Yang Shuo is a very strict father who does not allow his children to make mistakes at all, but I do not agree with this view of education. I think parents should communicate with their children calmly.
I saw the relationship between Yang Shuo and his son in "Let's Go", and I felt that this father-son relationship was very tense. Yang Shuo often criticized and criticized his own children from a position of authority, even if The child did not make any mistakes, and Yang Shuo was still very strict.
Whenever I get along with my daughter, we communicate very gently. I don’t dare to yell or scold my child when he makes a mistake. In addition, my daughter is smart and well-behaved and always understands what I say, so our communication is particularly harmonious. In fact, children all have self-esteem. No matter how young they are, they also have their own opinions. Frequent criticism of children can easily dampen their self-esteem and is not conducive to the development of children's character. I think parents should treat their children as friends instead of blaming them from a position of authority.
Many parents think that little kids are ignorant and must be beaten or scolded if they make mistakes before they can correct their mistakes. In fact, this concept is wrong. In today’s enlightened era, , parents’ views on education should also keep pace with the times.
Treat your child as an independent person, not as your own clothes. From the moment the child is born, he is destined to have his own life. It is inevitable that they will make mistakes. Parents can correct them and communicate calmly, but cannot choose violent or harsh methods. Everyone is equal. Although children are young, they also have independent personalities. Parents should show basic respect after making mistakes.
No one can make mistakes. If parents hurt their children's self-esteem because of mistakes, or even put all education above authority, then such shortcomings will only lead to children's low self-esteem and sensitivity, which will lead to poor self-esteem in the future. Very timid and timid.
Children also long to be understood and respected by their parents. Instead of criticizing, they should be encouraged. They should learn to point out their children's mistakes in a tactful way and build their self-confidence and self-improvement, so that children can develop a sound personality.