My comments on hugging you all winter

On June 65438+1 October1in 2022, at the beginning of the new year, the three of us walked into the cinema with the breath of the new year. My wife and daughter chose "Hug You Through the Winter" in many New Year's Day movies. Perhaps many people have not recovered from the smoke and fear of the epidemic in the small town. After the epidemic, the cinema was scattered, and only twenty people were scattered in the whole movie.

? Embrace you through the winter. A movie with the epidemic situation in Wuhan as the background explains Wuhan under the epidemic situation, and also explains the psychological state and changes of different characters in the disaster. The following is my opinion:

Panic. When a disaster comes, some people's first reaction is not to find a way to deal with it, but to lose their foothold like headless flies. The opening of the film shows the audience the scene of people snapping up at the beginning of the epidemic. Some people in the epidemic regard the epidemic as the end of the world; One shopping seems to last a lifetime. In fact, under the leadership of the party and the government, the supply of all living materials is not a problem at all. Panic can only bring anxiety and anxiety to oneself and others, and add new troubles and burdens to society.

Anxiety. When catastrophe comes, some people even predict the external environment more than the disaster itself, which leads to their own anxiety. Although the film shows the shopping spree, it shows the audience the speeding cars and the traffic jams that follow. The epidemic suddenly came, and people suddenly panicked. Everyone is rushing, rushing home, rushing to escape, rushing to find a corner that they think is safe. In fact, when everyone was "rushing", they slowed down their running speed. Intermittent driving, "road rage" and abuse have caused traffic chaos. Anxiety doesn't help solve the dilemma, it only makes things worse.

Self. When disaster comes, many people think of themselves first, which is an instinct of human self-protection, which is understandable. However, sometimes the opposite is true. What is needed before the disaster is Qi Xin's concerted efforts to minimize the damage and overcome the difficulties. The film shows the inner fluctuations of several characters: ① The first character, Brother Yong (played by Bo Huang), appears outside the hospital waiting for guests. When a medical worker wants to take a taxi, his first reaction is not to pull, but he changed his mind when he saw through the window that the medical worker was still pregnant. I think he must have experienced some kind of ideological struggle. Perhaps, at first, it was "everyone clears his own snow, regardless of others' frost." "He not only sent medical workers, but also became one of the main volunteers. I think it was his humanity that overcame him (such a person should be respected by us, and not everyone can forget himself as soon as something happens). ② In the film, a volunteer who participated in the distribution of anti-epidemic materials stole protein powder while delivering the materials. Brother Yong questioned him and said that the protein powder was used to enhance the immunity of epidemic prevention medical workers. Why did he take it? He said, "They need to enhance their immunity, so I don't need to enhance my immunity when delivering goods? "The next step is to resign. This is a typical battle of self-awareness, and there are many such people in society. They don't understand that their years are calm, and others are carrying the burden.

? Value recognition. Wu Ge (played by Jia Ling), the No.1 female in the film, asked her to join the volunteer team when she first appeared. Her first reaction is that she still needs to earn money to support her family and send her daughter to school, so she has no time to be a volunteer. Someone sends an order online and needs medicine, so she waits for the other party to give enough delivery price before taking the order. She considers her personal needs and puts herself first. But why should I list it separately? The reason is that the motivation to encourage her to join the ranks of volunteers is different, which is worth mentioning alone. While delivering medicine to customer Ye Ziyang (Ye Ziyang, played by Zhu Yilong, is an epileptic and a piano teacher with a good education), Ye Ziyang suddenly had a seizure, and his first reaction was to escape from the scene to protect himself. But after fleeing, her inner kindness prompted her to return, took Ye Ziyang to the hospital, and finally saved Ye Ziyang. When she sent the rescued Ye Ziyang to his downstairs, she was still thinking about money (courier fee plus medical expenses). When the money Ye Ziyang gave her far exceeded the real value she paid, the beautiful ideas in her heart were completely ignited. I think, at that moment, she must feel that her efforts are valuable. She won the respect of others, and respect is sometimes more important than money. At that moment, she must feel that volunteers can bring her more dignity and recognition. She is happy, because she needs this recognition, so she joined the ranks of volunteers without hesitation. In addition, after she became a volunteer, she was recognized by her daughter and called "the most beautiful hero" by her daughter, which made her determined to be a volunteer. Brother Wu's help to Ye Ziyang made Ye Ziyang feel spontaneous, sincere, warm and kind. Brother Wu is like a breeze in summer to Ye Ziyang, who lives at the top of society. Ye Ziyang's praise, reward and respect for Wu Ge are exactly what Wu Ge, who lives at the bottom of society, lacks. I think Ye Ziyang can be called Wu Ge's spiritual mentor. He inspired Wu Ge's beautiful thoughts in human nature and was his guide. Everyone who does good deeds may have different motives and purposes, but why do heroes ask them where they come from and where they are going? Because in the end, they all help others. Here, I want to say that no matter how humble a person is, no matter how low his work is, he should be respected. External conditions should not be the standard to measure a person's quality.

? Honesty. In the film, Li Hongyu (played by Gao Yalin) and Liu Yalan (played by Xu Fan) are bent on saving their own businesses at the beginning of the epidemic. Of course, Liu Yalan also had some bright spots at the beginning (she still insisted on laying off employees and reducing salaries despite domestic troubles and foreign invasion, and was affectionate and righteous to employees), but both of them were thinking about how to tide over their own enterprises, without thinking about the people who suffered from the epidemic. Liu Yalan thought of the money owed by her husband's friend Lao Gao at the critical moment, so he called Lao Gao to urge him to pay his debts. When they were driving on the road, they received a phone call from Lao Gao's daughter, saying that Lao Gao had asked her to return the money when she died (Lao Gao died in COVID-19). At this time, Li Hongyu told his wife Liu Yalan how good Gao was to himself. Lao Gao didn't acquiesce because of his kindness, which made both husband and wife blame themselves. Lao Gao didn't go to sleep as a bad account, and his honesty made them think more about Lao Gao's good. It is precisely because of this that their husband and wife realized that money is sometimes not so important compared with feelings; Because of this, Li Hongyu donated everything from his supermarket chain. Passing on honesty has become the driving force to influence others, and finally it has become that others repay the society with love and dedication.

Marriage. I think that no matter how men and women in marriage combine, they are introduced or free in love; No matter whether the initial feelings are deep or shallow, once you choose to enter the marriage, you must be responsible for the marriage. So, what is responsibility? I think happiness in marriage is more important than maintaining the durability of marriage. A successful marriage must be happy for both parties (happiness includes physical and mental pleasure). Only when both parties are happy can marriage be considered as a responsible marriage. In the film, Li Hongyu and Liu Yalan have been married for many years. On the surface, their marriage is peaceful, and there are no waves. No one betrayed their marriage, they are all running for their families. However, it is hard to say that they are responsible for their marriage and are happy. In the film, after their friend Lao Gao's daughter informed them to pay back the money, Li Hongyu blamed Liu Yalan for ignoring Lao Gao's kindness to him and making him feel sorry for Lao Gao; Liu Yalan said that she never mentioned too much to him; Besides, Liu Yalan spoke of her years of pain-at first, she felt that her husband and daughter looked down on her and attacked her. She went out to work and tried her best to do a good job just to win the respect of her husband and daughter. Obviously, their marriage lacks the necessary respect and communication. Men think that as long as they get enough money back to a woman, they are responsible for her and loyal to her, but Li Hongyu ignores Liu Yalan's independence as a person. It is hard to say that their previous marriage was successful, happy and responsible. Because their marriage is already undercurrent and dangerous. Fortunately, the disaster gave them a chance to re-examine their marriage. Otherwise, if they go forward with misunderstandings and contradictions, it is hard to say that their marriage will last. Even if it lasts for a long time, it is not what marriage should look like. Just a life of mutual understanding.

? Great love. People with great love are not only for the society and the country, but also for small families. Xie in the film is a very caring person. She always thinks of others in her heart. When Xie retired, the hospital planned to rehire her. In order to make up for her lack of care for her small family, she helped her son-in-law to take care of the children and resolutely refused to rehire with high salary. The epidemic came and the country was in danger. When the unit called, she rushed to the front line of fighting the epidemic without saying a word. Such people are needed by the times, the nation and the country. It is precisely because there are so many waves of people that the nation has developed and the country has hope and prosperity.

As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed". For a friendship, a love, a marriage, a family, a nation and a country, the true face of human nature can only be tested in times of crisis. Therefore, sometimes disasters are not necessarily bad things. It can not only test a country's ability to cope with crisis situations, but also unite a country's people and strength and make a country more combative. A movie can't cover everything, but it must be thought-provoking, not just a facade with a grand scene and several traffic stars. It is impossible for a comment and sentiment to comment on everything, and it is just a family statement. Inappropriate places need to be corrected and supplemented by film friends.