Father is the most important person in my life. A good family style has immortal vitality like bright sunshine, and a lost father's love is
Father is the most important person in my life. A good family style has immortal vitality like bright sunshine, and a lost father's love is like a long-brewed Maotai. The tireless teachings, such as yesterday's movies, flashed in my mind, recalling unforgettable scenes, and I couldn't help thinking a lot, and my eyes were hazy, and I returned to that dusty time ... —— Inscription
Toughness is like a mountain, tolerance is like the sea, and family style helps me grow.
? In the 1970s and 1980s, it was difficult for a father with a salary of only tens of yuan to support a family of eight. The poverty in the family can be imagined. Several acres of farmland are the only support of this family. At that time, if there were many men and strong laborers at home, neighbors would be willing to help each other with farm work. Just because my family has only one brother and five sisters are not "women", the neighbors are unwilling to cooperate with my family and say some sarcastic words. Every time I encounter heavy farm work, such as plowing, pulling a row of carts and shaking the diesel engine, my mother secretly tears.
I remember it was a busy farming season. My father, who watered the ground all night at night, took advantage of his lunch break, put on a platoon car, slung the rope over his shoulder, and hunched over with a car full of fertilizer. When climbing the mountain, his predecessor almost climbed to the ground, and my three-year-old brother and I pushed on both sides. My mother has a farm tool and a wound in her eye. My strong father never said a word of complaint, but taught us to understand our neighbors. As long as we face it bravely, no matter how difficult it is, we will survive. Up to now, I still remember the scene of my sisters pulling and pushing the car and shaking the diesel engine wildly. What puzzles me even more is that sometimes my father will try his best to help those who "hurt" us (enthusiastic fathers often help people mediate disputes), so that my mother can complain a lot. When dealing with mothers, it is often a phrase "take a step back and broaden the horizon, let one step broaden the horizon".
Perhaps because of the hardships of "ten years of cultural catastrophe", I am really surprised that my father's mind is so broad! It can be said that "a big belly can hold the unbearable things in the world"! And always educate us to be open-minded, optimistic, open-minded, strong and tenacious, and always have a clear conscience and an open mind. The Spring Festival couplets written by my father are still printed in my mind. My father's words and deeds have made me do things in a down-to-earth manner all my life and be an honest and upright person. In particular, the family motto of "everything is inferior, only reading is high" runs through the life of my father's tutor. No matter how tired and poor you are, you can't delay education.
In that poor era, the news that my father thrifty trained six children to go to school once became a joke, but my father totally ignored it and still taught us to concentrate, cherish time and study hard. Only books can change our destiny. I remember that after I broke my right arm at the age of 8, my father taught me to write with my left hand in order not to delay my studies. In the end, it did not affect the performance, but jumped one level more than the peers. The scene of my father accompanying me to study is still vivid. Under the influence of my father, books have become our sisters' favorite, and reading and studying have become our family's daily routine.
? The title of "scholarly family" has since belonged. In order to live up to our father, we will pass it on from generation to generation. ...
Ink moistens the heart, the sound of the piano transmits words, and the true feelings transmit strength.
? My father is a well-read Chinese teacher, who can play chess, calligraphy and painting, and is also the literary backbone of the school. Although I have never seen my father perform on stage, my sister and I are sitting on a small stool and listening attentively to the melodious erhu piano or the cadence bamboo allegro, which is really no less than the stage.
My father, who loves writing, often sorts out a lot of life insights, such as "reconcile anger, be careful about what you say, be careful about making mistakes, and be considerate when things go wrong", "whose stove doesn't smoke, which spoon doesn't touch the bowl, and since we get along together, the details won't bother us" and so on. I also have a thick doggerel written by my father. In order to quit smoking, he wrote a lot of quit smoking recipes, but because of many things at home, it could not be realized. He said: "lighting a cigarette has many ideas."
My father's calligraphy is so good that he can write plum blossom seals with both hands. My calligraphy benefits from my father's guidance. In order to let me finish the task of practicing calligraphy, my father often accompanied me late into the night and personally made me a small stove and supper. The delicious chopped green onion and egg soup still warms my heart. In order to make me not stick to a pattern, he made a layer of clay on the plastic sheet and dipped it in water to write, which not only saved newspapers and ink, but also boldly raised his pen. In order to verify whether the writing brush is powerful, I often quietly and suddenly pull out a pen from behind. Under the guidance of my father, I can respect regular script, running script and official script. And I know a little about many fonts such as Song, Bold and Stereo.
When writing and selling Spring Festival couplets, my father always encouraged me: We should not make money, but practice our hands with other people's paper. In order to live up to my father, as a girl, I am not afraid of rough roads, others making fun of my eyes, or freezing my father and daughter to splash ink on the same stage in the cold. I remember that winter, my father and I braved the cold and rode to the roadside stall in Quzhou County. Even if no one stayed, my father kept me practicing and grinding for me. His hands have been shaking because of the cold weather. Looking at my attentive and swollen hands, my father nodded with relief and gave me an approving look. With the encouragement and trust of my father, the immature handwriting is becoming "mature" day by day. "Sword front comes from sharpening, plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold" is what my father said to me the most.
? Now, wherever I go, hard pen and brush will make up for me. A few years ago, I won the prize in the calligraphy competition, wrote an advertisement for the wall newspaper in the village lane, and now there are small tofu blocks in the newspapers, which can be regarded as my daughter's meager return to my father! I hope my father can feel something in the spirit of heaven. Father's love is boundless, it is my father's tireless teaching that accompanies me to grow up happily, and it is my father's love as heavy as a mountain and as deep as the sea, which gives me inexhaustible life strength!
The spring breeze melts the rain and the kindness is as heavy as a mountain. My father loved me all his life.
? My father is a life mentor who combines leniency with strictness and has love in strictness. I remember that my sister who went to work was often scolded and punished by my father for coming home late, and my brother who was three years older than me was beaten red and swollen by a twisted rope because of quarreling with me. Every time my sisters are wronged outside, they will definitely not be comforted when they go home. Instead, he will be severely punished by his father. They will sternly warn us that "state-owned countries have their own rules", "Without rules, there will be no Fiona Fang" and so on. As long as they do wrong, their father will never forgive them. If they are punished, they will be beaten. After the punishment, we can use humorous language to inspire and guide us how to solve the setbacks and contradictions in life wisely and optimistically. According to my father's words, "it is my great responsibility as a father to educate you to be self-reliant, learn to be a man and be a well-educated and quality child." In fact, at that time, beating and cursing was another way for fathers to express their deep love for their children.
My father also has a loving side. He often takes the time to patiently teach us some life skills such as rolling noodles, mixing bumps and pancakes, and often tells us jokes he saw in Old Age World or newspapers after dinner, which makes my brother and sister laugh their heads off. Think that an illiterate mother can speak eloquently and tell a lot of life truths from time to time, which is probably the result of her father's far-reaching influence.
Recalling the family democracy meeting every Monday, the six sisters communicated with each other and reported the latest work. Father occasionally criticizes this and praises that. Father injects fresh life blood into children in his own unique way. Educating children, the father is really well-intentioned! Father, my favorite old father, although you have passed away, the children are always looking forward to hearing your unique parent-teacher conference in their dreams! Thanks to my father, although he didn't leave rich material wealth to his children, he gave us a valuable spiritual wealth-a good family style, which is inexhaustible. ...
There is a kind of love in the world that can't be replaced by any emotion, and that is great fatherly love! There is a feeling in the world that no language can match, that is, blood is thicker than water! Father's love always gives me strength, gives me the motivation to move forward and warms my life. Dear father, how are you now? No matter where you go, you will always be the sun in your child's heart and you will never be able to give up! Father's Day is coming, and children can't repay their father's love like a mountain. They can only pray for you silently in their hearts. Bon voyage and rest in peace in heaven!
Dear father, in order to empower the "Chinese dream" of great rejuvenation, children will let the good family style of truth, goodness and beauty permeate the family and pass it on from generation to generation. ...