This is the source of gender. Although it is a fairy tale, it has a hidden mystery. Men and women have different origins, different characteristics and different natural missions. Men are symbols of great power. They are naturally stronger and rougher than women, more suitable for some heavy work and more suitable for wandering between heaven and earth. Women are symbols of weakness, beauty and kindness. They are smaller than men. A woman is made of a single-minded man, so a woman should be the bone in a man's bones and the meat in his flesh. A man should love her as if he loved his own flesh and blood. And women can't live without men. Women should repay men with broken ribs, relieve fatigue for men with gentle strength, and soothe men's hearts with warm feelings.
Men and women have rigidity and softness, and combining rigidity and softness is the way. Men are often rude and impulsive, while women are gentle and quiet. When a man is rude, a woman is soft. When a man is impulsive, a woman gives him a sobering agent. When women are weak and bullied, men stand up, and when women are hesitant, men make decisive decisions.
God created men and women, not only to make the sexes snuggle up to each other and relieve loneliness, but also to make the sexes complement each other and love each other.
But maybe it's the constant variation of genes. Many men and women in the world are misplaced. Men become like women and women become like men.
So there is masculinity and femininity. Masculine men and feminine women have become the objects favored by the opposite sex.
No matter how the world changes and the two sexes are liberated, some of the essence of men and women will not change, that is, men are the foundation of men, that is, they are atmospheric, masculine, open, decisive, brave and tall, and women are the foundation of women, that is, gentle, intellectual, elegant, generous, kind and beautiful. The charm value of these essences will never be out of date. Simply put, heroes love beautiful women, and beautiful women love heroes. It's just that the requirements for "heroes" and "beauties" are a little high now. A "hero" with brains, knowledge and cultivation, and a "beauty" with wisdom, temperament and self-restraint are the ideal lovers of contemporary people.
If a man and a woman can't recognize their own essence, correct their mentality and highlight their gender advantages, then their life is doomed to be a misplaced life and a failed life.
If a man is timid, haggle over every ounce and accomplish nothing about Nuo Nuo, he will not be a real man, and he will be despised by women all his life, and he will be unable to lift his head when women step on him. If a man is smart, SHEN WOO, open-minded, generous and successful, no woman does not like to worship him. However, due to the defects of the social system, people now equate power with power and wealth. People with power and wealth seem to be real men, and vice versa. Therefore, men nowadays are desperately pursuing fame and power, while ignoring their inner cultivation. We often see some men who look rich and like to constantly show off their wealth and social relations, but they dare not compliment their quality.
In the end, these men only get the favor of women who worship money, but they can't impress those really smart and cultured excellent women. They are often cheated by money worshipers and then dumped.
A man who doesn't know how to be a man is a failed man, and a man who doesn't know how to love a woman will naturally not be loved by a woman. They only know how to seduce women with money, but they don't know how to touch them with true feelings. They only know how to force women with power, but they don't know how to conquer women with charm. The lure of money is only temporary, even if it comes, it is only physical. And the power of true love is eternal, which can make the other person be dead set on himself. The coercion of power can only be obeyed on the surface, and the conquest of charm can make the other party fall at your feet.
This is the difference between the upper and lower realms. The upper realm pays attention to attacking the heart, while the lower realm pays attention to attacking the body.
A woman who doesn't know how to be a woman is also a failed woman. A woman who doesn't know how to love men will only make men hate her. Women often think that being young and beautiful is a weapon to conquer men forever. This is not right. Although young and beautiful can really gain chips in the competition, don't forget that women will get old one day. And the longer people spend together, the lower their requirements for appearance, and the more numb they are. On the contrary, the inner temperament, the other person's spiritual feelings and the degree of love for the other person are more and more important in love. Men and women get along in the end, only to find that temperament and cultivation are the most important. Whether men or women, if you have a bad temper, are self-centered, often lose your temper, slander each other, completely ignore each other's face and self-esteem, and often ignore and care about each other. In the long run, no matter how beautiful you are, no matter how beautiful you are than Pan An, you can't catch each other's hearts. Therefore, a woman who knows how to grasp her heart is a smart woman. Know what your man needs, likes, and loves to what extent, integrate into his whole life, and let him love you from the heart, need you, be inseparable from you, and feel uncomfortable without you. As long as he is satisfied with you, then you will succeed.
Therefore, what a man should be proud of is not how many women's bodies he has occupied and how many women he has had sex with, but that he can make a woman give up all other men for him, persevere and have no regrets.
On the other hand, what a woman should be proud of is not how many men pursue harassing her, but that one man is willing to give up all other women for her, has a special liking for her and is faithful to her.
Men and women, take their positions, show their strengths, support each other, and be very much in love.
But it doesn't mean that men should do great things outside and women should tutor their children, but that men should live a manly life and women should live a feminine life. No matter how big your career is outside, your woman thinks you are not like a man but like a money-making machine. You are a loser. No matter how hard you work at home and how well your children take care of you, your man thinks you are not like a woman but like a nanny. You are a loser. By the same token, men who are not ashamed to eat soft rice or get rich by women show off how rich they are outside, but they still can't hold their heads in front of women. Those women who don't take chastity and virtue seriously at all and flaunt themselves as new women are just cheap things to be played with in the eyes of men, and even they don't want to play.
So, don't flaunt new men and new women, let your woman think that you are a man and you are a woman.