Moloya once said: "Friendship is the same as love. You will only feel happy if you live among friends with whom you can get along naturally without pretense and lies."
Walking in the world, everyone longs for the most comfortable interpersonal relationship.
But the older I grow, the more I understand that not all feelings make people happy, and not all friendships make people comfortable.
When interacting with people, only in the same circle can you never get tired of getting along with each other and get along with the destined people.
Only by nourishing each other and healing each other can we maintain each other’s health.
01 Get along as you please
Feng Zikai and Zhu Guangqian became friends because of their poetry.
One time when Zhu Guangqian was celebrating his birthday, Feng Zikai went empty-handed. After dinner, he took paper and pen and drew a picture in public as a gift to Zhu Guangqian.
Zhu Guangqian was very happy and thought this gift was extraordinary. He liked it very much.
In this life, there are not many people that we can get along with, but there are not many people that we can get along with easily.
I heard a saying: "Any relationship that requires you to work hard to cater to it is wrong."
Being able to interact with others without getting tired is the key to maintaining long-term relationships. A panacea.
When we get together, we are free to talk freely, and we can even tease each other without any scruples; when we are apart, we are busy and care about each other, and we don’t need to be in constant contact, and we are always available.
You don’t have to worry about your words being misinterpreted, you don’t have to worry about others mocking you behind your back, and you don’t have to work hard to please.
Follow your heart, get close if you get along, and stay away if you don’t get along.
The best way to get along is to stay together for a long time and be relaxed and comfortable.
02. Mutual nourishment
Yan Ning and Li Yinuo, two top students at Tsinghua University, were China’s best besties. They were depressed because Yan Ning was not good at math, and they happened to encounter the same trouble. A promise.
The two of them catch up with each other in studies, take the TOEFL and IELTS exams, and fight side by side to strive for the highest score.
It is true that in life, they can meet like-minded people. It is a great blessing.
A good relationship must empower and achieve each other, rather than tearing each other apart and becoming a burden to each other.
Only by working hard to get closer to the person who nourishes you. Achieve a higher self.
Associate yourself with wise people, walk with good people, attract each other, and grow together. This kind of life is full of abundance and prosperity.
03. Healing each other
In the movie "The Intouchables", the friendship between Philip and Dale touched countless people.
There is a huge difference in status between the two, but Philip especially likes Dale. , because Dell never regarded him as a disabled person
They cried and laughed together
Because of each other, Philip gradually became cheerful and confident, and Dell also understood. People are wise and don’t use violence anymore.
In life, no one’s life is smooth, and not everyone can be happy.
Luo Zhiyuan once said: “Life is about being hurt at the same time. cure. ”
A good relationship is not about accepting or giving blindly, but about mutual appreciation and mutual achievement.
The happiest thing in a person’s life is not to be surrounded by friends and achieve success.
But when you are at a low point, there is someone who can help you and support you, and you will never leave.
04
There is nothing more comfortable in life. Too much to be with someone who is comfortable, relaxed, warm and calm.
There is no template for feelings, only mutual sincerity;
There is no formality in getting along, it is all about being relaxed and comfortable.