Habit forms character, and character determines fate. About what? Keynesian beauty
It is not difficult to do a good deed, but it is difficult to form the habit of doing it. -Aristotle
Successful children's education begins with the cultivation of good habits-Ba Jin
Habits will soon become a necessity in your life if they are not restrained. -Author: Augustine
Bad habits will hinder your fame, money and enjoyment at any time. -Author: Shakespeare
People like habits because they create them. -Author: Bernard Shaw
Habit, each of us is more or less its slave. -Author: Gao Ting
Go your own way and let others talk. -Dante (Italy)
Aristotle: People's behavior is always repetitive, so Excellence is not a single behavior, but a habit.
Plato: Man is a slave to habit!
Dryden, British poet: First we form habits, and then habits form us.
Li Ka-shing, the richest man in China: sowing ideas, achieving behavior; Planting behavior, achievement habit; Planting habits, achieving character; Kind of character, achieve destiny!
Self-study and self-reflection: Habit has a great influence on our life because it is consistent. Unconsciously, it has affected our moral quality, exposed our nature and affected our success or failure for many years. Education is to form habits! As a primary school teacher, to teach and educate people, we should pay more attention to helping students develop good living habits and study habits from an early age. In primary school, I think we should first implement "habit education", which is higher than all other education! Lay an effective foundation for their successful life! Combine character and tolerance, because character affects fate and tolerance affects the pattern!
Habits formed by wisdom can become second nature. -Bacon English
Habit is either the best servant or the worst master. -Amens
Habits will soon become a necessity in your life if they are not restrained. -Augustine
Bad habits will hinder your fame, money and enjoyment at any time. -Shakespeare
People like habits because they create them. -Bernard Shaw
Sowing behavior can harvest habits; Sowing habits can harvest character;
Sowing character can reap fate. -Thackeray
Habit is really a tenacious and huge force, which can dominate a person's life. bacon
In daily life, an ounce of habit is worth a pound of wisdom. Joe? Cloth? reed
Habit is a huge cable-we weave a thread every day, but we can't break it in the end. -The main one.
The great thinker Bacon specifically discussed the relationship between habit and fate in his book Bacon on Life. People's actions mostly depend on habits. All nature and commitment are not as powerful as habits, and perhaps only religious fanaticism can compare with them in this regard. And almost all manpower can't beat it.
Einstein, the master of science, said, "What is education? When you forget all the education, the rest is education. " In other words, what you can't forget is the real education, and what you can't forget most is the habit.
Japanese educator Fukuzawa Yukichi famously said, "Family is a habitual school and parents are habitual teachers." William james, a famous psychologist, has a famous saying: sow an action and reap a habit; Sow a habit and reap a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny. This famous saying means that habit can decide a person's fate. Children with good habits are children that the whole world can rest assured, and children with bad habits will make you restless all your life.
Kong Old Master Q said: "Small people succeed, and habit becomes nature." In other words, the habits formed as a child will be as natural and firm as human nature, and even become your nature. The result is that the success and miracles achieved in the future are supported by the habits developed as children in many ways.
If you taste the words of these celebrities, you can see the importance of habits in people's lives. Therefore, if you want to have a good behavior habit, you should start from an early age. No matter good habits or bad habits, especially some bad habits, once they are formed, it is difficult to change. Therefore, school education should cooperate with parents to cultivate students' good habits. It can be said that it is very urgent, which is much more important than getting more points and getting more excellent in the exam.
The power of habits is amazing, and forming good habits determines whether you succeed or not. ?
There is such a fable:
After the death of a rich man without an heir, he left a large legacy to a distant relative, who was a beggar who lived by begging all the year round. The beggar who accepted the inheritance immediately changed his values and became a millionaire. A journalist came to interview the lucky beggar: "What is the first thing you want to do after you inherit the inheritance?" The beggar replied, "I want to buy a better bowl and a strong stick, so it will be more convenient for me to go out and beg." ?
It can be seen that habits have a great influence on us, because they are consistent. Unconsciously affected our behavior, affected our efficiency, and affected our success or failure for many years. ?
About 5% of a person's behavior in a day is non-habitual, and the remaining 95% is habitual. Even if it is an innovation that breaks the routine, it can eventually evolve into a habitual innovation. ?
According to the research results of behavioral psychology: repeating for more than 3 weeks will form a habit; Repeated for more than 3 months will form a stable habit, that is, the same action, repeated for 3 weeks will become a habitual action, forming a stable habit. ?
Aristotle said, "People's actions are always repetitive." Therefore, Excellence is not a single act, but a habit. " ?
"People's behavior is always repeated. Therefore, Excellence is not a single act, but a habit. " Therefore, in the process of success, we should not only constantly stimulate our desire for success, but also have confidence, enthusiasm, will and perseverance, and get used to this successful express train to achieve our goals. ?
A zoologist did an experiment: he put a group of fleas into a large number of cups and covered them with a transparent glass. Fleas love to jump, so many fleas hit the glass on the lid and kept making tinkling noises. After a while, the zoologist took the glass away and found that all the fleas were still jumping, but they had kept the jumping height close to the glass to avoid hitting their heads. As a result, no flea can jump out-not that they can't jump out according to their ability, but that they have adapted to the environment. ?
Later, the zoologist put an alcohol lamp under the measuring cup and lit the fire. In less than five minutes, the measuring cup became hot, and all the fleas naturally played their instinct to survive. Every flea no longer jumps out of the measuring cup regardless of whether its head hurts or not (because they think it has a glass cover). This experiment proves that fleas don't want to change their habits in order to adapt to the environment, but rather reduce their talents and close their adaptive potential. ?
I think human beings do the same to the environment. Humans adapt to the external environment, create their own small environment, and then use habits to trap themselves in the environment they create. Therefore, habits determine the size of your activity space and your success or failure. Forming good habits is very important for your success. ?
Psychology master William? James said: "sow the next action and reap a habit;" Sow a habit and reap a character; Sow a character and reap a destiny. "
Habit and destiny
People are eager to be endowed with high IQ and great wisdom, but they often ignore the greatest wisdom-habit.
Lu Zhixin, a doctor of psychology in Peking University, said that successful people always seem to succeed, while unsuccessful people always seem to be in the cause of failure: "Habit is at work. If a person is used to laziness, he will wander around idly; If a person is used to diligence, he will work hard to overcome all difficulties and do everything well. "
This great thinker profoundly pointed out in Bacon's On Life: "Most human actions depend on habits. All nature and commitment are not as powerful as habits, even if people swear, swear and guarantee tickets, it is useless. "
1988, 75 nobel prize winners met in Paris. During the meeting, someone asked a Nobel Prize winner, "Which university and laboratory did you learn the most important thing?"
"It's in kindergarten."
"What did you learn in kindergarten?"
"Give your half to your friends; Don't take things that are not your own; Things should be placed neatly; Wash your hands before eating; Apologize for doing something wrong; Have a rest after lunch; Observe the nature around you carefully. Fundamentally speaking, all the things I have learned are these. "
This conversation is thought-provoking. What I learned from kindergarten is still fresh in my memory until I am old, which shows that I left a very deep impression. This also shows that the habits formed from childhood will accompany people's life.
There is such a poem: "nail"-a nail is dropped and a shoe is broken; Broke a shoe and a horse; Fold a horse and hurt a knight; Wounded a knight and lost a battle; Lost a battle and lost a country.
This little poem illustrates the relationship between a nail and a country. After careful study, we can find that this poem contains a great philosophy, that is, if you want to succeed, you must start from small things, and the cultivation of good habits can only start from small things. As the educator Montessori said: "Three years old determines a lifetime."
Plato once warned a wanderer: "Man is a slave to habit." The English poet Dryden also said, "First, we form habits, and then habits form us." Different childhood makes different lives, and the basic point of this "difference" is the difference of behavior habits.
"Sow a habit and gain a character; Sow a character and reap a life. " Good habits are very important to life, which can make great changes in people's lives.
On Habitual Francis Bacon
People's personality can affect people's thinking, people's speech depends on their knowledge and thoughts, but their behavior depends on long-term habits. Therefore, Machiavelli clearly pointed out that the power of personality and the words of heroes cannot be believed unless they can be proved by habit. He gave an example. If you want to murder a person, it is not reliable to find a cruel or brave person when choosing an assassin, but the killer with blood on his hands can be trusted.
Maybe Machiavelli forgot that the assassinations of Creme in Henry III, Varek in Henry IV, Jorge and Gerard in Duke William were not such people, but even so, his words still have some truth, because all natural languages are not used to being so powerful. We often hear people promise to do something in the future, or do nothing, and the result is often business as usual. At this point, perhaps only the power of religious fanaticism can be compared with it. Besides, it seems that everything is an insurmountable habit. You can swear, swear, praise and guarantee when you send it to a person, but it is still difficult to change a habit in the end.
We also saw the rule or autocracy of habit. Those Indians, who lay quietly on a pile of firewood, set themselves on fire as sacrifices. Not only that, their wives tried to set themselves on fire with their husbands. In ancient times, Spartan teenagers used to whip on the altar of Di Anna, but they wouldn't move. I remember that shortly after Queen Elizabeth ascended the throne in England, an Irish rebel who was sentenced to death asked the Queen's representative to hang him with a cane instead of a noose, because the rebellion before the hair was divided was hanged with a cane.
There are many examples to prove the mental and physical power of habit. Therefore, habits can dominate a person's life, so people should strive to form good habits. There is no denying that the habits formed from childhood will be perfect. We call it education, and education is only an early habit. So we can see that compared with the future, the young tongue is the most flexible, easy to learn all kinds of languages and sounds, and the joints are very flexible when exercising, and it is easy to display various postures and movements. Indeed, when you get older, you can't move freely. Some people are open-minded but not closed-minded, ready to accept new knowledge and constantly improve themselves, but this is rare. . If a person's habit power is strong enough, then in a solid state, if there are examples to follow, companions to comfort, competition to inspire and honor to build, then the power of habit will be very great in this place.