Question 1: The reason why you like Lin Daiyu! Lin Daiyu is first of all a woman who is smart on the inside and beautiful on the outside. Tears a little, panting slightly. Quietness is like a delicate flower shining on the water, action is like a weak willow supporting the wind. The heart is one more orifice than the stems, and the disease is like Xizi, which is three points better. "This poem fully reflects the beauty and temperament of Daiyu, which is blurred, dreamy, morbid, weak, and blended with movement and stillness. I can't find a better adjective to comprehensively describe such refined beauty and charm, or "unparalleled appearance, unique appearance." "Extraordinary and beautiful", or "This woman should only exist in heaven, but how many times can we see her in the human world!" "The beauty of Lin Daiyu is also reflected in her talent and rich poetic temperament.
Also, my surname is Lin.
Question 2: Why do you like Lin Daiyu? Lin Daiyu's character determines it even more The display of male chauvinism and infinite love can give men a sense of satisfaction
Question 3: Why do I like Lin Daiyu? Last week, our company listened to Chairman Zhou's "Character" in the new issue of "Everyone Forum" "Life", I was asked who I liked most among the women in "Dream of Red Mansions", I said Lin Daiyu, and the reasons are listed below. Someone once did a survey and asked who would you marry among the beautiful women in the Grand View Garden in "Dream of Red Mansions". As a wife? As a result, the shrewd and pragmatic Xue Baochai ranked first, while the sentimental and talented Lin Daiyu only received a pitiful 5 votes. It can be seen that the saying "Marrying a wife should be married to Shi Xiangyun" is no exception. Most people think that Lin Daiyu is difficult to maintain, but they don’t know that there are few men in the world who are worthy of the pure and innocent sister Lin. Modern men think this way: since it is easy to get divorced if you find a beautiful wife, it is also easy to get divorced if you find an unattractive wife. , then why not find a beautiful one. Women think this way, since you can't get love with a rich man, and you can't get love with a poor man, then why not find a rich man? A manifestation of pragmatism. She has no realm and is not worthy of appreciation. Many people cited Lin Daiyu's various shortcomings: she was useless, suffered from a lot of illnesses, had a bad temper from time to time, and ended up being nervous to bury her. Hua, speaks harshly... But Xue Baochai is completely different. She is healthy, gorgeous, steady and generous, and mellow. From the standards of choosing a spouse, she is not bad at all. However, I think that between Chai and Dai, Lin Daiyu is more suitable to be a wife. Just imagine that Jia Baoyu, who has always been among daughters and has a lot of knowledge, finally fell in love with Lin Daiyu. It can be said: "Let him drown three thousand people and only take a drink." There are beautiful women. There are not too few women, there are not too few women who are wise, and there are not too few women who have a poetic inner world. Beauty, kindness, and sincerity constitute the most precious essence of human nature. There are very few women. And Daiyu is one of them. No matter whether it is ancient or modern, some people tend to attribute many sins to women, especially beautiful women, so there is a word. ——Beauty is a curse. It seems that men only become bad because of their obsession with women. In fact, the person who says this is the most ignorant and selfish, because a person's nature cannot become bad because of a woman's beauty. Such beauty goes far beyond the character performances you see in TV series. This kind of beauty covers the characters' faces, expressions, and the temperament, mood and character that shine from within. There are many beautiful people and lovely women. There are many women, but there are very few beautiful and lovely women. She is so lovable and can touch a chord of goodness and beauty deep in the soul of people, especially men. Those who love her will become clean and beautiful. Aesthetic. This kind of beauty is not the kind of cold beauty, not the kind of domineering beauty, not the kind of beauty that makes people jealous, but the kind that makes people pity, love and awe at the same time. Her beauty can be seen from a distance but not played with up close. She has "two eyebrows that look like they are frowning but not frowning, and a pair of eyes that look like weeping but not weeping." The state of mind gives rise to the worry of two dimples, and the disease of tenderness attacks the whole body. Tears a little, panting slightly. When she is quiet, she is like a beautiful flower shining on the water; when she moves, she is like a weak willow supporting the wind. "The heart is one more orifice than the stem, and the disease is like Xizi. She is three points better." She has an unparalleled beauty, and is extremely handsome. When she cries, the crows on the nearby willow branches fly away, unable to bear to hear her anymore. I remember reading somewhere that the highest state of Chinese aesthetics is morbid beauty, just like the moon is missing, the jade is scratched, and the piano is wrinkled. Her body is indeed morbid, but her mind has nothing to do with morbidity. It is only because of the deep love that makes the little tempered. Sentimentality is not depression. Sentimentality is just a temperamental person who is more easily moved. It is better than being ruthless and unjust. Lin Daiyu is the most natural to cry when she is sad! Just laugh. Lin Daiyu's heart is clear, even if she is sad, it is just sad. There is no dark thought in her spiritual world. "Who will be buried next year?" "Many of her poems reflect her negative, pessimistic and overwhelmed attitude towards life and feelings, because she pays more attention to the emotional world and everything else is dust. At the same time, she is uncontested and detached. Her character of being kind to others makes her worthy of her reputation as a lady. The purely spiritual world she understands is already a realm that ordinary women cannot reach.
When a person lives in this world, he must first do it for himself. What do you want him to focus on? Doesn’t she care about the people around her? Do you want her to care about the common people she has no chance to understand, and then lead all the oppressed people to overthrow that unreasonable society? I laugh. Lin Daiyu is also good at managing families, but she is unwilling and has not shown this... >>
Question 4: Why do you like Lin Daiyu? I like her tender temperament. .
It is said that women are made of water, and this is clearly demonstrated by Lin Daiyu.
No matter what the environment is, she always carries a bit of shyness, a bit of pride, and a bit of self-esteem. It makes people look at him with pity and love.
It can completely satisfy the inner needs of a man. He always imagined that she would be like a bird clinging to him, surrounding him, and he would feel great inner satisfaction.
(PS: I don’t like Lin Daiyu! I think women should be like Xue Baochai, independent, confident, and self-reliant! In terms of temperament, I think Xue Baochai is much better than Lin Daiyu.) It’s just a personal opinion.
Question 5: Why do many people dislike Lin Daiyu? A real girl is innocent and innocent. Every smile, every sigh and every irritation comes from her nature without any scheming.
What Cao Gong calls "daughters" refers specifically to those beautiful but fragile, gentle and easily wounded souls, who tend to be artistic and stay away from politics.
Daiyu is the "daughter" in "daughter".
First of all, she is warm. There is a lot of affection under the cold surface. Her warmth is the expectation of a close friend in the boudoir on a rainy night. It is the daily routine of listening to Baoyu's nonsense and laughing and saying "fart". It is the warmth of waiting for swallows. After flying back under the eaves, Fang took the stone lion and leaned out of the curtain with gentleness. Although he suspected that someone was hiding an adulterer, he had seen too many words criticizing or lamenting that Daiyu could do nothing but shed tears. It is a pity for those who play with words. Not as good as Wang Xifeng, Sister Feng has something to say: Lin and Xue can be a pair of arms, but it is a pity that one will fall when the wind blows, while the other hides his stupidity and clumsy.
In fact, Daiyu doesn’t hide her foolishness and clumsiness!
From the first moment when he entered Jia's house, he paid attention to everything, fearing that he would make a wrong step and make people talk. He even quietly changed his tea-drinking habit and followed the habits of Jia's house. Even though Jia Mu was doting on her, she wouldn't ask the kitchen to make white fungus and bird's nest porridge just to take care of herself. She would rather accept Baochai's hidden help.
Even if she is not a sick beauty, Daiyu can only keep her duties as a girl, learn to read and do needlework. Even if you have great talent, who can recognize it? Then you have the opportunity to take care of your family, but it's like exploring the spring, first you have to be teased by a dog slave! He is the most ridiculous dog slave. After being humiliated, have you learned to behave and realize that you are a dog in vain?
Many people can't see or even hate Daiyu's tears. I don't understand their reasons. , just as I don’t understand the reason why I shed tears for Daiyu.
I remembered that I once told people vehemently that we have no right to have feelings about people other than ourselves, let alone express opinions.
I remembered their fierce opposition and their acknowledgment that they had no right to express their opinions, but they strongly reserved the right to express their opinions.
Maybe, I finally found the reason why Daiyu’s tears are so annoying. As soon as Daiyu's tears fall out, they no longer belong only to herself, but to everyone who sees her tears. The tearful Daiyu is not herself, but everyone who sees her tears.
We first live in the eyes of others. When we cry, we must first give others a legitimate reason to cry!
The old lady loves Daiyu because Daiyu is the orphan of her little daughter who loves her the most.
Madam, the grandmothers love Daiyu because the old lady loves her granddaughter.
The sisters gave way to Daiyu because Daiyu was better than them, because the old lady doted on Daiyu more than they doted on them.
Only Baoyu loves Daiyu not because the old lady loves Daiyu more than herself. Only Baoyu loves Daiyu not because of Daiyu’s talent. Only Baoyu loves Daiyu without caring about Daiyu’s petty nature. My son, only Baoyu, fell on the bed, forgetting the pain in his buttocks, and said to Daiyu: I have lied to them, you are a poisonous sun, what are you doing here...Only Baoyu loves Daiyu , just because Daiyu is Daiyu.
Daiyu’s tears are just because she is not sure about the outcome of love. How could she, who is as smart as ice and snow, not know that if she gives up, she can say goodbye to tears!
Know what you can't do, do it knowing you will die, and use pride and dignity to crush the cowardly instinct of "an ant is still greedy for life".
Once the door was closed, Qingwen was too lazy to open the door, but Baochai came out. Daiyu hid in the shadow of the tree and watched. She looked at the door that was closed again. She was sensitive. How could such fragile nerves endure such neglect? When she cried, thousands of beauties shared the same sorrow. A little tear wrote the sadness of the funeral song, "It is not like a brocade bag to collect the beautiful bones, but an embryo of pure land to cover the romantic flow."
" Under the screen window, I have no chance, but in the loess ridge, how can you be so miserable?" Dang Baoyu read out these lines of poetry unintentionally. But she hurriedly said something away. Perhaps she had already expected that their story would end with a sigh of "How miserable are you?" She was scared, but there was nothing she could do. I can only avoid mentioning it from a distance.
Fate arranged that she was just a passerby.
She worked hard to live in an era that did not belong to her. Her knowledge was not ordinary, and her mind was as delicate as dust. Grand View Garden is picturesque all year round, but in her eyes it is just a city of sorrow. In the eyes of others, she was a woman who loved to cry. They gradually became accustomed to her tears and allowed her to sit and weep secretly. No one in that Grand View Garden was her confidant. Only one precious jade will be buried with her and she will read "The West Chamber" together. So when she heard Baoyu angrily say to Xiangyun: Sister Lin never says such bastard words. She was sad and happy, surprised and amazed. Secretly recognize him as a confidant. However, it was destined from the beginning that their love would never end. Like Baoyu, he doesn't want to leave his daughter's country. He wants to be immersed in the blooming and falling of flowers all his life, guarding the beauty he praises... >>
Question 6: Do you like Lin Daiyu? ? What's the reason? Lin Daiyu is a typical example of anti-oppression in ancient times. However, due to the limitations of the times, she is destined to be unable to stick to her beliefs. She is also smart but suspicious by nature, knowledgeable but not sociable, gentle and philanthropic. You must know that men often hate fraternity the most. Men want to It's about concentration.
Question 7: The reason why Dream of Red Mansions likes Lin Daiyu is that her poor life experience can win the sympathy of many people. This is one. The other is her own talents and character that are not in line with the times. . Lin Daiyu's character transcends the times. If she were alive today, she would live very well.
Question 8: The reason why Zhou Shengxian and Lin Daiyu have different attitudes towards love is that they have been exposed to different environments since childhood and received different education. Zhou Shengxian grew up in a market environment, while Lin Daiyu is a typical lady of the family (or Xiaojiabiyu)
Question 9: The reason why literati like Lin Daiyu is because Lin Daiyu has a similar experience of "unappreciated talent"
< p> Question 10: Why is Lin Daiyu said to be mean? Among Lin Daiyu's rich personalities, the one that stands out the most and is most recognized by the world is her so-called "little temper", which means she is sharp-tongued, unforgiving, and picky about everything. In fact, these are all superficial phenomena. Behind her unpleasant personality such as "little temper" and sharp words, what is hidden is her very strong self-esteem. Persistent maintenance of her own self-esteem is the root of all her character. The core part of her character is to respect and maintain human dignity and not tolerate the slightest insult to personality and self-esteem. When "Lin Daiyu left her father to go to Kyoto", she "pay attention every step of the way, always caring, and refused to say one more word or walk one more step for fear of being laughed at." It reflected her strong self-esteem. The reason why Lin Daiyu was like this was because she had "often heard her mother say that his grandmother's house was different from other families. The third-class servants he had seen recently had little money for food and clothing." , is already extraordinary, let alone his home now.” But now that he is in a situation where he is living under someone else's roof, he is not a "serious master", so he seems to be even more cautious, lest his self-esteem be damaged in front of everyone. It can be said that Lin Daiyu came to Jia's house with such a strong self-esteem. Understanding this, we will find that Lin Daiyu's things that people regard as "little temper" are all related to her. Closely related to a strong self-esteem. It is like a tightly stretched string, installed on the extremely sensitive Lin Daiyu. Whether intentional or not, as long as it is touched slightly, it will tremble strongly. The seventh chapter writes about how the Zhou Rui family sent palace flowers to the sisters of the Jia family for Aunt Xue. When they sent them to Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu was in Baoyu's room. The Zhou Rui family smiled and said: "Miss Lin, please let me send flowers to the girl." Wear it." Baoyu said, "What kind of flowers are there? Show them to me." But Lin Daiyu only looked at them and asked, "Are they for one person only, or are they for other girls?" "Everyone has it. These two branches belong to the girl." Lin Daiyu "sneered" at that time and said: "I know that if others don't choose the rest, they won't give it to me." From this, it can be seen that Lin Daiyu does not care about the palace. The value of flowers depends on other people's attitude towards her in this matter. It's not that she thinks the flowers sent are "fake flowers" or undesirable, but she doesn't want others to intentionally put her last and put the challenge ahead. Give the rest to her. Because this hurt her self-esteem too much. If she didn't understand this, she would really think that Lin Daiyu was too stingy towards people and things. Chapter 18, "Lin Daiyu accidentally cut the sachet bag to celebrate Yuanchun's return to the province to celebrate the Lantern Festival", it is written that Baoyu was so happy that he gave all the things he wore to the boys. After Lin Daiyu found out, she thought that the "purse" she gave him had also been taken away by the boys, so she said: "The purse I gave him was also given to them? You can't think about my things tomorrow!" After saying that, he went back to the room angrily and "took it over and twisted it" the sachet he was making for Baoyu. Later, after Baoyu explained to her, he also knew that Baoyu kept the "purse" in his arms, but he was still angry. When Baoyu told her that he was not with her, she cried and said: "You don't have to be nice and evil with me." , if you want to be annoyed, just put down your hands, what the hell is that!" In the end, he couldn't help but ask Baoyu to apologize for his "good sister" and short "good sister". At first glance, Lin Daiyu seems to be really stingy, almost unreasonable, but if you analyze it carefully, you can see that behind her "little temper", it is her beautiful character that is covered up. Her strong self-esteem, which requires exclusive love, respect for people, and maintenance of human dignity, is a manifestation of this strong self-esteem.In the section of Chapter 19, "The Silent Day and the Fragrance of Jade", Baoyu smelled a faint fragrance coming from Lin Daiyu's sleeve, so he pulled it to see what was inside the sleeve. Lin Daiyu said: "It must be the fragrance in the cupboard, or the fragrance on the clothes." The infection is unknown." Baoyu said: "The smell of this fragrance is strange. It is not the fragrance of those fragrant pancakes...". Lin Daiyu sneered and said: "Don't I also have some 'arhat' or 'real person' to give me some incense? Even if I get the strange incense, I don't have any brothers or brothers to make flowers, flowers, frosts and snows for me." All I have is those vulgar fragrances." When Baoyu wisely avoided the topic, she said again: "I have strange fragrances, do you have 'warm fragrance'?" Baoyu couldn't understand it for a while, so he asked: " What's the 'warm fragrance'?" She smiled and said: "Idiot, idiot, if you have jade, they will have gold to match you. If they have the 'cold fragrance', you don't have the 'warm fragrance' to match it." Later? Still Baoyu can solve the problem. Everyone knows that the person with the "cold fragrance" in "A Dream of Red Mansions" is Xue Baochai, and the "family" Lin Daiyu mentioned is of course Baochai. From here Lin Daiyu has shown to be thoughtful and extremely sensitive.
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