I am 50 years old this year, and I obviously feel that the functions of various organs in my body are deteriorating. If you stand for a long time, or bend over for a long time, your waist hurts badly, and it is inconvenient to walk or sit. Eating too much, either your nose is rotten or your mouth is rotten, and your stomach is as heavy as the weight you eat, which is very uncomfortable. If you stay up late at night, you will stay up all night, tossing and turning in bed and looking out of the window until dawn. Even lost a few teeth, and finally spent a lot of money to fill the porcelain teeth are not as good as the original. Can't eat sour, cold and hard teeth, and the gums are inflamed, swollen and bleeding. Whenever it rains, the shoulder joint, elbow joint and knee joint are sore, so you must wear knee pads in winter to spend it safely.
Especially the eyes, after surgery, are still suffering from frequent symptoms, either prone to tears, blurred vision, or swollen eyelids in the morning for no reason. Now is the electronic age, and everything can't be separated from mobile phones and computers, but how dare your eyes look at the screen for a long time? This series of physical discomforts, although minor ailments and pains do not affect normal life, remind me all the time that you are aging without hesitation.
A person's aging is from the inside out, not only the body obviously feels uncomfortable, but also the appearance is aging synchronously. When I looked in the mirror, I found a few strands of white hair quietly added to my head, and the wrinkles around my eyes were unconsciously added. The age spots on the face are also visible in pieces, and the swimming ring on the waist has been quietly thickened for several layers, and the back is no longer straight. No matter how expensive I wear it, it is not as beautiful as when I was young. Therefore, even the mirrors don't like taking pictures, and they dare not take selfies in the circle of friends like young people. I often hear my best friend say: I don't seem to be young, why am I suddenly so old?
Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, and a person's aging is irreversible. Although medical beauty is very popular now, it can repair old faces, such as wrinkle removal, eyebrow lifting, eye bags removal, fat removal, breast augmentation and hip lifting. However, the aging organs cannot be repaired, and the decline of the functions of various organs in the body cannot be stopped. This is like "the water of the Yellow River goes out of heaven and into the ocean, never to return".
Therefore, it is our practice to accept that we grow old naturally and then grow old calmly.
I'm 50 years old, and I'm in the transition period from work to retirement. It is a compulsory course to adjust one's mentality and successfully switch between two living conditions.
"Knowing the destiny at fifty" has become a destiny, and there is no need to compete for fame and gain, regardless of gains and losses. Don't look at the leader's face, guess the leader's mind, and no longer complain that the system is too strict and the management is too left. I was lucky to get it, but lost my life. I am very calm, very calm, so I do my job with a clear conscience and get paid quietly. This is great!
I am 50 years old, and I must combine work and rest and exercise properly in the future. Live in the spirit, be independent every day, do what you can, and don't disturb your children. In fact, I don't expect to live to be eighty or ninety years old. If I had been paralyzed or demented, what would it be to talk about the quality and dignity of life? What is the point of living? Therefore, physical health is the first priority. It is excellent to be able to grasp yourself at any time.
Some people say that the best way to abolish a person is to let him be idle. I have imagined countless times that when I retire one day, no one will force me to go to work on time and on time, and my children have grown up and have their own family life, will I do nothing and wait for death? No, I will not.
I don't want to waste it in my lifetime. To live is to live wonderfully and meaningfully. At that time, if the children needed it, I was duty-bound to help them and make them work hard. If the child can support the portal independently, he will quit gracefully and live his own life.
It has always been my dream to go to a university for the aged. I'm going there to learn many things that I usually like but have no time to learn, such as catwalk, painting, calligraphy, writing and so on. To fill my old age. I can't help but get excited at the thought of catwalk, as if I saw a row of women wearing hip-wrapped cheongsam coming slowly. Their elegant posture, dignified manners and confident smiles really made me envy!
After retirement, I left the company, but I can't leave the society. Occasionally, it is also a good way to relax by chatting, shopping, drinking tea and traveling with three or five friends. Finally, there is still a lot of time to squander, so let yourself slow down and enjoy life in no hurry.
What the elderly fear most is not material lack, but spiritual loneliness. But we can't pin all our hopes on children, looking forward to it every day, hoping that children will accompany us, and they also have their jobs, families and lives. Children who grow up need independence, and we should learn to be independent as we grow older. I hope that when I am old, I can add icing on the cake to their lives, not the burden and burden on their shoulders!
Finally, I ended with a sentence from Jia Pingwa: I was born from the heart, not because of people's enthusiasm; The article is eternal, chatting and entertaining yourself.