At six o'clock in the evening, my wife called to say that there was a traffic jam on the road and I didn't know how to get back. I looked out of the window. It's raining cats and dogs, mixed with strong winds. After some hesitation, I decided to pick her up by bike.
The road of my wife's company is not easy, and I have to "wade through mountains and rivers" in rainy days. First, we have to go through a culvert. When we got there, as expected, the water was knee-deep and many cars were trapped there. Is it uphill or cart to cross the culvert? Then there are busy sections where people and cars are mixed. In the heavy rain, not only the car can't move, but also the bicycle has to move slowly against the needle. ...
Finally, I took my wife home. The first thing my wife did when she entered the door was to send Weibo and WeChat, which soon attracted a lot of praise. Most of my wife's colleagues and girlfriends are still trapped in the wind and rain at this time. One of them has checked into a hotel and is not going back. They all said that only I would make such a "feat", and other husbands would definitely not ride a bike to pick up their wives in the wind and rain.
People always have a place to shine. Most of my wife's girlfriends are well married. On weekdays, they bask in villas, luxury cars and travel abroad online ... fortunately, I can occasionally provide my wife with some other sun products, otherwise my wife may really have to think about such a question often: Why did she marry such a person in the first place?
A few years ago, I was engaged in the production of promotional videos. A short film can be shot for tens of thousands of yuan and hundreds of thousands. What is the difference? One of the important differences is the amount of shooting. A film of 15 minutes can be cut out in 3 hours, or 30 hours. Of course, the more content, the more room for refinement. Married life is like cutting a movie. The more beautiful clips you leave each other on weekdays, the faster the other person can cut out a movie in his mind, and you are the one who can impress her most. On the contrary, the more times you break someone's heart, the easier it is for you to be cut into someone she hates.
After eight years of marriage, my wife and I had a big fight several times, and the word "Li" flashed by, but we all survived the crisis and never bothered our relatives and friends to mediate. So far, they still mistakenly believe that we have always been respectful. In fact, every time there is almost no room for manoeuvre, we will calm down for two days and look back at each other's performance in recent years, and our anger will gradually disappear.
My wife often thinks of my touching story of picking up people in the rain several times, but I always think of the scene when I got married: I almost ran out of ammunition after buying a house and had no financial resources to go to my wife's house to greet her. We only set four tables of wine to invite friends, but parents, relatives and colleagues didn't invite us ... Such a simple wedding set a number of records for our two families, which is unique in the circle of friends. My wife was able to accept such a hasty wedding and suffered a lot of public pressure. That's all. I should be kind to her all my life.
Therefore, the longer you get married, the more important it is to accumulate impression points. Your performance in anything will be automatically stored in the other person's memory. Play a good role in marriage, not by action, but by thought.