The old man is 80 years old. Looking for his children for more than 300 yuan a month? To tell the truth, children can save money by playing mahjong once less, and it's not worth spending money on the street less than once 150 yuan?
Gu Renyun: Zhu Dexiao comes first. There is no pain or happiness in life, and life is fair to everyone. Besides, everyone will get old. How you treat old people, your children will do the same in the future. You are a mirror of your child.
As for the octogenarians, it is not too much to ask their children to live in 300 yuan every month. If they don't grow food at home, they can only maintain basic expenses such as flour, rice, oil, salt, electricity, fuel and communication, which is based on the premise of no disaster or disease.
In the past, there was a striking phenomenon that many children were unwilling to support the elderly. For example, one monk carries water, two monks carry water and three monks have no water. In this sense, the two old people should still have food and support. It can be seen from the problem that there are not two children around the old man. Isn't it over if one child is in charge of one? Why doesn't anyone care or ask?
When people get old, it's over. It's a failure of life. Isn't it all the fault of the old man to come to this step?
First, the failure of educating children. The so-called failure of teaching is the fault of the father. Children do not know how to respect their parents, so they do not know how to be filial, which is closely related to their parents' education. In my opinion, once a child doesn't know how to be a man, he doesn't know how to respect the old and love the young, even his own biological parents can ignore him and let his parents force themselves to fulfill their maintenance obligations through legal channels. Raising such a child is the biggest failure in life!
Second, the past two children were not treated fairly. Some parents are like this. Although they only have two children, they can't treat each other equally. They prefer their eldest or second child, and they prefer their son or daughter. For example, in terms of food, clothing, housing, reading and studying, work, language attitude and so on. They always pay attention to one and ignore the other, always care about one and accuse and abuse the other. I love one in every way, but I don't like the other. The last one planted the seeds of hatred for his parents in his heart since he was a child, and one developed the bad habit of eating with his mouth open and reaching for clothes!
Third, both of them are unworthy and unsuccessful children. I feel sad and pathetic when I think about it! Per person per month 150 yuan. 150 yuan also called money? 150 yuan is still called alimony? Besides, two old people, 300 yuan a month, is that enough to eat? Is it enough? Even if the elderly are in the countryside, even if they are farmers, even if they have fields, they are over 80 years old. Can they still plow the fields? Can you still farm? Can you cultivate the land? Moreover, this 150 yuan was reached under the trial of the court, which shows what level the financial resources and family income of these two children are! Needless to say, these two children are lazy and lazy! 150 yuan can also take it?
We discuss this issue not only based on facts, but also to remind those who raise children in society that they must pay attention to their education and growth. We should not only pay attention to children's reading ability and learning ability, but also pay attention to children's learning how to behave. We don't want our children to grow up, but we must let them grow up. Don't wait until they regret it like these two old people.
An elder I know once said that the national policy that farmers over the age of 60 can get tens of dollars a month is really good, which may make those extremely difficult old people live for a few more years.
Our parents raised us from childhood, so we have to adopt our parents to the old age. We smoke fewer packs of cigarettes every month, eat out less, and add the money saved to our parents' living expenses. I believe that our parents' happiness will definitely increase a lot.
Everyone should have a grateful heart, grateful for the kindness of parents, grateful for the concern of neighbors, grateful for the friendship of relatives and friends, and grateful for the beautiful life that society has given us.
People who know how to be grateful will certainly live a good life. People who know how to be grateful are welcome wherever they go. Therefore, as children, we should treat our parents and grandparents with awe, admiration, virtue of love and filial duty. Be kind, have a conscience, set a good image for children, set a good example, and be a useful person to society.