In a sense, the birth of a smart and healthy baby depends largely on the father. Therefore, Doudou mother reminds all prospective fathers to take the responsibility of "pregnancy" with their wives and actively participate in prenatal education.
In life, we will see such a phenomenon. Some babies will laugh even if they are teased by unfamiliar women, while fathers will cry when they tease him, let alone other men. This is precisely because children are unfamiliar with male voices for some time from fetus to birth.
In order to eliminate children's distrust of men, including fathers, Doudou suggested that prospective fathers take part in prenatal education. Below, Doudou Ma will recommend several prenatal education methods suitable for prospective fathers.
First, talk about prenatal education
Acoustical research shows that the fetus is most suitable to listen to low-and medium-frequency sounds in the womb, while the male voice is mainly low-and medium-frequency sounds. Therefore, the father insists on speaking to the fetus in the womb every day, so that the fetus can be familiar with his voice, which can cause the most positive reaction of the fetus and is conducive to the intellectual and emotional stability of the fetus after birth.
Father's opening remarks and concluding remarks: At the beginning and end of the speech to the fetus, the father should speak to the fetus in a soothing language that can promote the fetus to form self-awareness. The opening remarks and closing remarks can be designed as follows: The language of the opening remarks is: "Baby (or nickname), I am your father, I will talk to you every day, and I will tell you everything beautiful in the outside world." At the end of the conversation, encourage the fetus: "study hard, baby. You are a smart child. I hope everything I teach you will be useful to your future life." Ok, that's all for today. Bye! "If possible, the father should talk to the fetus every day, which can deepen the feelings with the baby.
The specific method of talking to the fetus The husband can let the pregnant wife sit in a spacious and comfortable chair, and then the wife will say to the fetus, "Good boy, dad is nearby. Do you want to hear what he has to say to you? " At this time, the husband should sit 50 cm away from his wife, start the conversation with a calm' tone', and then gradually raise his voice as the conversation unfolds, so as not to make a high voice at once to scare the fetus.
It is best to conceive the topic of teaching in advance. First, draft a small speech. The content of the manuscript can be a beautiful and moving story, a pure nursery rhyme, an ancient poem with simple content, or you can talk about your work and your understanding of things around you. Tell the children the beautiful new world outside with poetic language and fairy-tale artistic conception.
Mother Doudou's intimate words: Love for the baby is the most important tool for the prospective father to have a dialogue and prenatal education. After the baby feels your love, he can grow up happier.
Second, emotional prenatal education.
Emotional prenatal education is to adjust the mood of pregnant women, make them forget their troubles and worries, create a fresh atmosphere and a harmonious state of mind, and promote the good development of fetal brain through the role of mother neurotransmitters. As a husband, he has an unshirkable responsibility in emotional prenatal education, and should pay attention to the following aspects:
1, be a "logistics minister"
A pregnant wife has to bear the nutrition of two people, and life is very tired. If the nutrition is insufficient or the appetite is poor, it will not only make the wife physically weak, but also seriously affect the intellectual development of the fetus. Because, the material basis of infant intelligence formation, 2/3 is formed in embryonic period. Therefore, the husband should care about the nutrition of his wife during pregnancy and try his best to be the "logistics minister" of his wife and fetus.
2. Enrich the taste of life
In the morning, accompany my wife to take a walk in the park, Woods or fields with fresh environment, do morning exercises, and ask her to bask in the sun during the day. In this way, the wife will also feel the warmth and thoughtfulness of her husband and feel at ease.
Step 3 be humorous
Because the wife's hormone secretion changes greatly after pregnancy, there are all kinds of uncomfortable pregnancy reactions, so her mood is unstable. Therefore, it is particularly necessary to talk to my husband. At this time, the only way for a husband to stabilize his wife's mood is to comfort and enlighten her with humorous language and jokes.
4. Assist the wife in prenatal education
The husband's thoughtfulness and concern for his wife, and the father's touching and "talking" to the fetus are vivid and effective emotional prenatal education. The sweet words of Doudou's mother: the good mood of pregnant mommy is the best prenatal education for the baby. The prospective father's love for his wife will be indirectly passed on to the fetus, and the baby who grows up in love will be healthier.
Third, touch prenatal education.
When pregnant for 6 months, the pregnant woman's abdomen can obviously touch the head, back and limbs of the fetus. Touching prenatal education is an effective way to promote the intellectual development of fetus and deepen the emotional connection between parents and fetus.
Operation method: It is a good time to caress prenatal education after getting up and going to bed, and it should be avoided after meals. Generally, you can enter it three times a day for about 5 minutes each time. The specific method is that pregnant women empty urine, lie flat on the bed, bend the knee joint of lower limbs to the abdomen, put their feet flat on the bed and relax the whole body. At this time, the pregnant woman's abdomen is soft and easy to touch. The prospective father should first gently touch the abdomen for a while, and then gently press the fetal body with his fingers, which can be done alternately. Some fetuses will react when touched or pressed at the beginning. With the increase of gestational age, the fetal reaction will become more and more obvious. When the fetus is used to shiatsu, he will take the initiative to pick him up. Light touch combined with light finger pressure can distinguish fetal head from round hard, flat back, round soft buttocks, irregular limbs and frequent movements. When patting the fetus on the back, the fetus sometimes turns over and turns its hands and feet. At this time, you can gently touch it with your hand to calm it down.
Mother Doudou's intimate words: when touching prenatal education, the action must be gentle when touching and pressing, so as to avoid accidents caused by overexertion. Some pregnant women often have bouts of abdominal wall sclerosis in the middle and late pregnancy, which may be irregular uterine contractions. At this time, prenatal education cannot be carried out to avoid premature delivery. If the pregnant woman has a bad delivery history, such as abortion, premature delivery, prenatal bleeding, etc. It is not advisable to touch prenatal education.
With the development of modern cutting-edge technology, we found that the fetus has touch and taste at 16 weeks of pregnancy; /kloc-will respond to light in 0/8 weeks, have developed hearing and dream; At 30 weeks, they have the ability to remember and think. It can be seen that the heart and temperament of the fetus are brewed and cultivated in the mother's stomach. So prenatal education is necessary and important!
In the eyes of ordinary people, it is always thought that prenatal education is a matter for expectant mothers alone, but here we want to remind everyone of a very important thing, that is, prospective fathers should also participate in prenatal education! Because, according to a research report, the fetus is more sensitive to boys' low-frequency sounds than girls' high-frequency sounds. Moreover, the prospective father's participation in prenatal education can make the expectant mother feel valued and loved, and the fetus can also feel happy, so that the fetus will become a happy child in the future. Therefore, the role of prospective father in prenatal education is very important.
After the baby is pregnant for 4-5 months, you can start prenatal education. This month, we should give priority to prenatal education with music, with beautiful, melodious and lyrical syllables. Listen to it twice a day for 3-5 minutes each time.
The number of music from May to June can be appropriately increased to two, which can be played alternately; In addition, mothers can also sing children's songs, and parents can exchange kind words for praise of nature. This kind of prenatal education is carried out twice a day for 5 minutes each time.
After 7 months of pregnancy, you can start a formal "class". First, signal the fetus. You can gently press the fetal limb three times or pat the fetus, telling the fetus to start class now, and the baby should listen quietly. Generally, I wake up in the form of talking (telling stories) in the morning and go home to sleep after work in the form of word training or music training at night. This kind of training is usually done once every 5- 10 minutes and three times a day.
Below we provide some prenatal education that prospective parents can do together for your reference:
1, talk to the baby.
The prospective father touches the expectant mother's belly to greet the baby, tells him stories and sings, and teaches him simple knowledge and common sense. This will be of great help to the development of the fetal brain, and the fetus can also feel the care and intention of the father. The gentle voice of prospective parents during pregnancy can stimulate the auditory development of the fetus, enhance the comfort and stability of the fetus, and make the fetus feel "loved".
2, let the baby listen to music
Letting the fetus listen to some beautiful music can stimulate the brain development of the fetus, change the mood of pregnant women, trigger the secretion of benign hormones in the body, and then strengthen the intimacy between the mother and the fetus. However, you should avoid listening to loud music. The rhythm should not be too strong, the volume should not be too high, and there should be no sudden loud noise, so as not to make the fetus uncomfortable or frightened.
3. Expectant mothers should develop good eating habits.
According to clinical cases, if the expectant mother has poor appetite, partial eclipse or abnormal meal time during pregnancy, then the baby will also have partial eclipse, poor appetite and indigestion after birth. In addition, if the expectant mother is lazy, or lacks thinking and action, and the pace of life is irregular, then the child she gave birth to may be the same as her. At this time, the responsibility of the prospective father is to remind the expectant mother to get rid of bad habits and live a healthy and regular life together.
Prenatal education method
1, music prenatal education
Play elegant, beautiful and lyrical music, and pregnant mothers should consciously associate it with the language of listening to songs. Think of the vibrant beauty of nature, a bright tomorrow and all the beautiful things. Such as: a beautiful "lullaby", like a cradle, full of your enthusiasm and good wishes for your children's future! Pregnant women can also let the fetus receive the information of human language sound waves by singing and reciting. It can not only train the fetus, add "notes" to the blank brain, but also cultivate the interest of pregnant women, adjust their emotions to a quiet mental state and act on the fetus.
2. Language prenatal education
As the saying goes, "words must be done", and swearing, swearing and quarreling should be avoided in life. We should strengthen the cultivation of language and literature and enrich, enrich and beautify our lives with beautiful language. In the dialogue between parents and the fetus, care and caress should be fully reflected. Tell the fetus about the changes of natural scenery and the beautiful scenery in front of him, as well as parents' longing for the future life, and tell happy and beautiful fairy tales. The fetus listened quietly and felt safe and comfortable. Let it feel the greatness of parents' love and the emotional harmony between parents. During the conversation, the husband can put his hand on his wife's abdomen to talk with the fetus.
3. Information prenatal education
Including prenatal education in writing, calligraphy and painting, using simple and single vocabulary (Chinese or foreign language). When you talk to your baby, you should associate it with real things, such as apples, pears, cows, sheep and vegetables. Say the shape and color as you speak. When my mother writes or draws, she also draws while writing. For example, if you draw bamboo, you can say, "Draw a round and long bamboo body first, and then draw …".
Step 4 touch prenatal education
Mother lies in bed before going to bed, puts her hands on her abdomen and gently caresses the fetus from bottom to top for no more than five minutes at a time. It can also be done by a prospective father.