Thinking that I am going to play soon, I sweated in front of thousands of audiences: "What if I forget the lyrics nervously on stage?" The more she thought about it, the faster her heart beat, and even she had the idea of backing out.
At this time, an elder came over with a smile, stuffed a paper roll into her hand and whispered, "There are lyrics you want to sing. If you forget the words on the stage, open them and read them. " Holding this note, she hurried onto the stage like a lifeline. Maybe with the paper roll in her hand, her heart will be much more practical. She performed quite well on the stage and was not crazy at all.
She walked off the platform happily and thanked the elder. The elder smiled and said, "You have defeated yourself and regained your confidence. In fact, what I gave you was a blank sheet of paper with no lyrics written on it! " She unfolded the paper roll in her hand, and sure enough, nothing was written on it. To her surprise, holding a blank sheet of paper, she successfully overcame the difficulties and achieved the success of the performance.
"This piece of white paper in your hand is not white paper, it is your confidence!" The elder said.
The singer thanked his predecessors. In her later life, she overcame one difficulty after another with confidence and achieved success again and again.
Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous symphony conductor. In the final of a world-class conductor competition, he played according to the score given by the jury, and keenly found the discordant voice. At first, he thought the band had made a mistake, so he stopped to play again, but it was still wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with music. At this time, the composer present and the authority of the jury insisted that there was absolutely no problem with the score, but he was wrong. Facing a lot of music masters and authorities, he thought over and over again, and finally said firmly and loudly, "No! There must be something wrong with the score! " As soon as his voice fell, the judges on the bench immediately stood up and gave him warm applause to congratulate him on winning the game.
It turns out that this is a "trap" carefully designed by the judges to test whether the conductor can stick to his correct opinion when he finds that the score is wrong and is "denied" by the authoritative department. Although the first two conductors who participated in the final also found mistakes, they were eventually eliminated because they echoed the opinions of authoritative people. However, Seiji Ozawa won the world command contest because of his confidence.