“It takes a day to freeze three feet.” It is a very bad behavior for children to say dirty words. Such children should be treated with temporary indifference and a stern tone to help them distinguish right from wrong.
Cheng’s mother said: “My son is 8 years old and is in the second grade of elementary school. Maybe I am too busy and have less communication with my children. Some time ago, I suddenly discovered that my son loves to swear. I gave him a lesson, and he promised not to say it again, but he persisted for a few days, and it still remains the same. Now, I really have a headache about this, and I don’t know how to educate him well.”
(1 )Create a civilized language environment
(2) Avoid reinforcing children to use swear words
(3) Use appropriate words to express inner feelings
(5) Don’t Repeat the dirty words your baby just said "kindly", and don't encourage your baby to say it again. The consequences of this are probably things you don't want to see either.
(6) Educate your baby on polite language appropriately and promptly, and at the same time tell your baby why you cannot say dirty words. Every child is like a blank piece of paper. Your appropriate and correct teaching will undoubtedly give your baby a good start in life.
(7) Punishing knowing and intentional conduct. When a child always deliberately speaks dirty words, and repeated explanations and advice from parents are of no avail, parents should immediately take some measures to stop their children from doing this
Some parents may hear this When my child speaks dirty words, I will immediately frown and say, "Why are you talking like this? You are so rude and ignorant. Who taught you this? You won't be able to do it next time. If you do it again, just do whatever you want." In fact, I I believe that when a child speaks dirty words, parents should pretend not to hear or react. The child will say a few words and see if nothing happens, then he will stop talking. Children say swear words because they have heard others say them, and then tried it themselves. As a result, they found that their parents had strong reactions, ranging from laughter to scolding. Like other bad habits, they will be tried over and over again just to get their parents to react the same way again. Why do children swear? There are many reasons, but the main ones are wanting to draw attention to others, being angry, and consciously swearing. Children themselves do not understand the concept of right and wrong. Teach children to express their emotions in appropriate ways. The key is to let children understand that hurting others is uncivilized behavior. Parental self-discipline is crucial. Children are a mirror of their parents.