Xu zhimo
193 1 year 1 month 65438+9 years, Xu zhimo flew from Shanghai to the Peking union medical college auditorium to listen to Lin's lecture on architectural art. In addition to carrying more than 40 kilograms of mail, Xu Zhimo is the only passenger on the plane. On the way, I bumped into a hill near Jinan, and a generation of poets died unfortunately at the age of 36. That night, it was raining, as if mourning the early death of a talented poet.
There are three women in Xu zhimo's life His original match was Zhang Youyi, his parents' life and the words of a matchmaker. Their love is short-lived and fleeting. As a layman studying abroad, this love exists in name only. Later, on the road of Xu Zhimo's love, she met a quiet woman Lin and a beautiful woman Lu Xiaoman. Because of Lin's calm and realistic side, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman became a pair of talented people and beautiful women.
Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi.
Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi.
Zhang Youyi is four years younger than Zhimo and is the sister of Zhang Junli, a political figure. She was born into a noble family and attended a girls' normal school. It's just that his mother is conservative and thinks that "a woman without talent is virtue, and she can't study if she wants to marry a good family", so she gives up halfway. In his later years, Xiaoyi once said, "Of all the women he met in his life, maybe I love him the most." . However, Zhimo failed this woman, because he looked down on her and always thought that the marriage broke down because the feet and suits didn't match and people from two different worlds couldn't get along. In fact, the young instrument is a celestial foot, and it is not wrapped around the foot at all. It was also advanced at that time.
They got married in 19 15, when they were 16 years old. They got married soon and had a son. 1922 divorced in Berlin. Kim and Wu are witnesses to their divorce.
192 1 When Xiaoyi went to England to accompany her, Zhimo was extremely cold to her. At that time, Xu Zhimo was enthusiastically pursuing Lin, refused to accept Zhang Youyi's earnest persuasion and obstruction, and filed for divorce. Although pregnant, Zhang Youyi generously agreed to Xu Zhimo and ended their seven-year marriage.
Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi.
After the unfortunate death of Xu Zhimo, as his ex-wife, Zhang Youyi did her duty without any regrets, raised their children and took care of her ex-husband as a daughter-in-law. The complete works of Xu Zhimo published in Taiwan Province Province were also edited by Zhang Youyi himself.
Zhang Youyi returned from abroad, entered Soochow University to teach German, served as the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank, and opened a Shang Yun clothing company on Jing 'an Temple Road in downtown Shanghai, which became popular in Shanghai. This woman despised by her own man has become a respected strongman.
On the eve of liberation, Zhang Youyi went to Hongkong. 1953, Hong Kong Chinese medicine practitioner Su Jizhi proposed to Zhang Youyi. She wrote to the United States and asked her son Xu Jikai for advice. The son wrote back: "The mother is like a person, and the son asks his father to do things."
After Zhang Youyi lived with her second husband for 28 years, Dr. Su died, and Zhang Youyi went to the United States to visit his son's home, where he spent the last few years of his life. 1988 died in new york.
Xu Zhimo and Lin
Xu Zhimo and Lin
Lin is seven or eight years younger than Xu Zhimo, who met Lin by chance at the League of Nations Association in London. Lin was sixteen years old and studied in a girls' middle school in London. She is as beautiful as flowers and has a good literary accomplishment. She not only has the legacy of traditional family in China, but also has the natural and graceful demeanor of western women. She fell in love with Zhimo at first sight, and they both fell in love.
The arrival of Zhang Youyi awakened the men and women in love. Shima decided to divorce Friendship, but Yin Hui returned to China with his father, leaving Shima alone. Mo Chi then rushed back to China to find Yin Hui. When Shima finally found Yin Hui, she was already the daughter-in-law of Shima's teacher Liang Qichao. Yin Hui hesitated for a long time between Zhimo and Liang Sicheng, and finally chose Liang Sicheng. The reason is that Yin Hui doesn't want to be someone else's mistress, but thinks she is honest and honest and a reliable partner. Zhimo was hit hard, and he spent some time in extreme pain.
In the relationship between Lin and Liang, Liang Sicheng's father, Xu Zhimo's teacher and Liang Qichao played a great role. He knew that Xu Zhimo was still madly in love with Lin and returned to England after completing the divorce procedure in Berlin. Without Lin, he would never find his home. I was also afraid that the old relationship between them would make Liang Jia unbearable, so I sent Liang He to study in the United States, avoiding Xu Zhimo, and wanted to wait until they forgot about it before holding the wedding. In fact, this is also a wise move. In the meantime, Zhimo also wrote such a sentence: "I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people, I will get it, I am lucky, I can't, I will die, that's all."
Lin
Yin Hui is a woman that Zhimo really likes in her life, and Zhimo has been keeping in touch with Yin Hui. On the day when Shima died, Yin Hui was still waiting for Shima at the airport. After Zhimo's death, Yin Hui was obsessed with the old feelings and proposed to set up Zhimo Literature Award, Zhimo Library and Zhimo Memorial Hall to commemorate this great poet forever.
A month and a half after Xu Zhimo's death, Lin wrote in a letter to Hu Shi: "I miss him very much these days, but if he is alive, I am afraid I can't change him." In fact, it is too impossible. " Maybe that's why I don't love him enough. "
1 April, 9551day, a talented woman Lin Hui died of incense. He is 5 1 year old. She used her life to keep her cold marriage, and jade became a delusion in the hearts of countless men. She can only live coldly in the legend of the Republic of China. When Jin learned of Lin's bad news, he wrote sadly, "The poem waterfall is beautiful in April." On the tombstone designed by Liang Sicheng, she said to herself countless times before her death: "Here lies Lin, an architect, poet and mother."
Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman.
Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman.
1925, Zhimo met Beijing beauty Lu Xiaoman. At that time, Lu Xiaoman was Wang Geng's wife and he was a friend of Zhimo. The wedding was presided over by Xiaoman's parents. At that time, Liang Qichao, as a witness of marriage, once lambasted Xu and Lu for "not knowing love". Lu Xiaoman's "elopement" made her ex-husband Wang Geng never get married again, and Xu Zhimo, who later committed herself, said goodbye gently because of her extravagance.
Xiao Man and Wang Geng are incompatible in character and have no feelings. Because of his busy work, Wang Geng often has no time to take care of Xiaoman, so he often lets Zhimo play with Xiaoman. At that time, Zhimo was in the pain of lovelorn, and needed the nourishment of love badly. Xiaoman's talent attracted Zhimo, and he found comfort in Xiaoman. In this way, this pair of bad karma mandarin ducks met together and wiped out their feelings.
Shima and Xiaoman, one is a married woman and the other is a married man. Their parents and friends strongly opposed their marriage. However, they are desperate to find their own love.
1925, Zhimo traveled to Europe. On his second trip to Europe, he wanted to visit Tagore, a famous writer, but he received the news that Xiaoman was dying on the way. He immediately returned to China. While in Shanghai, with the help of Shima's friend, Wang Geng promised to divorce Xiaoman and set Xiaoman free. Since then, the relationship between Xiaoman and Zhimo has developed by leaps and bounds, and they got married 1926.
Lu Xiaoman
After the marriage, with Xiaoman's support, the output of Zhimo's poems increased sharply, and poetry collections such as Selected Poems of Zhimo, Night of Cold Jade and Tiger were published successively. They often talk about literature in the evening. They live a happy life.
Lu Xiaoman's life in Shanghai can be divided into three stages: one stage is that before Xu Zhimo's accident, she lived in luxury and let herself go; After Xu Zhimo's accident, she was violently shaken, and people became negative and silent. After liberation, it was the third stage, and she rallied and gained a new life.
193 1 year165438+1At the beginning of October, in order to get a sum of money to make up for the huge expenditure deficit in Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo promised to be the middleman for the house sale in Jiang Baili Yuyuan Garden, so 13 returned to Shanghai from Peiping. Unexpectedly, the couple quarreled as soon as they met. First, because Xu Zhimo urged Lu Xiaoman to go north, but the other party insisted on refusing; Second, because there are more and more scandals between Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui, Xu Zhimo is very dissatisfied; Third, Lu Xiaoman's expenditure is too big for Xu Zhimo to bear. According to Yu Dafu's article, "At that time, Lu Xiaoman didn't listen to advice and lost his temper. He threw his pipe at Xu Zhimo's face, but Xu Zhimo quickly dodged. Fortunately, he missed, and the gold-rimmed glasses fell to the ground and the glass was broken. " In a rage, Xu Zhimo ran away angrily.
After the plane crash, Bao Junjian of China Southern Airlines personally went to the Xu family to give Lu Xiaoman good news. Lu Xiaoman didn't believe it at first, thinking that Xu Zhimo could not continue to fly. After confirmation, she fainted. When she woke up, she cried until her tears ran dry.
After Xu Zhimo's accident, Lu Xiaoman suffered the most, and she was also criticized. Some of Xu Zhimo's friends don't want to associate with her anymore, and she doesn't go out to socialize. After Shima's death, she never went to a banquet place again, and presented him with portraits and flowers every day.
She gave up opium and began to write articles and translate foreign classics.
1April 3, 965, Lu Xiaoman was buried by bitterness. She left no will. Her last wish was to be buried with Shima, but it didn't come true. It is said that Xu Zhimo's family, Xu Jikai, the son of his ex-wife Zhang Youyi, disagreed.
Xu zhimo bid farewell to Cambridge
I left quietly, just as I came gently; I waved my hand gently and bid farewell to the clouds in the western sky.
The golden willow by the river is the bride in the sunset; Beautiful shadows in the waves ripple in my heart.
Green grass on the soft mud, oily, swaying at the bottom of the water; In the gentle waves of He Kanghe, I would like to be an aquatic plant!
That pool under the shade of elm is not a clear spring, but a rainbow in the sky; Crushed in floating seaweed, a rainbow-like dream is precipitated.
Looking for dreams? Support a long pole and swim back to a greener place on the grass; Full of starlight, singing in the splendor of starlight.
But I can't play the piano, just a farewell flute; Summer insects are also silent for me, silence is Cambridge tonight!
I left quietly, just as I came quietly; I waved my sleeve without taking away a cloud.
1928. 1 1.6 China Sea