This is not to say that people are not old, but that human nature is like this. That's why Mr. Zheng Banqiao said, "There are few moments of confusion.". Being a man and doing things, sometimes confused, is great wisdom.
Therefore, if there is no absolute deep friendship, don't test others, especially prospective couples who are about to get married. One second, they are still "the mountains have no edges, the world is close, and they dare to die with you", and the next second they may be lost in the sea of people.
Liu Qing met Song Xiao through a friend. Before I met Song Xiao, I dated several times, but each time it was not satisfactory. Only Song Xiao is tall, gentle and humorous, which makes Liu Qing fall in love at first sight, thinking that he has finally met his lover.
And Song Xiao also likes Liu Qing very much, and the fawn in Liu Qing is caught in the sweet talk. At ordinary times, she also sends Liu Qing to work on time, which makes Liu Qing feel safe, so the two sides have plans to get married.
Although Liu Qing has the idea of getting married, she is still very conservative at heart. There are always questions. Is Song Xiao worth entrusting for life?
So I wanted to test my boyfriend and lied to his face that my father was suddenly diagnosed with liver cancer. The doctor said it was hopeless.
To tell the truth, Liu Qing lied that his father had the disease and didn't think deeply. She is mainly a divorced family. She's been talking to her mother, but she doesn't have much contact with her father. Song Xiao knew very little, so she casually said such a disease.
And Ben didn't want Song Xiao, just wanted to try his character and see if he would panic and continue to protect his sense of responsibility.
Unsurprisingly, Song Xiao immediately began to show her determination to Liu Qing, saying that no matter what your family is like, she will support you, love you and marry you, which makes Liu Qing feel very useful, just like telling him the truth tomorrow, and everything will be over.
However, the next day, before Liu Qing told Song Xiao the truth, Song Xiao broke up with Liu Qing directly, which surprised Liu Qing.
Song Xiao's reason is that the burden of liver cancer is too heavy, so let Liu Qing treat his father well and forget their marriage. Besides, liver cancer is hereditary, and he doesn't want to marry Liu Qing for the sake of the next generation.
This is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Liu Qing, but I really know what Song Xiao is.
Song Xiao is still there to express his helplessness. Liu Qing has long turned a deaf ear. He told Song Xiao that his father's liver cancer was just a test, but he didn't expect his fox tail to show up soon.
Song Xiaoxian, who knew the truth, was very angry. How could he lie to me about such a thing? Later, he began to mainly, hoping to get Liu Qing's forgiveness, saying that they were all wrong in this matter, and hoped that Liu Qing would stop pursuing and continue to get married.
However, Liu Qing just replied mercilessly: "Continue to get married? Dream, you are disgusting! "
Many people say that Liu Qing's approach is thoughtless, and this panic itself is wrong, not to mention that the other party will have an ideal answer.
In another place, if Song Xiao told Liu Qing that her father had liver cancer, what would Liu Qing say? Perhaps the answer will not be so kind and loyal, so Liu Qing should forgive Song Xiao.
Having said that, it is not the reason.
I once heard a saying: "If you want to know whether a man really loves you, it is good to have a baby."
However, giving birth to a child to test whether it is true love is too expensive, and the consequences are beyond the ordinary people's ability. Therefore, despite Liu Qing's problems, this is the best way to find the answer.
As Liu Qing himself said, Song Xiao knows that I am a single-parent family and always talks to my mother. If my father really has liver cancer, it has nothing to do with him, and he doesn't need to do anything. I never wanted to inherit these things. But he is very concerned about these, which shows that he still has a lot of reservations about this feeling. The vow of "never parting" that he once said is just an expression.
Marriage is a major event in life, so I don't think we should be too cautious. Although Liu Qing's method is poor, the result is good. I knew at once that Song Xiao was not a lover, so it was good to leave early. I didn't have to wait until I got married to find out. At that time, everything was too late.
Don't test others easily, it's easy to let the cooked ducks fly away, but don't use marriage and life to try and make mistakes. This is a blasphemy against marriage and a disappointment to life. Open your eyes before marriage, never let go of a spark, let yourself wander in happiness and live up to the gift of time.