Li Jian sang in Lake Baikal: "The pace of change makes it difficult for us to hold hands ... ice and snow can't hold tender feelings". This song became the golden song of the year and was sung by people. I don't know where people are moved. If the song is about a modern man looking back on the past and missing his lost love, there is really no need to add literary packaging to the old story of Lake Baikal. The time of "intoxicated spring breeze and lush grass" by Lake Baikal in a year should be very short. She impressed me with the legend of "Su Wu herding sheep". What a vast and lonely place it is for China!
Two thousand years after Su Wu, Lake Baikal ushered in a new exile. However, what a different exile this is! From June to February, 5438, I was deeply attracted by the love between Russian Communist party member and their noble and beautiful wife. These young aristocrats who tried to push Russia forward with French civilization failed and were exiled to Siberia, where the ice and snow were frozen. Their wives resolutely abandoned their former wealth and chose to stay with their husbands. Their loyalty was praised by many literati.
After my own experience of marriage, I no longer stay in the simple touch of faithful love. I want to take party member's wife in June+February, 5438 as an example to rationally analyze where women's confidence in love comes from.
At first, I suspected that Russian women in the Orthodox era were more conservative and still had the idea of "being loyal to their own hearts". But the tsar asked them to divorce at that time, and even if Russia was backward, it would not involve nine families. They are all young and beautiful, with aristocratic privileges, property rights and the right to remarry. They are not desperate, but pursuing a husband is their voluntary choice. After the New Culture Movement in China, a large number of literati rejected the former wives arranged by feudalism. Those ex-wives who have been forgotten by the world stick to the old ethics and die silently without any ups and downs. Although it is also a kind of "faith", it can't inspire poetry, can't look up to encouragement, and just makes people sigh and lament. Therefore, the wives of party member in June and February of 5438 were not praised for their "chastity".
There are also many praise articles saying that they know the noble pursuit of their husbands, and they have the same ideals and beliefs about freedom and humanity as their husbands, so they have great courage to choose to share weal and woe with their failed relatives and survive. However, not every female student who defected to Yan 'an is willing to marry a cave revolutionary. It doesn't make sense for St. John to ask Jane Eyre to be his missionary wife in the name of serving God together. It seems that it is not enough to have the same pursuit.
I guess their courage is the natural expression of human nature, that is: because of love. As one of the wives said, "The poet praised us as heroines. We are not heroines, we are just looking for our husbands. " When it comes to love, it must not be a one-sided emotion. Imagine if these young officers and nobles get drunk every day and go home rude to their wives, just like Gorky's stepfather. Will there be a wife who is so determined that "there is no tomb in the mountains, and heaven and earth are in harmony, but dare to break up with you"? The picture of young Gorky and his stepfather struggling to protect their mother seems to reappear.
If their usual relationship is nominal husband and wife, then live together. The Duchess of Volkonskaya (some people say that it is the Duchess of TeRubets Kaya) will not kneel on the ground with excitement when she finally meets her unkempt and ragged husband after a year of running around. "I kissed the shackles on his feet first, then stood up and kissed her husband's body for a long time." What a delicate and romantic husband he should be to appreciate such a gentle man! If the man himself is rude and indifferent, where can the wife have such passion? ! To understand is to play the lute to a cow, and it will not bring shame to yourself.
During the period of 65438+February, communist party people were all young elites who stayed in Paris after the Russian occupation of France. Deeply influenced by French civilization, they are determined to change Russia with advanced humanistic ideas. I guess they treat women with respect and consideration, and they also learn French romance. It can be seen from their letters to their wives. Moravi Levente Jova's husband wrote: "Since we got married, I have kept nothing from you, only this uprising. I have tried to tell you this ominous secret many times, but I can't bear to make you feel scared. Now I have brought you pain and fear, my angel. I want to kneel at your feet. Please forgive me. " Moravi Levente Jova wrote back: "I think I am the happiest woman. I have the right to share half your tears and smiles. Give me my share, I am your wife! " This kind of communication between husband and wife is too difficult to meet by the standards of ancient and modern China and foreign countries!
Their wives are wonderful and lucky. Not every woman has the social resources to meet the best man. Just like many good women in China, their humble origins determine their education and friendship. No matter how gentle you are, you may never find someone to give and release your love, such as Yang Naiwu and Chinese cabbage, such as Wu Dalang and Pan Jinlian. The gypsy woman who dances and entertains in front of Notre Dame de Paris, despite her longing for beautiful love, only attracts juggling children, sick priests, poor poets and ugly bell ringers. Her background determines that she has no choice. I crossed the ocean by myself, and after a long and lonely life in the new world, I was lucky to find the other half worthy of running in. There are more lonely women looking for love, who are still searching hopelessly under the spell of "To find your prince, you must kiss many toads".
Let's take a look at the aristocratic wives of party member in June+February, 5438. They were born in a noble family, well-educated and beautiful. Meet the right lover at the most beautiful age. Their husbands are proud, handsome, young and talented. Among the three branches of Christianity, the Orthodox Church emphasizes equality between men and women. They followed their husbands to various art salons. It is said that "these salons do not gossip, play cards or play pranks, but discuss religion, science, history, philosophy, law, art, Russia's relationship with the West, Russia's future and Russia's road through music and drama." Their husbands also learned the romantic feelings, idealism and aristocratic spirit of France. How hard is it for them to love their husbands? !
Some people say that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes", or as Li Jian said in his song, a slight change of pace will be the reason for missing each other, all because they don't love each other at all. It is worthy of the name to say that Mrs. Russia is a monument of Siberia and a birch tree beside Lake Baikal. It's just that the vast majority of women in the world are loyal to love and have no chance to give up for love!
I looked at my beautiful and lovely daughter and prayed in my heart: Let our world be more civilized and progressive, and may our daughter be as happy as flowers. In her most beautiful years, may she meet a talented person. I hope that people who love each other don't have to go through the test of Lake Baikal, and write their own "Guan Guan Ji Gui, in Hezhou" in the way of warm sunshine. "My fair lady, a gentleman is good"; In the ordinary and boiling life, they completed their own "life and death contract, and the son became a theory; Hold your hand and grow old with your son. "May they hand over the papers that are qualified and satisfactory in life. Only in this way can the noble souls of the ancestors on the shores of Lake Baikal be gratified!